You don't have to say it. Just like the woman screaming at nobody on the bus doesn't have to tell me she's mentally ill for me to observe it, I don't have to be told you're a confused snarl of mommy and daddy issues attached to a vagina to observe it.
Existing.
Finished another year of school, brought more children into this world. Worked to support every one in my family. Still researching my thesis for when I finish my Masters when I move. I also taught my wife how cook, well teaching her slowly. She's made pies!
Starting a journey not knowing your destination, not knowing the way and not having a guide is rarely a good idea.
And I said people speak not only by their words but also by how they speak, what they react to, how they react, what they omit and so on.
Treating people with honor, forgiving what can be forgiven, showing mercy and loving those who deserve it is called "decency", not "spiritual abuse".
I still don't understand how one gets into that "Covenant". Not inherited on mother's side, not married into it so how?
We need to agree to disagree about you being righteous.
You specifically said evil mother-daughter pairs are a common occurrence through history (without giving examples).
I assume I wouldn't like it there very much.
Based on available data.
Not my point. I pointed out that IF Toasty as an adult woman has a close relationship with her mother, this means they enjoy each other's company. Based on this I assumed Toasty is good to be around, otherwise nobody would enjoy being around her.
So you say birth is more important than relationship? I pity you, a little bit.
No. My posts and my profile are visible for all. My name, occupation and residence have nothing to do with what I post here.
I don't attack anybody. I challenge your ideas and statements.
The easiest way to do this would be to not say anything. If I don't post nobody will give me any attention. When I post at least a few people will see it.
Show me one evil thing I did.
118-124 IQ based on several tests. Slightly above average but I can forget about Mensa.
Out of three Abrahamic religions Christianity is probably the humblest.
Arranged a small home library for myself, so books and discs don't lay all around the house.
So that's where you put them. Here I just have everything stuffed in my office.
The very same post I'm quoting, for one.
Like here
And here
Here, you claim to know that an entire religion is made up of narcissists. That's an amazing level of projection, might I add.
Did I say that? No, never did.
But I know, you're a Christian. You can't help but be narcissistic, because your entire religion (Christianity) is built on Narcissism.
Yes. And women also do other work in socialist societies. You're nowhere near as clever as you believe yourself to be, Mel.Gee, ya think? Children can't raise themselves. The mothers and fathers do that WORK
Regardless of how many sentences you have spoken about your mother, what you have said paints a very clear picture of how you view her.
This is just word salad at this point. Confirmation bias is not a tactic. It's a trap people fall into.
This is yet another example of when you have told someone how they feel.
And there comes the blatant strawman. Mel, no one is saying you are unable/ not allowed to speak for yourself or that speaking for one's self is a trait of narcissists on its own. What I am saying is that you have a tendency to treat anything other than the exact words you remember saying as not being valid statements about you. A tendency that does not get applied towards others. You are more than happy to come to conclusions about other people based on no evidence, yet balk whenever someone else comes to a conclusion about you.
Gotten married, got a new job, and got a lovely new home.
How is it a rumor if it's posted on the front page of the site?
60 Anonymous John Does across multiple sites including KF are being sued by one virgin with rage who also motioned for the courts to subpoena information for Null and other website owners. Null filled as an Intervener to quash this motion. Neither Null nor Lolcow LLC. are being sued in Wisconsin.
I fail to see how that will be relevant to your case since Null is not being sued.
I doubt that will ever happen. It took you six tries for your case to not immediately be thrown out by the judge. The only other lolcow who's case against Null or KF that wasn't also immediately thrown out is inane dribble filed by some spastic sexpest that was arrested for stalking. If either are any metric for a lolcow's ability to pursue legal action, I think Null and KF are in a good place.
You know Jews go to hell right?Feelings of rejection by a parent is also the seed of opportunity to find one's own identity, practice radical acceptance and start your own family traditions.
And I also digress, I never stated on this thread I had feelings of rejection. That's an assumption on your part. My decision to not have a relationship with my mom had nothing to do with feelings of rejection on my part.
You're quoting from The Torah here. The Torah only applies to those in Covenant with Elohim. The Torah does not allow people to cherry pick the benefits of The Torah (honor, forgiveness, mercy, love, etc) while ignoring the responsibilities of The Torah (financial responsibility to children, providing them a house, etc). To demand someone gives someone the benefits without the responsibilities is spiritual abuse.
My biological mother was not in Covenant with Elohim, The Torah does not apply to her.
I give no one the benefits of The Torah without first seeing they deserve it by righteous behavior.
Evil can pass from father to son as well, it's not exclusive to one gender.
Who will turn out to be worthy of the New Jerusalem is not predetermined. People have to be born and live a life.
Assumption.
Many people with caring parents turn out to be evil, narcissistic, abusive, addicted to drugs, etc. You're confusing correlation and causation.
Your confusing birth with relationship
Problem is, collection of books and discs grow and the library stays the same size
Melinda was wrong you say? I'm shocked!
Nyarlathotep will have to wait, we're working on summoning Hastur, the King in Yellow. You know what they say, no party like a party in Carcosa.
There's a few of you on this thread like that
"as simple and uncomplex as getting knocked up to be some sort of achievement and legacy."
Do you talk to your mother like that?
You're muddling details into muddy soup.
Not once did I ever devalue my mother because of her contribution to carrying me for 9 months, not aborting me and instead birthing me with labor pains.
What this poster said, but said like this, "Shut up whore. Shut your lying whore mouth! Show shithole!!!"
Null himself actually said it best on Dax's Discord before he got shoah'd.
I can't get into too many details, but I came out on top of a protracted legal battle with a branch of my government, which has greatly benefited my stress levels to say the least. Maybe I could advise some people around here on how to actually win legal actions. (Aquire councel)
