Cosplay Lori Cerda / Usagi Kou / Lori Lewd / Zero Two / Lori Lune and Kevin Hanft / AdollaSkye / Skye / Krook3dKev - 37-year-old batshit crazy Sailor Moon cosplayer & e-thot with 20 years of drama, 27-year-old simp manchild cosplay martyr fiancé, Momokun's archenemies

[LoveYouLongTime]

Holy fucking absolute farm-fresh steaming pile of shit why the HELL is this drama from four years ago coming up Ok y’all lemme sit down with yet another fucking cup of coffee and I will see what I can dig up/need to explain??

Some thoughts so far:

-i’m perfectly ok if you think i’m a narcissistic white anime cos-poser old lady. I dress up and do this uwu shit for fun, and I try not to take myself too seriously. You taking me seriously is the highest form of flattery.

-Lori has had me blocked for mmm...2-3 years now? Anything since mid...2018? (Wait fuck thats 3) I haven’t been able to see her stuff. Yes, I can go around the block, but I also was worried of copying too much of her stuff myself? Almost like a weird aesthetic feedback loop? She got the FUCK into my brain for a few years after all the weird ass manipulation, so I chose to take space to reevaluate my sense of “self” i was able to block her account back after some finagling so idk if she’s unblocked me recently.

-I think the most i’ve done to purposefully copy her was satirical because I was well aware she was copying my looks for at least two years. I would post a new hair color and within 24-48 hours her hair would be dyed the same. The pink hair in 2018 was because I couldn’t get the red from the Todoroki hair out. I felt really weird because when I looked in the mirror it reminded me of her and that fucked with me for a hot minute. I’m finally back to blue now, though ( ´ ▽ ` ) If she continued to copy me after 2018 I wasn’t aware of it because of the purposeful avoidance on my part.

-Yes me dressing up as 02 was initially a casual troll (I did want to make the 02k follower pun for my own sake) but TBH I actually feel VERY VERY CUTE as 02 and plan to do her again in the future. For fashion and lulz

-My ex-husband had huge anger management problems to the point of cornering me in the kitchen, breaking things/punching holes in the walls, etc. (he never ever laid hands on me though) Rikki was my first escape from thinking that was “just how my life was supposed to be”. At the time I met Rikki I was in the deepest ugliest part of that, but it still doesn’t excuse the month overlap where I was, eh how you put, considering Rikki? Him and I never officially “dated”. If Lori said that, she was lying lol. I did actually initiate for divorce later that month, and it’s also good to keep in mind I have heavy religious conditioning in my childhood which made me absolutely terrified of the idea of divorce in the first place. Again, it doesn’t excuse my choices at the time.

-My ex-husband has since undergone an enormous amount of growth mentally/emotionally, and we’ve actually become good friends. I am not “sad sob story pity me” because I put him through fucked up shit mentally. So please, don’t think of me as here playing the “i am innocent look what this bitch did to me”. I’m just as fucked up as every other weirdly old e-thot. He fucked me up, I fucked him up, we both went through some hella growth and realized we needed to mature as (most) human beings do at age 24-28.


-uhhh anything else I can think of I’ll write up a story in a bit. I gotta dig out some screenshots from 2017 and I have noooo idea who I sent those to. So either I gotta find files on an old phone/computer, or I gotta dig through FB for a hot minute.

Much love, Miss Kitty

ps, you have no idea how validating this thread makes me feel. I literally thought I was batshit crazy for YEARS about what happened. Seeing other people put all these pieces together after I had blocked her, Kevin, Rikki, and just done my own thing to try and regain my sense of self is such a relief.

Thanks for joining us! Please off load any of Lori's antics to us or things Rikki may have said about her. It's good to hear you're out of a terrible situation and have grown past it.

 

[misskittymoxie]

First, thank you for showing up and answering. I was the poster who called you to come and speak about Lori\Rikki. How did you find this thread so fast?

i screencapped the comment because insta wouldn’t let me copy paste, threw it into my google translate app, and copied the link from there.

