Community Tard Baby General (includes brain dead kids) - Fundies and their genetic Fuckups; Parents of corpses in denial

[MetalParakeet]

Can you elaborate on this; like is there anything in particular that makes women with BPD stand out to you more than a man would? Asking out of pure curiosity.

I know that with ASD (for example) symptoms are usually easier to pick out in men, because women on average hide/mask their symptoms more effectively, or at least earlier on. Would you say it's something similar but with the genders flipped?

I find that woman with BPD are like cookie cutter copies of each other. I can usually spot them because they allnact the same.

Immediately loud and passive aggressive, insulting to strangers but yet quick to try to add them on social media or whatever.

Typically some kind of physical thing going on that makes them stand out, whether it be an unusual weight or some crappy scratcher tattoos that say stupid inspirational quotes.

A big thing that tips me off is that they always seem set on proving how great of a person they are. 5 minutes into meeting and they'll be talking about how many people they've helped, or how giving they are

 

[booklover]

Spoiler: minor Powerlevel

Its a shame but the reality is that the worst affected for both autism and Downs aren't really people you'll encounter in public. So of course people are skewed to the ones who are able to function at least a bit normally.

When I was a kid, a friends sister had very severe autism. By the age of 8 she couldn't walk very well, couldn't talk，had to still be hand fed puree, was fully incontinent, and was completely non communicative except for screaming and hitting/kicking/biting. Her parents and sisters had all sustained bloody injuries trying to assist her during meltdowns and it was obviously not a great situation for her siblings. Luckily the family were much better off financially than mine, cos they managed to send the healthy siblings off to boarding school to keep them from being psychologically damaged by their completely disabled sister. And the parents weren't neglectful, the sister got so many therapies and they poured in so much time trying to improve her communication and mood issues but it wasn't possible. That poor girl is about 25 now, she never improved on any metric, and now is full time in a facility because she was able to really injure her parents as they got older. They've dumped their entire retirement and savings into a trust so that the sister can stay with trained staff.

A family friend has a young son with Downs. Downs can really fuck up muscle tone, it's why they all have that similar kind of body shape and not great coordination. This poor little boy is 4 and his throat and tongue is so weak he can't swallow at all and can't speak. He has to be tube fed via a port in his stomach because he will choke if he eats. He can just barely manage a sippy cup of water to keep his mouth from drying out. He's recieving speech therapy but he can't make any sounds that are clear. It's to be seen how his cognitive standards are, they're now using sign language and flash cards for him to communicate. He could be anywhere on the spectrum of IQ for DS kids, it's just the physical barrier to communicate with him. Seems like he does understand a lot of what his parents say, he just can't speak back. But it's obvious that he's gonna have lifelong medical issues, especially if he develops any kind of airway issues because his tongue and throat are so weak.


This is why I roll my eyes so hard when people who really have never seen the worst outcomes start preaching about how "we shouldn't even call them disabled! They're special / unique / different!" Like fuck no. Even the least severe of thlse conditions are still disabled compared to normal society, they do need assistance. And the ones who are really badly affected, they get completely ignored because nobody wants to face the reality of it. For every feelgood story about a cashier at Walmart with downs, there are several who can't take care of their basic needs without help. For every autistic savant, there is a kid who can't interact with the world at all.

It's a sad thing that nobody wants to acknowledge because what's the solution? There isn't one. They need expensive full time care from trained staff and nobody has a good solution for how to manage that outside of the family bankrupting themselves to self fund it, or having a healthy member spend all their time to care for them

People like your friend's son who has DS with very low muscle tone usually don't live very long. Do they also suction him? (Just asking.) Chances are, he'll get pneumonia and likely die from that relatively early in life.

 

[雑音🐈]

bpd is actually extremely varied from individual to individual. Most of the generalisations you read about on armchair psychologists posts in this forum are stereotypes and a minority of true bpd cases. idk why every bitchy woman gets labelled bpd these days.

 

[PotatoSalad4711]

I find that woman with BPD are like cookie cutter copies of each other. I can usually spot them because they allnact the same.

Immediately loud and passive aggressive, insulting to strangers but yet quick to try to add them on social media or whatever.

Typically some kind of physical thing going on that makes them stand out, whether it be an unusual weight or some crappy scratcher tattoos that say stupid inspirational quotes.

A big thing that tips me off is that they always seem set on proving how great of a person they are. 5 minutes into meeting and they'll be talking about how many people they've helped, or how giving they are

LOL, man you just described every Karen within a 100 mile radius. That doesn’t make them BPD, just basic bitches. You forgot to include girls who get angry with the coffee barista over soy lattes. I guess they are BPD too?

