Debate Realplaya420 about how porn addiction is not real and how you're evil and elitist for not jerking off often

[mr.moon1488]

just download tinder then

Internet dating is a waste of time. Best thing he could do would be to go to church and meet some sane chicks that don't want dudes to simp for them, but I highly doubt he's going to do that.

 

[Anne Hyroe]

I do believe it's a thing 100 percent. I'm just hard in denial to save my ass because it's the last thing I'm clinging onto pretty much. There's pretty much no hope for me so I don't even try anymore. It's like, why should I even bother, why should I even invest time into it if I KNOW that I wont' get anything out of it. That nobody will ever love me. So I don't even waste time with it. I just accept it and try to find the best substitute. Really do I have a chance, do I have any other option. If you lived my life you would already know the answer to that. I don't. Not a chance in fucking hell.

So yeah, I recognize there is a problem, but it's not like it's gonna change anything. It's gonna be just like you say it is. Virgin for the next thirty years. Of course if I make it that long, who really knows. I already sabotaged my life pretty much beacuse I fucked my head so hard that I raped away any chance of having a normal future. So I just rock with the shit now. I already am bitter, lonely, and alone. I see no escape, no light at the end of the tunnel. I just see no healing. No healing at all.

How can you come to this conclusion without even trying? Get a hobby that isn’t wanking and talk to women who’re into the same thing. It’ll happen if you stop cockblocking yourself.

Short of that, @Slimy Time ’s suggestion of hitting up @TamarYaelBatYah could work, provided you want to be step-daddy to 6ish.

Patronising medfag advice time: it sounds as though your real issue is depression and low self esteem. Consider increasing (outdoor) physical activity, improving your diet, practicing better sleep habits and starting CBT. Cut down on general screen time and set SMART goals to reduce porn use to a more sustainable level (preferably not at all, but that’s up to you). Even if you need to masturbate, try to avoid porn and use your imagination instead. Set goals to increase IRL interaction, it can start as small as thanking a cashier or calling a relative but should increase over time. Talking to people and having positive responses even from randoms is a good first step. Find something other than masturbating that feels physically pleasurable: taking a bath, relaxing to an audiobook or having a massage etc and be mindful of the small things that feel good. Start to associate feeling good with things other than porn.

How old are you? It’s a bit early to just give up.

 

[User names must be unique]

Eat shit faggots I just broke your new toy with one post.

Please never use your powers of grooming for evil.

 

[Dyn]

I do believe it's a thing 100 percent. I'm just hard in denial to save my ass because it's the last thing I'm clinging onto pretty much. There's pretty much no hope for me so I don't even try anymore. It's like, why should I even bother, why should I even invest time into it if I KNOW that I wont' get anything out of it. That nobody will ever love me. So I don't even waste time with it. I just accept it and try to find the best substitute. Really do I have a chance, do I have any other option. If you lived my life you would already know the answer to that. I don't. Not a chance in fucking hell.

So yeah, I recognize there is a problem, but it's not like it's gonna change anything. It's gonna be just like you say it is. Virgin for the next thirty years. Of course if I make it that long, who really knows. I already sabotaged my life pretty much beacuse I fucked my head so hard that I raped away any chance of having a normal future. So I just rock with the shit now. I already am bitter, lonely, and alone. I see no escape, no light at the end of the tunnel. I just see no healing. No healing at all.

A lot of people will tell you "it gets better", but it usually doesn't. That's just a platitude that was focus-tested and advertiser friendly, and it's a shameful lie. Nothing ever gets better unless you actually fight for better. Most times, shit just gets worse, and worse, and worse.

I can understand that you've accepted worse, because you can't see any road to better. Everybody, no matter how charmed their life, and no matter how much heart they have, has been there, at least briefly. But if you ever want better, you have to find that road to better, and then you have to walk it. If you don't know where to start, you have to sit down and figure it out. If your fear of rejection is crippling you, you need to overcome it, either head-on or with the help of therapy. If you're clinically depressed, you need to schedule that first psyche visit and get yourself on those sadbrain pills. If you're socially isolated, you need to find yourself a social outlet with a chance of real connections and relationships forming, and a sociopathic internet bullying forum ain't that. I don't know what your problems are ; only you can figure that out. Cumbrains might be a problem in the sense it's a refuge you use to avoid dealing with the obstacles in your life, but it's not the obstacle itself, and despite what these idiots might be telling you, you already know that chasing down loveless, hollow sexual engagements isn't the cure. If you want shit to get better, you need to sit with yourself and start to identify what you really want, what stands in your way of moving towards it, and figure out what you can do to get past that shit.

