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"While he's in an open marriage, his wife is not aware, and it was too hard to get away." Am I misunderstanding something here? He's in an open marriage, but his wife is unaware? What's that supposed to mean? Doesn't that just mean he's cheating on his wife?
Sounds like she was hoping her married boyfriend would leave his wife, in the meantime she used "polyamory" as a ruse to get the OK from her husband to shack up with her married boyfriend. When married boyfriend refused to leave his wife, the OP's wife decided she wanted a "closed relationship" again.

Either way, I feel horribly for those kids. How do people have the time to fuck around so much when they have children?
 
Don't so much get to anymore since we no longer have satellite but I spent basically the entirety of junior and high school keeping my TV on the ID channel.

When people "open" their relationships, and swingers swing...people often end up murdered.
 
New York Post article from today:
https://nypost.com/2021/03/29/oklahoma-pastors-wife-lover-charged-with-his-murder/

Recently I was watching a video from True Crime Daily and Ana Garcia said something like this in response to a similar murder case and it stuck with me:
You always hear, 'Love triangle gone wrong,' but when does it ever go right?
It shouldn't have to be like this, but I'm taking the "he abused me" re: David with a grain of salt. She just killed the man - even though she knows she ain't getting off at all, she's throwing out all "woe is me" bait she can to cushion whatever blow the jury and judge hand out to her. Also, even though verbal abuse isn't OK, murdering someone because they called you fat isn't justified.

This is more of a "true crime" or criminology thing but these situations always dumbfound me. Ghetto guy could've just taken his prize ugly fat white hag and ran. Sure, there still would've been a fallout, but David would still be alive so there's no chance of spending 25 to life in prison. It would be much more simple to divorce or at least separate. The risk is too damn high IMO but people take it every day.
 
Sounds like she was hoping her married boyfriend would leave his wife, in the meantime she used "polyamory" as a ruse to get the OK from her husband to shack up with her married boyfriend. When married boyfriend refused to leave his wife, the OP's wife decided she wanted a "closed relationship" again.

Either way, I feel horribly for those kids. How do people have the time to fuck around so much when they have children?
Good guess. The post has long been deleted but the "update" to this story is on youtube. The wife dragged her husband to couple's therapy where she revealed that her ex-side bitch was an old highschool boyfriend of hers that she wanted to hook up with. That was the straw that broke the camel's back and her husband started the divorce process.
 
also there are examples of giirls wanted to open the relationship and then the dude starts fucking around and the girl gets angry? i want to read some trainwrecks

Yup.

Was in a failing relationship and opened it up at the end. She pretty much dove off into fucking every dick that came her way, and if I had any objection then it was "none of my business" and etc etc. Yet every woman I got involved with, she somehow had a deep personal negative history with that she would use to disqualify and cock block.

Anyway, I'm happily married, she's on husband number 4. This one drives a UPS truck instead of flipping burgers at Waffle House, so she's on the up and up.
 
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also there are examples of giirls wanted to open the relationship and then the dude starts fucking around and the girl gets angry? i want to read some trainwrecks
Had some former friends who did this. Borderline former-megaho wife marries extremely sheltered husband and introduces him to burner and swinger/poly culture. She insists they go poly because she still wants to fuck around but as soon as he starts making connections of his own and hooking up with one or two people, she has a complete meltdown and guilt trips him into going monogamous again. Then she tries to get her best friend into a triad with both of them but the friend ends up wanting to see husband separately and she freaks out again and it almost completely ruins their friendship. She locks down the relationship again claiming it was "too stressful on their marriage" when in reality it was all her being extremely controlling and paranoid.

They're still married. Shes still lowkey bitter about not being able to fuck whoever she wants. I hope the husband realizes how controlling she is and gets away some day.
 
also there are examples of giirls wanted to open the relationship and then the dude starts fucking around and the girl gets angry? i want to read some trainwrecks
I've seen this happen in a different way. Chick breaks up with dude to fuck other guys, but wants to keep the now ex close in case it's not as good as she thought. She ends up not getting laid at all and her ex fucks her best friend almost right away. It was hilarious watching the broken brain chick try to work it all out convincing herself she wasn't the idiot.
 
im old fashioned if a girl told me she is bi and wanted to open the relationship id tell her to fuck off.

also there are examples of giirls wanted to open the relationship and then the dude starts fucking around and the girl gets angry? i want to read some trainwrecks
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There was a really good one where the wife wanted poly and the husband wouldn't stop banging trannies but I cannot find it atm
 
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It starts when they enter elementary school, age 5. I absolutely would not be surprised if some preschools and daycares take it upon themselves to start earlier.
Yeesh. Add that with the fact that teacher unions will do any and all to protect even their most terrible, and you get a propaganda machine which looks pretty much near impossible to beat(assuming someone plays by their "rules")
 
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