Did you ever meet Lori irl? What did Rikki say about her?

I met her IRL in 2014 through a cosplay meetup. Her and I sat next to each other at the dinner after. We had a decent amount in common, she added me on fb. My first impression of her was her complaining about how someone copied her Deer Beach look.

Rikki complaining about her was how our interactions started. Every day at work on nightshift we’d sit at the smoke table. (I didnt smoke but my friends did) and he would tell me about how she was a terrible person and for about a month straight I told him the same thing every day. “If she’s such a bitch, then leave her.” I would also complain about my relationship situation at the time and that was how him and I became friends. He didn’t have any social media because according to him Lori had a key tracker on his stuff and forced him to deactivate all his social media because she “couldn’t trust him.”

Eta I’m not even going to touch the “ You taking me seriously is the highest form of flattery” quip.

Hahahahahahahaha ok ok you’re right I do take myself a little seriously ( ・∇・)

 

[Speakeasy Electric]

i screencapped the comment because insta wouldn’t let me copy paste, threw it into my google translate app, and copied the link from there.

Someone sent it to you on Instagram? Well that breaks one of our sacred rules here on the farms, “don’t pozload my neghole”, so sorry for whoever was a fucking ween.

I met her IRL in 2014 through a cosplay meetup. Her and I sat next to each other at the dinner after. We had a decent amount in common, she added me on fb. My first impression of her was her complaining about how someone copied her Deer Beach look.

Rikki complaining about her was how our interactions started. Every day at work on nightshift we’d sit at the smoke table. (I didnt smoke but my friends did) and he would tell me about how she was a terrible person and for about a month straight I told him the same thing every day. “If she’s such a bitch, then leave her.” I would also complain about my relationship situation at the time and that was how him and I became friends. He didn’t have any social media because according to him Lori had a key tracker on his stuff and forced him to deactivate all his social media because she “couldn’t trust him.”

Hahahahahahahaha ok ok you’re right I do take myself a little seriously ( ・∇・)

Wait ok so Rikki met Lori through you? You and Rikki met at work?
Where was that, if I may ask?

according to him Lori had a key tracker on his stuff and forced him to deactivate all his social media because she “couldn’t trust him.”

Lol well she was right, wasn’t she?

 

[LoveYouLongTime]

My first impression of her was her complaining about how someone copied her Deer Beach look.

I have no idea what that is but I'm laughing because 2014 was a time when people forgot who she was and she was irrelevant.

 

[misskittymoxie]

The only conversation I ever had with Kevin after I added a bunch of people from a convention. I still want to know what her sob story was about me???

Her first convo to me about Rikki. She was sending me these voice messages and dark videos claiming that he was verbally abusing her. The videos/voice messages were always super low quality and she stuck to the notion that she was “technologically dumb” and didn’t know how to use the internet.

Lol not her failing to have control over him and trying to get information out of me

pretty sure this one is about Kevin.
she was always super roundabout with me in FB Messenger. Everything was always the other guy’s fault, them abusing her/fawning over her etc. Anything she said to me I never challenged or said nasty things because I had seen her constantly post screenshots of other people’s messages that always cropped out the stuff she said and framed them as being toxic while she talked about being an empath and taken advantage of. I felt like the reason she was even talking to me at all was to try and get me to say something angry because she’d been harrassing me for months and expected me to react. So instead I just yes-manned everything.

 

[faggot fucker]

ps, you have no idea how validating this thread makes me feel. I literally thought I was batshit crazy for YEARS about what happened. Seeing other people put all these pieces together after I had blocked her, Kevin, Rikki, and just done my own thing to try and regain my sense of self is such a relief.

Holy shit, welcome! Kitty, you are not and never were crazy like she led you to believe. Breaking from an abusive marriage is hard, even more so when your life line out of it just railroads you into another abusive situation. So, good on you. Thanks for coming in and contributing. By the way, your trolling was very entertaining. From what bits I saw, you are objectively a better cosplayer and troll. In fact, I think I can hear Lorena shrieking and clawing at her own eyes over this right now!

