I don't know why we are all still disputing all of this.
From what we could speculate by Ralph's miserable, doughy eyed sullen face for the past couple of months, Faith and Ralph have been fighting for literally months in that little hovel. He has been paranoid about her a-lawging him and kept her off the internet. At the first chance he got, he tried to cheat on her because she cheated on him by masturbating while video calling Chris Kerr in his fucking moldy ass shower. Fuck, she told Kerr that Ralph was raping her/threatening to rape her while she was there before she ran.
There has been months and months of built up contempt, resentment, fighting and lies and you think she's lying when she says he tried to choke her? Getting involved with Faith is the lowest Ralph has ever been financially, mentally and situationally in his life. He didn't deny it when she brought it up with him and texts and neither did Pantsu. Why? Because this shit has been going on, building up for weeks and even Pantsu could see the writing on the wall. Ralph has been violent over less, has been drunk virtually the whole time and he genuinely believed that there was nothing Faith could do to hurt him because all she had left was him.
Yes, Faith is a liar. But Ralph is also a violent alcoholic with paper thin skin who would rather pop a bitch in the mouth than be called tampon breath.