I'd like to reverse the question. How come when men adopt children they are heroes, but when men marry women with children they are "cucks"?
So, as long as the guy doesn't marry the vagina the children were born out of he's a "hero"?
Formula has been encouraged and promoted in the USA because it benefits large companies to sell it. Formula does not benefit mothers and it is inferior to breast milk for babies.
All women have a basic human right to hold their babies and breastfeed them until the age of 2, which is the age recommended by the WHO. This is why I am against modern forms of Capitalism that prevent women from breastfeeding children until the age of 2. Most women are pressured by the design of the infrastructure to prioritize working out of the home instead of breastfeeding until the age of 2. It's not the fault of women, it's the design of the system.
I host my beliefs on a website publicly. I don't have any shame for my beliefs. I've already had plenty of wack jobs try to call CPS on me because I told them to stop telling my children "merry chr-stmas".
This is just more of your internalized misogyny coming through in your writing, especially because you are Christian. You have been brain washed by society that women should be bubbly and happy all the time, that they aren't allowed to be angry or assertive, lest they be called a "bitch". Making women into angels of grace and joy is another form of dehumanization of women.
Christian doctrine is full of that nonsense. In Christianity you aren't allowed to express any negative emotions, especially if you are a woman. It's nonsense.
I recommend you educate yourself on how society controls how women are allowed to express themselves. Free your mind.
New Study: Women Judged More Harshly When Speaking Up Assertively – Press Room (vitalsmarts.com)
It has less to do with father figures and more to do with my rejection of patriarchy.
Staying with one person a long time doesn't mean the relationship is healthy. Most women stay with the same guy because (a) she has agreed that the man is "head of the house"/let's him control things or (b) allows behaviors that are not in line with The Torah.
There aren't too many men to pick from when you don't believe in patriarchy. Chances of finding a guy that follows The Torah and believes in gender equality: 1 in 1,000,000
What a person believes is who they are