I miss the 2000s in that life seemed so much simpler in hindsight back then, but I'd like to add a caveat to that: I literally entered 2000 as a preschooler and left the decade as a teenager. There's an old Russian saying that goes along the lines of "back when the trees were tall," and I feel like that wholeheartedly applies to my perception of what that decade was like. Personally, I hold a greater attachment to the 2010s because that's the decade I have the fondest memories of (to date). I had so many experiences from 2010-2019 that I never would've experienced in the 2000s (i.e. most of my past romantic relationships, meeting some of my closest IRL friends to this day, sharing experiences with both people like movies, concerts, etc., being a legal adult with all of the benefits that would imply, and so on).
The 2010s also hold a special place in my heart because, despite the technological dystopia we live in, this is also the decade where I joined Kiwi Farms in the first place. So much of my current online habits were developed from the knowledge that I gained from this website. I learned that it's not a good idea to use the same identity everywhere, that sometimes it's not a good idea to publicise the minutiae of what I'm thinking at every single second of the day, and that there are viable alternatives to applications that I used to rely on before their discovery (i.e. Signal, ProtonVPN, Pleroma, Matrix, etc.). On a similar note, there are so many users on this website that I've come to liken to being "friends," (i.e.
@Woke Blue Muttlema,
@Pina Colda 88,
@heatboss,
@Orc Girls Make Due, among countless others). Even if we're not IRL friends, their insight into the various lolcows that we've come across remains valuable because they approached these people from their own perspective based on their life experiences.
It's surreal to me that artists like Keyshia Cole and Mary J Blige are now considered "classic" R&B in a vein similar to people like Whitney Houston and Janet Jackson, but that's the price we pay for getting older. Time's arrow only marches forward, so it's only fair that we march forward with it mentally. If we spend our lives reminiscing over the past, we miss out on what's happening in the present. It might be fucking shitty right now, but that doesn't change the fact that there's happiness to be found even in the bleakest of times. At least, that's the way I see it.
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At a tl;dr level - I miss some stuff about the 2000s, but I'm more than happy to have lived through two full decades because there were so many experiences unique to each time period that I'd never trade for the world.
