Sometimes I tell myself "stop being an autist introvert paranoid shut in."
You don't flip switches with this shit. You build up to it like it's a muscle, by getting out and learning and failing. It's like any other skill - if I told you to learn to play the guitar, would you lament it was impossible? Only if you tried to jam out Crystal Planet the first damn time you picked the thing up.
I just ran out of venues to ask people out, and lack the understanding or motivation to acquire new ones.
If you live in the middle of nowhere, maybe that's a concern. That's the only real point at which the online shit begins to make any sense. Beyond that - communal things, whatever strikes your fancy. Classes, events, open mics, shows, hobbyist workshops, whatever
My autist brain cannot understand this.
Treat humans like they're trains. Learn to emulate what is in reality an incredibly complex system, and decide for yourself what you would prefer your own system to look like. Find role models or characters that are close to this model, observe what they do and how they behave with regards to different stimula, and 'roleplay' those attitudes to see if they take or become secondhand.
Lots of 'tists do this successfully, provided they're on the points in the spectrum that don't drool and shit themselves. I've known folks that had severe motor and behavioral issues growing up and even needed lecturers to provide them with recordings of classes who you could never tell from a day to day interaction were anything more than eccentric.
Self-improvement can only take you so far.
Asians fethisize whites especially if they come from places like Thailand or Philippines.
Smell that? It's the smell of cope. Good news for you, though, there's literally no end of theoretical possible excuses so keep it up.
No women and in fact no one has ever gotten interested in me talking about calculus or differential geometry.
Have you tried talking to people who are, I don't know, in a graduate program for advanced mathematics rather than some fucking randoms who like Game of Thrones about that shit? Working in that field? Peripheral to that field?
Otherwise, that's the equivalent of asking a stranger at the bar if they like trains.
Most incels go to the gym and have a day job among other things.
The latter, maybe, but the former is X as fuck. The genuine physical rush you get from exercising and that feeling of efficacy you get from the practice directly contradicts all those copes and excuses that you'll instead insist are totally factual and 100% right. I lifted a dumbbell once and didn't get qt3.14gf, wtf?
They suck if you're ugly, if you're chad I don't think they would mind it because to them its like uber eats for sex.
lol do you know any attractive people at all? they hate the apps too, and it's way more than fucking chad who can pick up a dumpster to fuck for a night on those stupid things. You can't figure out how to crack the formula on these stupid fucking dating apps that most people couldn't give a shit less about... so why fixate on it and rage about other people doing well? Seems like a great way to excuse sitting around and half-assing existence.
