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Boogie / Boogie2988 / "Francis" / Steven Jason Williams - Fat, Rapidly Declining Divorced "Nice Guy" Middle-Aged Youtuber, Former Edgy Porn Blogger, lied about having cancer and being molested. Cohost of fake drama show "Lolcow Live (LCL)". Just WILL NOT die.
For those of you who were wondering whether the highly suspicious Twitter account @PLovr21 is a Boogie alt or not, the answer seems to be a definitive yes. While this is Boogie operating his own sock puppet account, it can also be accurately described as a @nocturnalwalrus clone. We now know that @nocturnalwalrus is Boogie himself, and this new alt account is basically a mirror image of @nocturnalwalrus. The same relentless defense of Boogie, smearing of his critics, high praise/worship for Boogie2988, it can correctly be identified as an alt account's alt account. If you're new and interested in a side-by-side comparison breaking down both of these alt's, I do so in this post here.
The account registered and first Tweeted on April 30th. Suspiciously, this was timed right at the peak of when those of us here and others on Twitter were noticing and calling Boogie out for how obvious it was that he was operating the @nocturnalwalrus sock puppet account. I'll include the account's first Tweet in a spoiler below. He's making this whole whack-a-mole game with his alt's waaaay too easy.
You'll notice that the following Tweets were sent at a highly unusual time for the fat man, in the afternoon. Boogie's in St. Louis right now filming "travel content" and has been Tweeting about adjusting his sleep cycle for this trip, even patting himself on the back for waking up at a "normal time". Below you'll see that Boogie's first Tweet of the day was at 12:19 P.M, while his alt @PLovr21's first (and only) Tweet today was sent at 12:22 P.M.
Alt account's Tweet @ 12:22 P.M. (archive)
Boogie2988's Tweet @ 12:19 P.M. (archive) View attachment 2146784 (I cropped the pic on the left to save space on this thread and because asymmetry fucks with my autism)
One more observation while I make this post. I covered this a while ago, but I've still seen some confusion from a few regarding how Boogie can go about creating + operating a steady, diverse supply of his own alt accounts. On Twitter there are comments left reading "Guess he's bringing both phones to St. Louis" and there's also been speculation here that he must have used his new iPhone after ditching his old Android line to verify the @nocturnalwalrus account (Twitter is fucking gay and now requires authentic accounts to verify themselves via text message before gaining all permissions). There is a simple workaround for this that is incredibly easy to use and only takes 3 minutes to verify new accounts, which Boogie has been making to use as sock puppets. There are dozens of sites just like this one, TextVerified.com, which charge a user $1.99 to use a service that will text them back the code Twitter sent to verify that account. It's so easy, even retarded Boogie can do it.
As far as the profile photos are concerned, I think he's either screenshotted random girls from his own social media and edited them so they don't show up on reverse-image searching, or more likely, he's using a website guaranteed to not return reverse search results like thispersondoesnotexist.com or boredhumans.com. These are websites that use AI leveraging databases with photos of hundreds of thousands of people to generate pictures of realistic looking humans who actually do not exist. Look at the comparison between the first random image I got on boredhumans.com compared to the profile picture that Boogie's using for his @PLovr21 alt account. This literally took me 20~ seconds.
Notice how Boogie decided to change his social justice acronym of choice from "LGBTQ+" in @nocturnalwalrus' bio to "BLM" in @PLovr21's bio. That is how much either of these social justice movements mean to Boogie, this is how much thought he has ever put into either. That thought is "which social justice movement's acronym should I place in the bio of profiles for sock puppet account's I created in order to differentiate the two, avoid having them correctly ID'd as alt's, and advertise the appearance that my biggest "fans" are morally righteous people? View attachment 2146797View attachment 2146804
I don't quite know how to explain it, but picklelover's bio just screams like something Boogie will write. Especially the Gamer ( I suck tho LOL) part.
46 year old, fat, divorced manchild. This is the reality of Boogie's life. Not a life that many would envy. Money can buy a lot of things, but meaningful relationships aren't one of them.