 

[MysticMisty]

LOL, man you just described every Karen within a 100 mile radius. That doesn’t make them BPD, just basic bitches. You forgot to include girls who get angry with the coffee barista over soy lattes. I guess they are BPD too?

Alison "Eyebags" Rapp used to chimp at non-locals/newcomers coming into "her" coffee shop (where she liked to openly photoshop her lewd photos that her simps bought up every month), despite not being a Seattle native herself. Ah memories.

I know that with ASD (for example) symptoms are usually easier to pick out in men, because women on average hide/mask their symptoms more effectively, or at least earlier on.

Depends on severity, but I'd say more than anything that doctors have just barely begun to realize that girls/women display different symptoms than men, and not just in autism. For example, "classic" ADHD is shown as a hyperactive boy running around and being unable to sit still, but it's now understood that girls are more likely to sit and daydream frequently instead.

It also extends to physical illnesses. Used to be that medicines were tested on men almost exclusively and then everyone took the same dosage. Now we know that the physical differences between men and women mean that many medicinal doses are different as well, and efforts are made to test medications on both genders now (except for gender exclusive medicines, obviously).

 

[Cash Pope]

Especially in the States, the real tragedy of social services is that the system has been made too complex for many genuinely disabled people to navigate, but not complex enough to deter manipulative fraudsters.

That's a common thread when you look at most cows. Many of them were failed by the system, at least to some degree.

 

[MetalParakeet]

LOL, man you just described every Karen within a 100 mile radius. That doesn’t make them BPD, just basic bitches. You forgot to include girls who get angry with the coffee barista over soy lattes. I guess they are BPD too?

Big difference between basic bitch Karen's, and someone who will happily drop a hint that she will burn your house down if you ever hurt her. That's more the way I'm going with this

 

[Orc Girls Make Due]

The thing about BPD is just that it's key word: Borderline. It's varied from whatever personality disorder they lean into from there depends. There's no one set PD that defines everyone from the rest and no one Karen is automatically gonna have BPD.

Another thing on SSI/DI for mental health issues. It's so easy because mental health issues are usually the easiest thing to get a state recognized diagnosis for.

How SSI/DI usually works is they have you see a state doctor to qualify you before a judge then looks at your qualification as well. That's all background stuff.

People who are particularly manipulative will usually go for a cocktail case of PTSD and some form of depression or BPD because they're very difficult to deal with and easy to diagnose if you play your cards right at your state appointment.

However, you do have to renew every three years and if you are not actively getting treatment, they can and will deny your benefits again.

 

[TheCakeIsALie]

The thing about BPD is just that it's key word: Borderline. It's varied from whatever personality disorder they lean into from there depends. There's no one set PD that defines everyone from the rest and no one Karen is automatically gonna have BPD.

Another thing on SSI/DI for mental health issues. It's so easy because mental health issues are usually the easiest thing to get a state recognized diagnosis for.

How SSI/DI usually works is they have you see a state doctor to qualify you before a judge then looks at your qualification as well. That's all background stuff.

People who are particularly manipulative will usually go for a cocktail case of PTSD and some form of depression or BPD because they're very difficult to deal with and easy to diagnose if you play your cards right at your state appointment.

However, you do have to renew every three years and if you are not actively getting treatment, they can and will deny your benefits again.

Actually, reviews range from every year to every seven years and you are only sent to a CE by the ssa if you dont have your own dr or are inconsistent with treatment.

MI is easier than physical disabilities but you still have to prove you've tried many meds and they've failed.

 

[Anstiv]

Can people in this thread stop pretending to be psychologists lmao. Just because you're mentally ill that doesn't make you an expert on mental illness. If anything, it makes you a biased source of info

 

[GenociderSyo]

Can people in this thread stop pretending to be psychologists lmao. Just because you're mentally ill that doesn't make you an expert on mental illness. If anything, it makes you a biased source of info

I actually do work in psychology and get continual amusement by the fact i use a anime serial killer avatar.

In all seriousness, we do not diagnose personality disorders the way we did in the past anymore its all based on traits since we no longer have axis diagnosis. So you'll see borderline traits, schizotypal traits. It is actually very rare to see someones primary diagnosis anymore be a personality disorder as it could be in the past.

As for reviews, they really dont keep to their schedule of reviews for mental illness. The prior client I spoke of hasn't had a review now in 14 years (took a good 10 years to do the financial one), let alone one to confirm if they were being compliant with treatment.

 

[Umaibae]

Especially in the States, the real tragedy of social services is that the system has been made too complex for many genuinely disabled people to navigate, but not complex enough to deter manipulative fraudsters.

