I've not read the thread but I didn't do anything for him really out of the ordinary. He had a physical disability so I'd guide him through crowds or help with the chair if it got stuck. On the airplanes, stewardesses helped with getting him in and out of the seat. In Japan he didn't have help, but everything was handicap accessible. The pee jug thing was brought up and I insisted he'd go to the bathroom before bed because I'd not do that. The bathroom in the lobby was very accessible and there were no issues. In the Philippines he had a personal assistant everywhere and my help was not needed. There is absolutely nothing that happened between me and Fredrick which I would feel embarrassed to tell people.