Dangerhair
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- Oct 6, 2017
I think it can vary. Some homos start affecting flamboyancy (because they think they have to/for attention) others are naturally flamboyant but mask it when they don't feel relaxed/comfortable (e.g. around a bunch of straight dudes they don't know) and some are just flaming queens and can't turn it off.
The first two would probably look exactly the same to an outside observer.
I used to know a straight guy who was flaming. He was tall, handsome and in great shape from doing gymnastics, but also liked to dress snappy and had a terminal gay voice and would just generally be swishy. But he genuinely was straight and would struggle to find girls, because they all assumed he was gay. It wasn't a self hating thing either, he had a really accepting family and a couple of gay friends. He just couldn't turn it off, and he would have if he could. (Last I heard he did end up getting married to a woman and having a baby, so it worked out ok in the end)
Jaron, the boy who was never allowed to exist, is a mystery. Ever since infancy, he's had to LARP as Jazz, who is entirely Jeanette's creation.
Hell, I'm not convinced that Jaron would even have been gay or bi*. He might have even just been a swishy straight boy, with more girl friends than guy friends, who liked playing soccer until it became less about kicking around a ball for an hour and more of a competitive team sport (which is usually around 8-9 years old, consistent with his soccer experiences). There's nothing wrong with that, and it's surprisingly common. The worst thing that would happen is he gets made fun of for being a sissy, but then his girlfriends "boy-cott" the offenders, or he becomes an art/drama kid, who are known for being a tight-knit group.
Hell, when Jazz was born in 2002, what was the big thing? Metrosexuals. Straight guys who liked to dress well, were into theatre and opera, and appreciated interior design. Shows like Queer Eye For The Straight Guy were big- literally a panel of gay men showing a straight guy how to be more appealing to women.
Go back even farther back, you have dandies who spent more on their suits than on their wives' dresses, and fops who would wear corsets, skintight leggings, fur coats and silk scarves- and were notorious womanizers.
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*For some reason, in my experience, bi girls are a pretty even split between mostly straight but had one same-sex partner, and mostly lesbian but had one opposite partner, but almost every bi guy is a gay man in denial.