This is something that's baffled me for a while.
If I create a personal ad and I say "NO ARMENIANS!" what kind of self-hating Armenian is going to look at that as a personal challenge?
There's some kind of logical breakdown here. I am shit at formal logic so humor me:
If you are a bigot, then you are bad.
If you don't want to date troons, then you are a bigot.
If you don't want to date troons, then you are bad.
If you are a bigot, then troons don't want to date you.
If troons don't want to date you, then you are bad.
QED.
But it should simplify to:
If you don't want to date troons, then troons don't want to date you.
QED.