In this post, we'll be taking a closer look at Boogie's relationships with his exes and how Boogie actually got cucked by his ex-wife!
DEZ
If we're talking about Boogie's relationships, Dez has to be mentioned first. Boogie first met Dez through Myspace when she reached out to him after watching a video about his mother's passing:
Here's a Sam & Tolki user's summary of their marriage:
Looking through the Twitter timeline of these two during their marriage would suggest a very, very happy marriage:
However, social media is a highlights reel. There was a lot going on behind the scenes that we didn't know about and STILL don't know about.
From the sample size we've been given of Boogie on social media lately, it's very apparent that he's a total bitch.
Tweets like this highlight this fact:
(Why would anyone but you be insecure about this photo, Boogie?)
I also found several examples of Boogie tweeting on Dez's Twitter account. While these tweets are all in good fun, the last place you want an insecure lover to be is logged into your social media:
(Could you imagine Boogie checking her DMs and seeing that a male had messaged her? He'd 100% lose his shit)
Eventually the behind-the-scenes issues with Dez and Boogie started becoming so bad that it spilled into Boogie's streams. The nice guy mask started to slip:
Boogie clarified his behavior on Reddit after:
(The first sentence of the stickied comment sums up every Boogie controversy ever)
And then eventually Dez told Boogie that she was going to leave him:
Both livestreams are absolutely humiliating for Boogie, or at least they should be. Boogie constantly acts like an overly emotional 14 year old girl, so this is normal for him. This is not normal behavior for a man in his mid 40's however. Suddenly it becomes very evident as to why Dez would want to divorce Boogie.
I'll touch base more on how much of beta bitch Boogie is the next post.
So either Dez has left Boogie here or she is planning on it. Either way, Boogie doesn't make his official divorce announcement until Dec 20, 2017:
To get a better idea, I've combed through Boogie and Dez's mentions of eachother in the lead in to the divorce (trust me when I say that following this part is worth it):
28th Oct 2017, Dez and Boogie go on a date:
13th Nov 2017, at this point I'm sure Boogie's wife is also wondering why she got together with him:
16th Nov 2017, Boogie posts a pic of his wife:
23rd Nov 2017, Boogie says that he's grateful for his wife on Twitter:
12th Dec 2017, Boogie clings to hope that he and his wife will get together:
Now here's the plot twist: Dez was almost certainly dating another guy on the side the entire time!
BOOGIE ACTUALLY GOT CUCKED
In Feb 2018, Dez posted a picture of herself with another man on Instagram:
This caught the attention of a Sam & Tolki user who created a thread about this.
Boogie being Boogie decided to jump in and defuse the situation by stating that the man in the photo is simply Dez's "cousin":
(Note: Boogie says that it takes a while for Dez to warm up to someone)
Well Boogie, she must really like her cousin because she then posted this Facebook collage about a month later:
Several months later, all speculation was put to rest when Dez made this post dedicated to her new man:
Since then, Dez has been uploading frequent pictures with this man with the most recent coming in Dec 2020:
Okay so you may be wondering how she cheated on Boogie or had this guy on the side. Well I did some deeper digging and found this profile picture of hers from JAN 1, 2018:
(She might as well have captioned this "Hey Steven, fuck you,")
This is less than 2 WEEKS after Boogie went official with the divorce and 20 days after Boogie claimed that they were "trying to make things work"
When you stop and think about dating and milestones, this is really bad for Boogie.
For a personal reference point: I have been dating a girl since April 1. We've been on about 6 dates and I'm yet to meet any of her friends outside of one who was with her the night I got her Snapchat. She has only met my sibling because they live with me.
Now, would I upload a couply selfie of her and I to my social media after 20 days? No. Because by the 20 day mark we've been on 3 or 4 dates. Granted everyone goes at a different pace, but Dez went from a 7 year relationship and a 4 year marriage straight to updating her Facebook with a profile picture of her and her new man. It sounds silly, but it's actually a big step to do that when you consider that most of her closest friends and family will be seeing the pic (and therefore raising questions about her marriage and what happened).