 

[misskittymoxie]

Someone sent it to you on Instagram? Well that breaks one of our sacred rules here on the farms, “don’t pozload my neghole”, so sorry for whoever was a fucking ween.

Lmao it was a throwaway account. I’ll try not to poo up this place too much, but feel free to ping me if I’m needed.

Wait ok so Rikki met Lori through you? You and Rikki met at work?
Where was that, if I may ask?

Not quite. Lori and I met through cosplay meet. Rikki and Lori met through idek. According to her timeline of ~3 years dating, they would have just started dating when I met her. I met Rikki through work in box manufacturing. He said “oh hey my girlfriend knows you.” At the time I still thought fondly of her bc i didn’t know her and made her some bathbombs to give to her for Christmas. She then proceeded to die her hair funny colors right after she found out Rikki and I had met. Damn wow maybe I’m not crazy...

Lol well she was right, wasn’t she?

Honestly, I’m not entirely sure. I don’t think either of them were trustworthy, but I’m not sure who has the onus in this particular scenario.

Edit: So i’ve been doing some light reading and holy absolute junkyard scrap pile full of rusty miata left bumpers I did not realize that it was *that* bad. MAN IVE BEEN BEATING MYSELF UP ABOUT THIS SHIT FOR YEARS AND INSTEAD IM JUST A DUMDUM WHO TRUSTED SOME NARCISSISTIC ASS MOTHERFUCKERS wow thank you kiwis.

 

[Speakeasy Electric]

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The only conversation I ever had with Kevin after I added a bunch of people from a convention. I still want to know what her sob story was about me???

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Her first convo to me about Rikki. She was sending me these voice messages and dark videos claiming that he was verbally abusing her. The videos/voice messages were always super low quality and she stuck to the notion that she was “technologically dumb” and didn’t know how to use the internet.

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Lol not her failing to have control over him and trying to get information out of me
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pretty sure this one is about Kevin.
she was always super roundabout with me in FB Messenger. Everything was always the other guy’s fault, them abusing her/fawning over her etc. Anything she said to me I never challenged or said nasty things because I had seen her constantly post screenshots of other people’s messages that always cropped out the stuff she said and framed them as being toxic while she talked about being an empath and taken advantage of. I felt like the reason she was even talking to me at all was to try and get me to say something angry because she’d been harrassing me for months and expected me to react. So instead I just yes-manned everything.

Hell yeah Kitty you came through with the tea!

Kevin is such a cuck.

Good call on not reacting to her. She’s definitely trying to illicit a response.

I tend to agree that you’re a better cosplayer, and seemingly a more competent, smarter, more beautiful physically and a more beautiful soul than Lori. No hard feelings about calling you a self obsessed try hard. I certainly didn’t think you’d actually show up. But now that you have, #TeamKitty

Lori really is fucking terrible, damn.
I’m reminded of this old parable..

A scorpion wants to cross a river but cannot swim, so it asks a frog to carry it across. The frog hesitates, afraid that the scorpion might sting, but the scorpion argues that if it did that, they would both drown. The frog considers this argument sensible and agrees to transport the scorpion. The frog lets the scorpion climb on its back and then begins to swim. Midway across the river, the scorpion stings the frog anyway, dooming them both. The dying frog asks the scorpion why it stung despite knowing the consequence, to which the scorpion replies: "I couldn't help it. It's in my nature."

Honestly, I’m not entirely sure. I don’t think either of them were trustworthy, but I’m not sure who has the onus in this particular scenario.

Fair enough dude, fair enough.

 

[faggot fucker]

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pretty sure this one is about Kevin.

• oversharing on every level to, effectively, a stranger
• "little does he know" prideful of dishonesty
• "very cute boy" needs no further analysis
• baiting you to give an opinion on his response after framing it in the most black/white way
• immediately jumps to 'le random xD omg bestie look what i just saw!!' to diffuse tension and grab your attention
• sends bursts of messages on purpose instead of being concise with a serious issue

Oh fuck yeah, baby. Let's GO. She's on her Shallon Lester shit. She gets worse every time I check this thread.

