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“If I lost weight, I wouldn’t love myself anymore.” What?
Fat Acceptance Movement / Fat Girlcows
- Thread starter AtroposHeart
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Eek. That last spoilered pic is uncanny. The angle of her head, the inflated lips and the dead eyes....ugh. the more you look, the worse it gets.
Cardboard Box Mountain
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Something tells me that if she notices a person drop 50 lb without saying a single word about it she will still be offended.
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If you go look in BP for Momokun, she has the same "build". And Momo has made her lipo suction usage known by this point.
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“You know, your visual loss of weight is really, REALLY triggering me right now and you need to either leave this room, or eat these two large cakes while sobbing and admitting you hate your weight loss and I’m right and you’ll never do it again.”
I’m of the opinion she’d say nothing because most of these gorls are big talk online and even bigger wallflowers IRL. But if she did say something, it might be along the lines of a Concerned Friend wanting to talk to you about your Obvious Eating Disorder. If you say you took up jogging and liked it and that’s how you lost weight, you’ll get a lecture on how Orthorexia Is Deadly and you look Very Thin and Unwell and Diet Culture blah blah.
What kills me is people like this think even turning down a slice of cake in front of them is a direct attack on their person, but they can stroll up and criticize your entire body as long as you’re skinny, even going so far as to tell you you’re too thin to be attractive, real women have curves, you’d look better with a little more booty, so on.
Anyone who’s worked an office knows the big pear-shaped ladies who are always the first to swoop down on the treats trays people bring in, and they feel comfortable saying things like, “You need to eat more dearie, you’re too skinny!” But god forbid you counter that nasty comment with, “maybe you should eat less, you’re too fat.”
One is a kindly-meant bit of advice coming from a friend just wanting to help you, and the other is a Malicious Hate Crime. After all, you can’t be insulting by pointing out someone’s thinness, even if they have an eating disorder you didn’t know about. It’s impossible to insult a thin person, just like it’s impossible to insult a white person. Their privilege makes them immune to hurtful critiques.
Everybody should just mind their own business and not talk about other people’s weight, unless of course you’re a fat girl wanting to dissect a thin girl’s body and explain why it’s wrong. That’s your right, honey!
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Why do so many fatties equate telling someone it might be in their best interests to lose weight, with desire or attractiveness? Most of those conversations with family or friends revolve around concern for a person's health.
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lulz from Twitter:
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Can she reach that deep down there to clean into those yeasty fat folds?
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Ehh bulbous gunt I see, that chin reminds me of Sara
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Legitimately like the first outfit and think it looks good on her. The second just looks uncomfortable. Not the outfit so much, but being in that body looks so claustrophobic.
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'I was hate crimed'.
It's cute when Asians try to get a piece of the victimhood pie. Sorry love, the blacks really hate you so no deal. Worse yet, you're all so damn small with your AZN thin privilege!
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“It’s impossible to be mean to thin people!!”
This is why people get so annoyed with these women. You can’t say, “I’m a human being and I just want respect that any other human being deserves,” then turn around and call someone a skinny stick bitch and say it doesn’t count. Just makes you look a massive hypocrite and a cunt.
Also just lol at the idea that you can’t possibly be hurt by an insult unless the insult has a long and storied past involving institutionalized bigotry. Not even if you have an eating disorder and someone pointing out your weight is horrifically triggering to you. Not even if you lost a tonne of weight out of grief because a parent died. Not even if you lost a tonne of weight because of an illness or cancer.
You can’t be hurt by what I say because you’re thin and I’m not, so I have a right to put you down to make myself feel better!
She also says that all of these things were “past experiences” from childhood or summat, like this doesn’t happen NOW, like you don’t see some woman like her on your feed posting about how The Thins are all X and they all do X and they all hate themselves. And they claim the only person telling them to “eat a sandwich” is their gran, not the rude fat bitch at the office who criticizes your thin body every time you enter the break room, yet drops her donut and reeeeeeees to HR if you clap back with ANYTHING about her. No, you just have to stand there and take it and smile because otherwise you’re a monster.
These kind of extreme BoPo women REALLY do think that thin women float around on clouds and get showered in gifts and compliments all day, don’t they? You know a lot of therapists say that those obese people who try to lose weight because they think their entire life will change and they will become the person they always wanted to be, are always consistently disappointed when they hit their target weight and they’re still the same person, no grand fanfare, no men lining up at the door for dates, no new adventurous lifestyle suddenly happening,
It’s almost like thin people aren’t an ultra-privileged elite caste who swim in gold dust. They’re just normal-sized people who don’t have constant knee and ankle pain.
This is why people get so annoyed with these women. You can’t say, “I’m a human being and I just want respect that any other human being deserves,” then turn around and call someone a skinny stick bitch and say it doesn’t count. Just makes you look a massive hypocrite and a cunt.
Also just lol at the idea that you can’t possibly be hurt by an insult unless the insult has a long and storied past involving institutionalized bigotry. Not even if you have an eating disorder and someone pointing out your weight is horrifically triggering to you. Not even if you lost a tonne of weight out of grief because a parent died. Not even if you lost a tonne of weight because of an illness or cancer.
You can’t be hurt by what I say because you’re thin and I’m not, so I have a right to put you down to make myself feel better!
She also says that all of these things were “past experiences” from childhood or summat, like this doesn’t happen NOW, like you don’t see some woman like her on your feed posting about how The Thins are all X and they all do X and they all hate themselves. And they claim the only person telling them to “eat a sandwich” is their gran, not the rude fat bitch at the office who criticizes your thin body every time you enter the break room, yet drops her donut and reeeeeeees to HR if you clap back with ANYTHING about her. No, you just have to stand there and take it and smile because otherwise you’re a monster.
These kind of extreme BoPo women REALLY do think that thin women float around on clouds and get showered in gifts and compliments all day, don’t they? You know a lot of therapists say that those obese people who try to lose weight because they think their entire life will change and they will become the person they always wanted to be, are always consistently disappointed when they hit their target weight and they’re still the same person, no grand fanfare, no men lining up at the door for dates, no new adventurous lifestyle suddenly happening,
It’s almost like thin people aren’t an ultra-privileged elite caste who swim in gold dust. They’re just normal-sized people who don’t have constant knee and ankle pain.
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Well now you're being ableist. Shitlord.
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I’ll go sit in the corner and think about how my daily workouts are only furthering the patriarchy’s goals.
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I always wondered about that.
Wallace
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I remember reading a post from a former fatty who lost a whole bunch of weight and noticed people treating her nicer. She realized that it had nothing to do with the weight and everything to do that she was going through life with a massive chip on her shoulder.
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Yeah, NO ONE wants to be around that one huge bitch who makes snide comments about thin friends every fucking chance she gets.
Oh, don’t get up, I’ll run down and meet the pizza delivery at the door.
“Heh heh, yeah, I wish I could run down like that, guess I shouldn’t have any pizza, huh?”
And you just...you’re not sure if she’s making a joke, or daring you to call her fat, or just being a petty bitch?
People like that can’t help but compulsively make nasty comments because they’re miserable about themselves and don’t know what to do about it. I can totally believe that once they lose the weight people are far nicer to them, simply because they’re no longer complaining all day and acting like everyone in the world is staring at them for being fat and talking about them.
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I think the biggest difference you might see is on the dating market, because people generally aren't attracted to death. If you look like pudding, people see instinctively "omg that person is sick! Better not touch that!".
But if someone is treating you better just because you lost weight, then yeah that person sounds like an asshole. Not that I know that many people who are like this, but they exist.