- Joined
- May 18, 2019
I think the real cunt aspect of this "we need to be more independent people; this is probably best" is that the anniversary of moving in together was on 15 April, 2 days ago. So instead of celebrating, cheering, it's "I think we need to not support each other". He's a weird person though as friends go, he is a decent friend by putting up with her shit as he empathizes with the fact she struggles to go to the door, down and up the stairs to get the food she delivers and will even fuck up his order and not care. Or putting on her socks, or clean for her because her back is strained from carrying 250 extra pounds and she can't bend to reach things. Or get up from the couch to get paper towels and ketchup.
That's what gets me - the lack of her awareness and gratitude for agreeing to move in with her, the apatment hunting, dealing with her shit post break up, the COVID mandates and restrictions, having to keep his cat in his room... she decides "I don't need him anymore and it's for his own good". His.
I think the bigger problem is her being on Youtube. SHe can't do her new park routine without the chat room holding her hand. We all know the enablers are her mods, loyal supporters and even us hate watchers. I may take a break again from watching her only because this bullshit drama is interesting, it's precisely the fuel that keeps her drama car driving. It will crash though I'm in camp slow burn and I'd rather not frustrate myself because whenever she has a major life decision to make she always picks the worst possible choice and usually one not on the table. Over and over for years this is the case. She's mentally fucked and on top of that, limited in her intellectual capacity and now exacerbated since she's fucking stoned on the daily to the point she just stares into the chat comment void.
That's what gets me - the lack of her awareness and gratitude for agreeing to move in with her, the apatment hunting, dealing with her shit post break up, the COVID mandates and restrictions, having to keep his cat in his room... she decides "I don't need him anymore and it's for his own good". His.
I think the bigger problem is her being on Youtube. SHe can't do her new park routine without the chat room holding her hand. We all know the enablers are her mods, loyal supporters and even us hate watchers. I may take a break again from watching her only because this bullshit drama is interesting, it's precisely the fuel that keeps her drama car driving. It will crash though I'm in camp slow burn and I'd rather not frustrate myself because whenever she has a major life decision to make she always picks the worst possible choice and usually one not on the table. Over and over for years this is the case. She's mentally fucked and on top of that, limited in her intellectual capacity and now exacerbated since she's fucking stoned on the daily to the point she just stares into the chat comment void.
Well, they are both agoraphobic and in a pandemic which has for over a year, mandated people stay home as much as possible. I also think the agoraphobia was why they decided on a split level. She's usually on the main level, he's usually on the top level. She's just making drama up because she can't live or thrive without a crisis.That means he's there, 24/7, all the fucking time. Sure he's in his room a lot of the time but there's always the chance he'll come and bother her. If she's poopooing in the kitchen, Peetz might hobble in. If she's watching netflix Peetz might go tell her how he blocked a TERF on twitter and sit down next to her. Pile that on top of his very blunt passive aggressive comments and that he doesn't clean (probably to teach Chantal about how she should clean more) and he would be absolute hell to live with.