Maybe a little of both, I assume all these people are porn addicts (and I've yet to see anything that hasn't proven me right) and I guess you can have relationships with women and still think of them as more an object or fetish than a person, like how some rapists do it for power, not sexual pleasure.
I just need to step in and autistically challenge this cause I hear it a lot, it's not really about power. It is more about sexual pleasure than anything. It is the mixture of sexual power and pleasure, but this weird Liberal idea that rape is about power just doesn't track onto reality. They also say this about rape in prison, men raping each other for dominance and power and revenge or something. Ask yourself this: have you, or any man you've ever known, wanted to fuck a man in the ass cause you hated them so much? And then keep fucking them repeatedly? Have you ever been so horny that you went to fuck a man?
The answer is: no. There's far more men in these situations that don't do sodomy than vice versa. And it's actually more likely that these people are using that as a cover for their own homosexuality than anything. No man has ever raped a woman because of a power thing, he rapes because he is horny, he sees women as easy prey, and he doesn't want to wait. It's like shoplifting sex, and nobody shoplifts
really to attack capitalism.
To the main point I believe Olly does, in fact, fetishize femininity. And furthermore, it is weird that so many women do the baggy clothes, hair pulled back, looking like absolute shit thing. Everyone knows it is women mimicking men, which is mainly a Feminist thing that nobody is impressed by, and you can be certain when they go out in a non-professional setting they are jamming their tits as far up their chest as they can as some sort of weird subliminal pressure release.
I like the idea of exploring transness not as its own phenomenon but an extension of mentally ill homosexuals. They're really not that far off from the mainstream celebration of drag culture. This may be too extreme for this thread but I think there is an huge unspoken aspect of gay culture in general where the entire goal is to attack orthodoxy and get off on it, so this is a natural result of that. So I don't buy it at all when gay people act like this is all beyond the pale. It's just one tiny step further than the shit they are already doing.
I mean, look at the video we are all talking about: the moment Olly comes out as trans, he is given a gay award and immediately shepherded on stage with a gay murderer to talk about what it's like to be a woman