 

[misskittymoxie]

oh man wait THIS one is my favorite story

OH SHIT SHE ARCHIVED THE POST now I REALLY gotta go find that screenshot.

Hell yeah Kitty you came through with the tea!

I have so much but i think it’s all on my old phone/computer. This is gonna require some deep af dumpster diving to provide you with most of the good-goods. I have one particular story and I just went and checked her account with my alt insta and it’s the ONE FKKING POST SHE ARCHIVED FFS yeah I’ll have to brb for juuust a bit.

Kevin is such a cuck.


Good call on not reacting to her. She’s definitely trying to illicit a response.

I tend to agree that you’re a better cosplayer, and seemingly a more competent, smarter, more beautiful physically and a more beautiful soul than Lori. No hard feelings about calling you a self obsessed try hard. I certainly didn’t think you’d actually show up. But now that you have, #TeamKitty

LMAO Though I guess if she’s the bar that makes me uhhh...you ordinary average uwu e-. Nice (＾ｰ^)b

Lori really is fucking terrible, damn.
I’m reminded of this old parable..

(´･Д･)」
Yeah that

Fair enough dude, fair enough.

 

[LoveYouLongTime]

The only conversation I ever had with Kevin after I added a bunch of people from a convention. I still want to know what her sob story was about me???

He's such a damn cuck. He could have easily unfriended you without saying anything. Of course Lori could have been breathing down his neck and instructing him to send you a friend "break up" message.

Did you ever know about her past of being a Sailor Moon skinwalker? Or did any of your friends know about it? Just curious since she was fairly well known on the east coast convention scene in a not good way.

 

[misskittymoxie]

He's such a damn cuck. He could have easily unfriended you without saying anything. Of course Lori could have been breathing down his neck and instructing him to send you a friend "break up" message.

Did you ever know about her past of being a Sailor Moon skinwalker? Or did any of your friends know about it? Just curious since she was fairly well known on the east coast convention scene in a not good way.

I met her at the end of her sailor moon thing actually! That’s how she was dressed at the cos meetup in 2014(?) I really liked Sailor Moon a LOT so that was how we started talking. She continued to do that until the end of 2016 into 2017 where in Febuary (when Rikki “officially” broke up with her) she fully adopted my looks/posting style for a bit, until she moved on to becoming 002.
i absolutely agree that she probably told him to make the post. If you look at several of the captions on Kevin’s instagram posts, even early on, his captions are all absolutely oozing over her.
I actually had no idea about any of her backstory, nor did I know about a lot of this going on. I still want to read this entire thread and also provide my own full account of things I remember as well as things i remember Rikki telling me, but I’m at work right now and all I’ve got is what’s on my phone/what I can go back and find haha.

 

[OhGodHowDidThisGetHere]

Holy fucking absolute farm-fresh steaming pile of shit why the HELL is this drama from four years ago coming up Ok y’all lemme sit down with yet another fucking cup of coffee and I will see what I can dig up/need to explain??

Some thoughts so far:

-i’m perfectly ok if you think i’m a narcissistic white anime cos-poser old lady. I dress up and do this uwu shit for fun, and I try not to take myself too seriously. You taking me seriously is the highest form of flattery.

-Lori has had me blocked for mmm...2-3 years now? Anything since mid...2018? (Wait fuck thats 3) I haven’t been able to see her stuff. Yes, I can go around the block, but I also was worried of copying too much of her stuff myself? Almost like a weird aesthetic feedback loop? She got the FUCK into my brain for a few years after all the weird ass manipulation, so I chose to take space to reevaluate my sense of “self” i was able to block her account back after some finagling so idk if she’s unblocked me recently.

