See here's the weird thing, at the beginning of their relationship, idubbbz had the power. He convinced Anisa to rebrand from raihnbowkidz to her real name "Anisa Jomha". A very unique name and very bad idea. If you type Jomha in google, you'll find her dad, sister, brother, uncles etc.
On emasculation, he is absolutely whipped. Anisa has doxed Ian not once, but THREE TIMES. Instead of getting upset at her, he's decided to rent a separate home for them to live in. So he's paying mortgage in a home he doesn't even live in and paying rent to someone else. All because of Anisa.