I think a lot of us can look back at women we've dated or been in relationship with and then wondered how they managed to get another guy so quickly after a breakup.
The reality is: If a woman isn't happy in her relationship and she's looking to leave, sometimes she may get another guy before breaking up with you. When she is certain that things are going to work with this other guy, she breaks up with her current partner.
This makes total sense when you look at Dez's situation. She moved away from her family and friends to live with Boogie and his roommate. She had to build a new life with Boogie which would've been difficult when she had to quit her job and look after him fulltime. Outside of Boogie, she doesn't have much in Arkansas.
Dez was dating this man on the side (I believe they live in Michigan now?) and slowly building a new life with him before the both of them decided to take the next step. This is when she dropped the hammer on Boogie and asked for a divorce.
Dez's new man was a nice short drive from Fayetteville
This is why Boogie gets so triggered when you say that he got cucked/cheated on. It wasn't a big black bull giving her the fucking she deserved, it was a skinny white man. Who would ever want to admit to this anyway? Of course Boogie will deny that it happened, so all you can do is look at the evidence before you and put 2 and 2 together.
EDIT: And this is a big edit, folks. Courtesy of user @DOUCHEQUEER , we have some never-before known info about Dez's new lover:
@DOUCHEQUEER
Regarding Boogie getting cucked by Skinny Pete, did you bros know he had a Dez tattoo as early as 2013 per his prison records:
She was potentially cucking him with Pete for THE ENTIRE MARRIAGE.
Straight after the divorce and likely seething that Dez left him for another man, Boogie made several lame attempts to make her jealous. In fact he wasted no time doing this. Here's him on Dec 17 (5 days after say he's "trying to make things work"):
This post is really pathetic. "Bunch of people got mad at me for this pic lol. I wanted to see how badly this would trigger everyone." - What? Who are you trying to trigger? The haters? Is that what's at the forefront of your mind just after getting divorced? (Rhetorical question. Of course it is!).
Yeah, instead of taking time away from the internet to unpack what I can only imagine to be an extremely difficult situation, Boogie's on social media flexing on the haters. However, he's not only trying to flex on the haters, he's obviously trying to make Dez jealous here as well.
DEZ'S GAG ORDER
One of the biggest talking points about Boogie's divorce is the non-disparage clause which Dez signed (will refer to this as "NDC" going forward). This is another one of those regrettable livestream Freudian slips from him:
("Which I asked for, she didn't ask for it." Emphasis on Boogie saying that HE asked for it)
For those of you who are unsure, here is the meaning of an NDC:
Apparently not a gag order, according to Boogie:
This of course gets mentioned to him by his critics. Boogie being a big fat liar spins several different versions of events in response:
"I signed an NDA, not sure if she did" (how could you be unsure about the outcome of a legal agreement between you and someone else?):
("I OBVIOUSLY didn't" - Signs of a Boogie lie)
Boogie is now saying that it was NEVER an NDA. He signed an NDC, but she didn't:
But then Boogie says that he signed an NDA and goes on to explain what an NDA is:
"She didn't sign it, I did":
As you can see this is just another story that Boogie can't keep straight to save his life. For the record, Boogie started melting down over this because of the Sam & Tolki subreddit. He was using a strawman argument that the subreddit was accusing him of beating his wife and so he got Dez to make a statement:
He also made her address the NDC (btw nice jab at mental health, Mr."Mental Health Advocate"):
Boogie also debunks all the previous screenshots by saying that they both signed an NDC here (he really sucks at lying):
Now while Dez did come out and say that she never signed an NDA, that's NOT what Boogie said during his livestream slip up. He said that there's an NDC in the mediation agreement. So yes, Dez didn't sign an NDA, but she did sign an NDC.
