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- Dec 2, 2020
I absolutely agree. The people who own 900 Funkos probably justify it with 'I love all of these characters' . All I meant was that having a hobby based around a product or brand is fine as long as it stays below a somewhat arbitrary but 'know it when you see it' line of being pathetic or an obsession. Enjoying Nintendo products is great, as long as the brand doesn't become your identity or you don't purchase everything you see. Having a fragrance collection is totally fine as long as it is kept under some level of control. Building a community around a product you enjoy is not an inherently bad thing. It does go hand in hand with obsessions that are much more ugly though. After all, it is hard to find groups these days with most small-town-esque local communities being constantly devalued. Any community that actively encourages spending beyond your means or spending excessive money on things with zero utility or value is unhealthy. The people with a specific truck for off-roading probably spent a cool several hundred grand on it, but if that is what they and their friends love to do, and they have the deep bank account to responsibly make that purchase and its maintenance, then I won't judge. The car still has a value if they woke up one day and all their money was gone. My general metric that I use in my personal life is that going to a movie costs a solid 20 bucks or something and usually is a good 2 hours of fun. As long as it keeps a similar rate of 10 dollars for an hour of enjoying myself, then its fair game. Spending 10 dollars on a single figure I like a lot and is one of the few things in my dorm, cool. Now if I ever 10 dollars on the 800th figure to complete my entire room filled with nothing but figures to the point that I would never even notice the new one.... I would hope my friends would take me out back and tell me about the rabbits.Depends. Some people will argue they are hobbies and they enjoy the thing itself, not the brand. But it can still get excessive
I used a site in the past called Fragrantica, it's an online perfume database that is a great tool for finding new aftershave, maybe something a bit different as it lists perfumes based on notes, suggest similar things, etc. It's a pretty great tool for that imo, but it has a forum section where people discuss perfume, and there are youtube channels exclusively for perfume (unrealted to Fragrantica) and the "fragrance community" as a whole is pretty fucking bad for encouraging consumerism, they say it's becuase they like the product itself, but they have "wardrobes" where you can list your collection. People can have 200+ bottles of perfume they "Love".
How the fuck can anyone wear 200+ bottles of perfume? Perfume has an expiration date (they claim it does not) but even if that were true you can't use up 200 bottles, but people seemed to justify and encourage it. Some perfumes cost $20, others will cost you several hundred. I just can't see that community as healthy when ot encourages people to purchase more than they can use.
For reference I have around 15 bottles, it's too much. People justify it by saying you break it up between night/day and depending on season and occasion, but it's still too much imo. Time spent wearing 1 is time spent not wearing the other 14, which can make sense as some stuff wouldn't work at all in summer. But it actually becomes a hassle when you have too many options and it means you either don't use things you really love, or you do and you're left with a bunch of things you don't really care for.
Also I have to give a complement to everyone's favorite intellectual rapist.