-I think the most i’ve done to purposefully copy her was satirical because I was well aware she was copying my looks for at least two years. I would post a new hair color and within 24-48 hours her hair would be dyed the same. The pink hair in 2018 was because I couldn’t get the red from the Todoroki hair out. I felt really weird because when I looked in the mirror it reminded me of her and that fucked with me for a hot minute. I’m finally back to blue now, though ( ´ ▽ ` ) If she continued to copy me after 2018 I wasn’t aware of it because of the purposeful avoidance on my part.

-Yes me dressing up as 02 was initially a casual troll (I did want to make the 02k follower pun for my own sake) but TBH I actually feel VERY VERY CUTE as 02 and plan to do her again in the future. For fashion and lulz

-My ex-husband had huge anger management problems to the point of cornering me in the kitchen, breaking things/punching holes in the walls, etc. (he never ever laid hands on me though) Rikki was my first escape from thinking that was “just how my life was supposed to be”. At the time I met Rikki I was in the deepest ugliest part of that, but it still doesn’t excuse the month overlap where I was, eh how you put, considering Rikki? Him and I never officially “dated”. If Lori said that, she was lying lol. I did actually initiate for divorce later that month, and it’s also good to keep in mind I have heavy religious conditioning in my childhood which made me absolutely terrified of the idea of divorce in the first place. Again, it doesn’t excuse my choices at the time.

-My ex-husband has since undergone an enormous amount of growth mentally/emotionally, and we’ve actually become good friends. I am not “sad sob story pity me” because I put him through fucked up shit mentally. So please, don’t think of me as here playing the “i am innocent look what this bitch did to me”. I’m just as fucked up as every other weirdly old e-thot. He fucked me up, I fucked him up, we both went through some hella growth and realized we needed to mature as (most) human beings do at age 24-28.

-uhhh anything else I can think of I’ll write up a story in a bit. I gotta dig out some screenshots from 2017 and I have noooo idea who I sent those to. So either I gotta find files on an old phone/computer, or I gotta dig through FB for a hot minute.

Much love, Miss Kitty

ps, you have no idea how validating this thread makes me feel. I literally thought I was batshit crazy for YEARS about what happened. Seeing other people put all these pieces together after I had blocked her, Kevin, Rikki, and just done my own thing to try and regain my sense of self is such a relief.

Welcome, @misskittymoxie. I hope this thread gives you some closure for what sounds like a difficult time in your life. A big concern in making a thread about Lori was how her extensive list of victims would feel having her bullshit dredged up from history they most likely want to forget. I'm sorry to hear your ex-husband was abusive. What a fucking nightmare. Untreated anger issues like that tend to escalate over time and not everyone escapes from a DV situation. Glad you're safe now.

As for Lori, she's a monster and it sounds like we can conclusively add "stalker" to her long list of titles including abuser, manipulator, liar, predator, skinwalker, deranged fuck, etc. Like @LoveYouLongTime said, it's natural to want to fight back against someone who is actively gaslighting and stalking you. After such an awful experience, it's fantastic to hear that you're doing well now. #TeamKitty

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EDIT: Just catching up on new posts. Oh boy. Here are consolidated screencaps from @misskittymoxie with transcriptions for SEO and archival purposes.

Lori Kevin [November 7, 2017]: "Hey so I know I added you the other day. But I only did because I thought you and Lori were good friends but after hearing about all the situations I'm not sure if I feel very comfortable having you on my friends list if we don't know each other at all. It's nothing personnel personal. I just don't think it's a good idea and I don't see any reason for us to be friends."

Spoiler: Kevin Screencap

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Lori [February 15, 2017]: "Rikki blocked you on my account for some reason while trying to get a hold of you a couple weeks back."

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Lori [May 17, 2017]: "Now you know the type of person he [Rikki] is. Hopefully you can put up with it better than I did. He lied to us both a good amount this week. He figured I wouldn't probe but his Twitter is pretty obvious that he broke all his promises to me this week. Call him because [redacted] is freaking out and I can't calm him. Call him because he's freaking out and I can't calm him. I'm trying to figure out how to send this voice clip. Not this one. Another. This is just what's happening now. He's not all bad. He just can't control certain things."