Considering that Boogie took the entire Sam & Tolki subreddit and criticism videos of him as slander and hate, then I don't think his ex-wife would be allowed to say much:
Further to this (and far more damning) is the fact he is a serial manipulator, particularly behind the scenes. Here's some examples of content creators being emotionally manipulated by Boogie in their DMs:
Boogie is always trying to control the narrative and always trying to silence criticism through any means necessary (btw, there's more examples later in the "Boogie is an Abuser" section).
I find it impossible to believe that Boogie isn't texting/calling/DMing his ex-wife and manipulating her before she makes these tweets defending him. Of course he's contacting her and throwing a bitch fit to get this addressed ASAP.
Just look at the screenshots in this section. Non-stop bitching about trolls, haters and Reddit. Imagine putting up with that for 7 years. You would certainly want to be done with your teenage daughter's ex-husband's drama at this point.
Now that we've untangled this web of lies, let's move on.
WHY DID DEZ SIGN AN NDC?
If you're making someone sign an NDC, then there's clearly something that the other party wants to hide.
In the previous section, I highlighted Boogie's interactions with other content creators. If this is how Boogie talks to strangers on the internet, then how do you think he treats his wife when he's having a bad day? Yeah, probably not with love and affection. Boogie's online behavior suggests that he's nasty, toxic little man when the camera is off.
If you suggest that Boogie was abusive to his ex-wife, then he will exaggerate and twist it into you accusing him of beating his ex-wife:
He blamed the Sam & Tolki subreddit for this but if you go to the Sam & Tolki archive and use the "search" function on your phone or PC, I encourage you to keysearch the word "beat".
One of Boogie's main complaints against the subreddit was that they accused him of beating his wife, yet when you search for threads about Boogie beating Dez, you find 0 threads. This archive includes threads which were REMOVED. Not even the most rabid of Boogie haters was accusing him of beating Dez.
As an apparent victim of abuse, I've always found it interesting how he constantly twists the verbal abuse accusations made against him into physical assault accusations. Not a very understanding victim, is he?
If you point out that he's strawmanning, you will get spoken to like a piece of shit or blocked:
(Will definitely disect these tweets in a later post)
Boogie is insistent that he's not capable of abusing someone else or hurting them. Time and time again he will tell you this:
However, Boogie made a big woopsie in the following clip when once again defending himself:
"Did I ever stand and scream in her face telling her that I wish she were fuckin' dead-y'know, I dunno I dunno." - Straight from the horse's mouth.
What a loving way to talk to your wife. It's little wonder that the man with the "Mr.Rogers of the Internet" title wouldn't want any incidents like this slipping out, hence the reason Dez signed the NDC.
I wonder who else has been handed gag orders from Boogie? Isn't it strange how Haberdashera has gone AWOL...
@Not Even Twice pointed this out below: Isn't it strange how all the women Boogie's been involved with disappear from the face of the internet once he's done with them?
WE'RE STILL FRIENDS!
Boogie really wants you to believe that he and his ex-wife are good friends. He bangs on and on about how he was never abusive and how they're still friends. Here's Dez quote-tweeting one of Boogie's hundreds of tweets defending himself:
(Note: Boogie HAD to retweet this for his fans to see)
Here's Boogie messaging her at 2:30am on their wedding anniversary...nearly a year after they divorced:
Here's the infamous livestream where Boogie called Dez. It was his birthday btw and HE was calling HER lol:
And here's Dez apparently messaging Boogie 2 years after they divorced:
Yeah, Boogie really wants to make sure that everyone knows that they're on good terms. It's not relevant to his followers or content, but Boogie feels the need to share this.
Boogie was too pre-occupied to send a text in 2020:
In fact, Boogie and Dez were even on good terms while they were getting divorced! So much so that they were TOTALLY still banging:
'X' to doubt.
SECRETLY SEETHING
I was hoping for this post to cover all of Boogie's relationships, but as I progress through the Dez folder alone, I realize that this may have to be a two-parter.
The reason I bring up the other relationships in Boogie's life (past and present) is because well...he shit talks everyone and anyone. I'll be providing examples of him shit talking all of his immediate family, ex girlfriends and friends/acquaintances.