But if you've given up for good, you've given up. It happens every day, to strong people as well as weak. Only thing to do there is curl your tongue up as tight as you can get it, then suck hard and swallow in one violent movement.

 

[Slimy Time]

How can you come to this conclusion without even trying? Get a hobby that isn’t wanking and talk to women who’re into the same thing. It’ll happen if you stop cockblocking yourself.

Short of that, @Slimy Time ’s suggestion of hitting up @TamarYaelBatYah could work, provided you want to be step-daddy to 6ish.

Patronising medfag advice time: it sounds as though your real issue is depression and low self esteem. Consider increasing (outdoor) physical activity, improving your diet, practicing better sleep habits and starting CBT. Cut down on general screen time and set SMART goals to reduce porn use to a more sustainable level (preferably not at all, but that’s up to you). Even if you need to masturbate, try to avoid porn and use your imagination instead. Set goals to increase IRL interaction, it can start as small as thanking a cashier or calling a relative but should increase over time. Talking to people and having positive responses even from randoms is a good first step. Find something other than masturbating that feels physically pleasurable: taking a bath, relaxing to an audiobook or having a massage etc and be mindful of the small things that feel good. Start to associate feeling good with things other than porn.

How old are you? It’s a bit early to just give up.

"Virgin for the next 30 years", so I'm guessing past the "acceptable age" of losing your virginity as a man by that. Mid 20's maybe?

 

[AngryItalianAmerican]

I do believe it's a thing 100 percent. I'm just hard in denial to save my ass because it's the last thing I'm clinging onto pretty much. There's pretty much no hope for me so I don't even try anymore. It's like, why should I even bother, why should I even invest time into it if I KNOW that I wont' get anything out of it. That nobody will ever love me. So I don't even waste time with it. I just accept it and try to find the best substitute. Really do I have a chance, do I have any other option. If you lived my life you would already know the answer to that. I don't. Not a chance in fucking hell.

So yeah, I recognize there is a problem, but it's not like it's gonna change anything. It's gonna be just like you say it is. Virgin for the next thirty years. Of course if I make it that long, who really knows. I already sabotaged my life pretty much beacuse I fucked my head so hard that I raped away any chance of having a normal future. So I just rock with the shit now. I already am bitter, lonely, and alone. I see no escape, no light at the end of the tunnel. I just see no healing. No healing at all.

So what nigger?

Most of our great artists and scientists were hopeless fuck ups. Beethoven had impaired hearing since youth, Tesla was a schizophrenic OCD mess.

Pursue. Something. Other. Than. Pleasure.

 

[Local Fed]

I can't tell if @Realplaya420 is genuine with his autism or not.

I do think that porn addiction is real, as one can become dependant on many things whether it be porn, video games, using the internet, drinking, etc. It's not so much an issue of watching porn and then suddenly your right arm grows to be five times its natural size as you become obsessed with your next nut and get Pornhub tattooed on your forehead like a bad Jared Leto movie or something. A lot of it I think comes down to a myriad of factors on a case by case basis which include things such as natural predisposition, social isolation, depression, etc. Some people are naturally predisposed to quickly become dependant and end up wasting far too much time, energy (and sometimes money) on things while others can probably jerk off daily to porn throughout their lives and be fine.

 

[Bumblino]

I'll fuck you till you love me faggot

Don't break his back

 

[Ted Kaczynski]

Funniest thing about this thread is the length of time that Mr. real coomer over here has put into responding to all of our posts in the most autistic way possible.

 

[Cope or Rope]

i wonder if Realplaya 420 is a rabbi because jews sure have alot of ties to the porn industry,

https://dagobertobellucci.wordpress.com/2012/03/11/jewish-dominance-in-the-porn-industry/

Jews Are Proud of Their Pornography

As this article by Jewish author Nathan Abrams, “Triple-exthnics,” proves; it also shows that Jews are aware of the subversive nature of their activities. Some of the language and images evoked by this piece are disgusting, and children should not be permitted to read it. A STORY LITTLE TOLD OF

nationalvanguard.org

https://www.darkmoon.me/2014/pornography-as-a-secret-weapon-by-lasha-darkmoon/
porn addiction

https://www.webmd.com/sex/porn-addiction-possible

 

[Realplaya420]

Well, I need some time to take in all the stuff Dyn and Anne are saying

 

[verygayFrogs]

Hopefully you die in a jiahadist attack along with the other faggots who died in the twin towers. Shit was so funny.