The worst part: It’s easier to get disability if you’re a deathfat than if you develop an actual disability. Fats shouldn’t get money for being fat. It encourages the behavior.

There is someone in my extended family who was diagnosed with an incurable, progressive disease (think: something like ALS) and it took five years for them to be approved for disability, even though they’d been physically/mentally unable to work for years before that.

 

[TheCakeIsALie]

I actually do work in psychology and get continual amusement by the fact i use a anime serial killer avatar.

In all seriousness, we do not diagnose personality disorders the way we did in the past anymore its all based on traits since we no longer have axis diagnosis. So you'll see borderline traits, schizotypal traits. It is actually very rare to see someones primary diagnosis anymore be a personality disorder as it could be in the past.

As for reviews, they really dont keep to their schedule of reviews for mental illness. The prior client I spoke of hasn't had a review now in 14 years (took a good 10 years to do the financial one), let alone one to confirm if they were being compliant with treatment.

How old are they? Because the older you get, the more infrequent cdrs become. Especially if 55 years or older, grid rules come into effect. The every year to every seven year review is a general thing, and the younger you are, the more you're reviewed.

 

[seri0us]

After reading this thread I have decided to do as much preventative research as possible to make sure my children don't come out all fucked up.

I love you

 

[Ted Kaczynski]

I love you

Okay

 

[Android raptor]

I'm not sure where everyone else is but like I said where I'm at disability isn't easy for anyone to get. I've never heard of anyone getting is just for being fat or having a personality disorder or something. Everyone I've met who had it had some kind of actual serious disability and had to fight for years to get it.

Where I'm at even just getting on food stamps is a pain in the ass.

Anyway I'm gonna go look for more dead babies to post.

 

[GenociderSyo]

How old are they? Because the older you get, the more infrequent cdrs become. Especially if 55 years or older, grid rules come into effect. The every year to every seven year review is a general thing, and the younger you are, the more you're reviewed.

I mainly work with 6 to 21 year olds with severe disabilities or 16 onwards with severe mental illness. Most often its tweens plus that are co-morbid. I don't specialize in geriatric psychology so I do not tend to get many people over 60/65.

 

[A Detachable Penis]

Can you elaborate on this; like is there anything in particular that makes women with BPD stand out to you more than a man would? Asking out of pure curiosity.

I know that with ASD (for example) symptoms are usually easier to pick out in men, because women on average hide/mask their symptoms more effectively, or at least earlier on. Would you say it's something similar but with the genders flipped?

Easy - their black and white attitudes on people flip so hard and often and they are very vocal about it so you'll notice this symptom almost immediately.

I think BPD is a disorder that has been written to only apply to a female phenotype, so that's why males rarely get diagnosed with it. Autism has been broadened to include other phenotypes, but BPD hasn't.

I've never seen a male exhibit BPD-like symptoms. It may be a case where they don't actively vocalize behaviors like black and white relationship thinking due to differences between male and female socialization.

Edit: Since we are off topic.

What a great temperament! Oh wait, it has no brain and cannot scream.

Also, I forgot whether it was true or not that Jaxon Buell finally shed his moral coil. There was always fake articles about it almost like everyone wanted it to die.

 

[Red Velvet Frappe]

I found this girl on Facebook, Sarah Brackney whose first son died of a genetic disorder. I guess he was a twin, and the twins fine but they told her that having anymore children ran the same risk.

Surprise , Surprise, her second son has the exact same thing. Poor kid, he's only two weeks old and his head is already swelling.

 

[Android raptor]

I found this girl on Facebook, Sarah Brackney whose first son died of a genetic disorder. I guess he was a twin, and the twins fine but they told her that having anymore children ran the same risk.
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Surprise , Surprise, her second son has the exact same thing. Poor kid, he's only two weeks old and his head is already swelling.

That kid looks miserable, wtf.

Also, I forgot whether it was true or not that Jaxon Buell finally shed his moral coil. There was always fake articles about it almost like everyone wanted it to die.

Jaxon died a while ago and it was posted in the Buell thread but I don't remember seeing that article. Interesting the dad was there when Jaxon went to the big potato patch in the sky, after the Buells divorced it seemed like the dad wanted nothing to do with his spud beyond using it to promote prolife shit. I guess it's good he was at least there for the end, I don't think Dan Lirette had the same decency to at least pop in when his zombaby was dying.

Tbh it would be kinda funny if Canadian preacher Dan Lirette found this thread. Dan Lirette who fathered a brainless baby and then abandoned it and the mother.