Kitty: "Well yeah I know that. Well if you wanna have him call me, he didn't pick up his phone when I called him. Probably because that shit is going on right now holy fuck >~>"

Lori: "It's because he knows he doesn't have the hat. He thinks you assume he's sleeping. He's checking his phone at least now"

Kitty: "Ohhhh yeah that makes sense."

Lori: "I'll have to email the other clips. What's your address"

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Kitty [date unknown]: "Well, maybe he just does the same shit over and over cuz he knows that no matter what he does to you, you'll stay.

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Lori [September 4, 2017]: "Little does he [Rikki] know. There is a very cute boy [Kevin] charting me up. Chatting. And I told him it's difficult for me to ignore someone that's legit interested. Says I'm the goal in the long run but not right now. Ok no. It's like when he cheated on me with Taylor [who?] and I was like time to move on, the moment I stray or ignore him he wises up. I just saw a man walk out with two dogs in his hands and one trailing behind.... SIR, DO YOU NEED HELP"

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Lori [date unknown]: "...shit we've done or he's said. Honestly it doesn't matter. I'm just going on about something I'm tired of going through with him and everyone's tired of hearing of"

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Kitty [September 27, 2017]: "Well, things will remain the same until you change them. He's not gonna."

Lori: "I didn't buy into his bullshit and I haven't been having sex with him. That's why I'm alone right now "

Spoiler: Lori and Kitty Screencaps

 

[Confederate Fag]

The couple of Anachans nitpicking Lori’s body, calling her fat and questioning her Anachan status because she doesn’t look like Eugenia Cooney (yet) need to go (back?) to lolcow farms.

 

[Tugboat]

@misskittymoxie Thank you for being here and sharing your stories, even if it was from a ween contacting you.

This will really give some insight on what happened. Is it true that Rikki cheated with you? That was the story Lori was concocting. Of course, in Lori's case, simply talking to Rikki and trying to be there for him might have been considered "cheating" to her!

 

[w4vy_gr4vy]

Praying to the lolcow gods for Moomoo to cosplay Saber before Loony Lori does.

 

[misskittymoxie]

Lori and Kitty Post #3: It seems that there might be mutual stalking going on between Lori and Kitty. Is that even a thing? At the very least, there are some odd coincidences.

100% was taking her hashtags for shiggles

Post #1 [LINK]
Post #2 [LINK]

Here are some examples of Kitty posting content similar to Lori's social media. Note the dates on the screencaps.

I was definitely aware of this, and i would post certain things to see if she’d copy me (she did) because I felt crazy. And especially after my very first post I ever saw on her facebook, I knew “copying” her got under her skin. These shenanigans did teach me how to post to instagram better, though. Definitely some weird feedback loop for the entirety of 2017.

Spoiler: Mutual Stalking?

Beth's Cafe in Seattle, Washington
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Spoiler: Mutual Stalking?

I love Beth’sit’s a local favorite. I went there and saw her art one time and said “wow I’m gonna put my own art up because fuck her.” I then became a regular there for a few months. I also drew Sailor Moon and it was in a menu for a time

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Ok now THIS one was an absolute accident.

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Yes, this one was some farm-fresh fuquery on my part, but I’d also been dressing in that style for YEARS as opposed to her suddenly switching from dresses/skirts/corsets. Wow you’re right the visual idea is really similar on that one. Kudos to myself

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WAIT SHE WHAT?? SHE HAD ME BLOCKED AT THIS POINT IIRC?? HAHAHAHAHAHA OH MY ABSOLUTE FUCK THAT ONE IS FUNNY! I stopped paying full attention after she got with Kevin because she blocked me and she wasn’t actively harassing me anymore. I had no need to keep tabs on someone who’d decided to block me. My mistake apparently.

but yeah TL;DR: My “copying” was absolutely calculated because I felt fucking insane. Like i’d post something and suddenly she made a post about the exact same thing OR she’d post about something that coincidentally Rikki would have been just talking about the day before. When he still lived with her, he would often tell me the next day about how she was making fun of my thighs or weight or that I wore fake lashes or that I wore wigs to cosplay. So then I started posting stuff on purpose just to see and would perpetuate the feedback loop. It was rather validating to hear him say she got really mad over a few posts I made that were “copying her”.
Oh other important point: i followed her on instagram. She did not follow me. I didn’t need to stalk her because I had actively been liking and interacting with her stuff for a long time. I continued to do so because, again, what Rikki told me she said and what she said to my face never added up and I didn’t know who to trust.