Yeah like your mom.

 

[Bumblino]

Well, I need some time to take in all the stuff Dyn and Anne are saying

Good luck with your spiritual search, hope you don't drown in coom in the intermission I'm rooting for you.

Edit: So now that I think about it, have we come to terms whether porn addiction is real or not? I think the discussion is split in the middle.

 

[Realplaya420]

How can you come to this conclusion without even trying? Get a hobby that isn’t wanking and talk to women who’re into the same thing. It’ll happen if you stop cockblocking yourself.

From an outside perspective, when you have no societal connections, it really does seem utterly hopeless. I don't really have positive socially acceptable hobbies that wouldn't scare people away.

it sounds as though your real issue is depression and low self esteem. Consider increasing (outdoor) physical activity, improving your diet, practicing better sleep habits and starting CBT.

For the most part I'm physically healthy, but my sleep schedule has been fucked for a long time. I fix it but it's never permanent, I always fuck it up soon after.

Cut down on general screen time and set SMART goals to reduce porn use to a more sustainable level (preferably not at all, but that’s up to you). Even if you need to masturbate, try to avoid porn and use your imagination instead. Set goals to increase IRL interaction, it can start as small as thanking a cashier or calling a relative but should increase over time. Talking to people and having positive responses even from randoms is a good first step.

This one is gonna be hard for me because I spend my life on the screen. Outside provokes fear.

How old are you? It’s a bit early to just give up.

I'm pretty young I guess. I didn't really want to give my actual age, but I'm 19.

A lot of people will tell you "it gets better", but it usually doesn't. That's just a platitude that was focus-tested and advertiser friendly, and it's a shameful lie. Nothing ever gets better unless you actually fight for better. Most times, shit just gets worse, and worse, and worse.

I know, my mental state has been gradually getting worse and worse and more isolated from people. To the point where I used to be somewhat normal and able to interact, now I just have huge issues with it.

I can understand that you've accepted worse, because you can't see any road to better. Everybody, no matter how charmed their life, and no matter how much heart they have, has been there, at least briefly.

I've been like that for 4, going on 5 years now.

But if you ever want better, you have to find that road to better, and then you have to walk it. If you don't know where to start, you have to sit down and figure it out. If your fear of rejection is crippling you, you need to overcome it, either head-on or with the help of therapy. If you're clinically depressed, you need to schedule that first psyche visit and get yourself on those sadbrain pills.

That stuff scares me really badly for reasons.

If you're socially isolated, you need to find yourself a social outlet with a chance of real connections and relationships forming, and a sociopathic internet bullying forum ain't that.

I have issues with accepting positive attention. It just doesn't make me feel right.

I don't know what your problems are ; only you can figure that out. Cumbrains might be a problem in the sense it's a refuge you use to avoid dealing with the obstacles in your life, but it's not the obstacle itself, and despite what these idiots might be telling you, you already know that chasing down loveless, hollow sexual engagements isn't the cure. If you want shit to get better, you need to sit with yourself and start to identify what you really want, what stands in your way of moving towards it, and figure out what you can do to get past that shit.

But if you've given up for good, you've given up. It happens every day, to strong people as well as weak. Only thing to do there is curl your tongue up as tight as you can get it, then suck hard and swallow in one violent movement.

I don't know how to respond to this part. It's scary.

 

[naught sock account 1]

Been there, done that.

get a hooker..

 

[Large]

Yeah like your mom.

Wow, you managed to actually fuck his mom? That's quite an achievement, I tried to do so on multiple occasions but every single time I gave up because the line was too long.

 

[Realplaya420]

get a hooker..

I already said that I prioritize a relationship over sex. To me sex is just a byproduct of a relationship.

 

[verygayFrogs]

Wow, you managed to actually fuck his mom? That's quite an achievement, I tried to do so on multiple occasions but every single time I gave up because the line was too long.

I just waited until everyone was asleep, including her

 

[byuu]

I'm glad that our friendliest and most benevolent poster could help this kid turn his life around.

 

[Yotsubaaa]

I'm glad that our friendliest and most benevolent poster could help this kid turn his life around.

The Loveshy Therapy Center should make a comeback. We've learned a lot the last few years and I think we're finally ready to help these incels now.