Not to be mean, but please don't double post as it clogs up the thread, just press edit on your original post and copy paste. also I fucking love the info dumps on Lori.

Edit: THOTHunterAlice is teaching me how to use forums. I’ll update the original message when I find all the new things. Sorry for being a poo poo noob.

 

[The Husbando Collector]

Ok so. This is the part where I feel like I was lied to by both parties. ACCORDING TO RIKKI: He broke up with her late January/early February. Did this actually happen?? I don’t know.
ACCORDING TO HER: He was supposed to spend Valentines day with her? But he broke up with her? So there’s about a couple week discrepancy on my end. From my point of view any of my actions taken were under the assumption that he was no longer with her.
NOW THAT BEING SAID actions taken were: talking at length about feelings/relationships/art/etc, hugging/cuddling. I did not allow him to even kiss me for a while because of my own situation. He actually kissed me without asking by force under the pretense of “Well I thought you wanted it.” later. It was around this time that I began the process of divorce.

BUT THEN IN APRIL Rikki and I went to Sakura Con. We got drunk and he stuck his dick in me before I realized what was going on. Now, the WHOLE ASS TO DO was that I didn’t put out. Like shit, i’m messed up from stuff (even before marriage) and I told him repeatedly about my issues. His reasoning for doing it? “Well you were just moving like you wanted it.” And honestly, I don’t even know if I was. I was drunk at a con. I made my own mistakes that led to that point and I could have avoided that whole thing anyway so, like, IMO he could have respected me but I also could have respected myself and made better choices.
That’s what THIS post is about:
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Apparently he called her up and told her that I was a shit lay. (I think the one in the star sweater is me). Which, of course I was a shit lay?? I have bad history and actively told him several times I didn’t want sex?

The thing she had that I didn’t was she would put out. And I TOLD her that him and I weren’t dating, so if they were having sex I didn’t care. The only thing I would have an issue with was him lying to me about it. I already knew it was a shortcoming on my end, and I told him if he needed it he was more than welcome to go seek it elsewhere. My only requirement was that he told me.

But yeah all that to say, from *my* understanding he broke up with her before him and I ever got romantically close. Now whether that’s what he told her, idk. I think he got a kick out of how the two of us reacted to each other’s venom tbh so my assumption is that either he stretched the truth or she’s outright lying.

Not to be mean, but please don't double post as it clogs up the thread, just press edit on your original post and copy paste. also I fucking love the info dumps on Lori.

 

[misskittymoxie]

That Kitty person is like 100x better looking and less filtered.

Cope harder, Lori.

Why thank you Mr. Goose. It’s good to know my filters are at least a little more believe-able.
☆〜（ゝ。∂）
I still edit my photos with lightroom/snapseed/afterlight, but it’s mostly for the acne and the worsening Scandinavian mouth lines. Can’t keep up the uwu act for too much longer. I don’t have Lori’s superior genetics after all.

 

[melty]

@misskittymoxie I gotta be honest, reading your account it sounds like you are being a little hard on yourself. Sure, you could have filed for divorce a little before your cuddling and feelings escapades, but in the realm of shitty things to do in a relationship, that's pretty low on the list. Not sure if you are aware of this but Lori has a history of dating rapists and making excuses for them.

Of course we only have your side of the story posted firsthand, and when compared to a known liar like Lori, it's easy to believe your word over hers and Rikki's, but we can't really know the truth. Keep it coming though.