Someone who shit talks everybody in their life is typically a bit of a toxic cunt and almost always the problem in the relationship.
Surprisingly, Dez appears to be one of the few people to have dodged jibes from Boogie. Perhaps there's a fear there that if he puts a foot wrong, then Dez may expose him. Perhaps he DID sign an NDC and isn't allowed to shit talk her.
It's Boogie though and even he can't help but take pot shots at his ex-caretaker (because he's such a nice guy!):
You weren't the one doing the divorcing, Boogie:
Boogie makes another Freudian slip (his attempt to save it here is pathetic):
Boogie basically calls Dez so ugly that he had to have sex with the lights off:
(Predicted responseL "iT wAs JuSt a JoKe!!!!")
The most petty thing of all however, would have to be him keeping their dog, Sammy out of spite:
It's not Boogie's fault though, his therapist said that's what the man should be doing in a relationship.
The clip of him quickly correcting himself after saying that he regrets marrying his wife is a very odd one. How quickly he goes to correct himself suggests that he perhaps can't say too much about her.
The only time Boogie seems to talk about her is to debunk trolls or to claim how they're still good friends.
With what we know about Boogie, do you think for a moment that this guy is pleasant to and on good terms with Dez? Especially knowing that she likely cucked him? I doubt that.
The good news is that Dez is free from his clutches, but I'm sure there isn't a day that goes by where she's not embarrassed to have married such a man child.
LUCY FOXX
Lucy Foxx is a girl Boogie met on Seeking Arrangements, a website for sugar babies to meet sugar daddies. Lucy was 19-20 years of age when she dated 43-44 year old Boogie.
Sam & Tolki user "kittyleaf" sums up Boogie's profile nicely:
Things didn't work out between the two and then about 6 months later, Lucy dropped a video exposing Boogie (which if you haven't watched, I highly suggest you do):
Lucy detailed being emotionally and verbally abused, something which the Sam & Tolki community had already speculated about Boogie due to past livestream meltdowns.
To defend himself, Boogie jumped on the totally unbiased Drama Alert and had his good buddy Keemstar throw softballs at him during the interview:
Boogie, who still had many fooled with his "nice guy" facade at the time managed to get away with this one. Many of his fans attacked and harrassed Lucy Foxx to the point that she deleted her video and abandoned other social media handles.
Despite wishing her well in that video, this didn't stop Boogie passive-aggressively liking negative tweets aimed at Lucy:
Many of Boogie's fans claimed that Lucy Foxx did this for attention while Boogie continues (to this day) telling everyone that she was lying. He of course provides NO EVIDENCE that she's lying:
(I would like to know how it's "obvious" that she was lying)
And Boogie being the pro-feminist that he is decides to use one of the oldest excuses in the book for Lucy Foxx outing him:
Oh and Boogie really, REALLY fucking hates Lucy:
Boogie actually sounds completely psychotic in that 2nd clip. It becomes very hard to believe his claims that he's not capable of being emotionally abusive when he's clearly seething like that.
In summary, Boogie denies being verbally abusive to Lucy Foxx:
And he doesn't think that she is owed an apology. SHE is in the wrong apparently:
BOOGIE IS AN ABUSER
Now, with the previous two women in mind and the speculation that Boogie is abusive, I invite you to watch this clip of Boogie from the h3h3 Podcast. In this clip, Boogie discusses Anita Sarkisean and his PTSD:
That's interesting, isn't it? Boogie admits that in a heated discussion, he may "depersonalize" and say stuff that he doesn't mean.
Saying regrettable shit when you're angry is fairly common, Boogie. Most people own it and don't make elaborate excuses like you do.
To further back this up, Boogie again blames "depersonalizing" for the many times he's said dumb shit on Twitter:
The depersonalizing excuse is of course just that: An excuse. I've discussed Boogie's lack of accountability in the past. He's more than happy to blame his friends, family, partners, mental health etc on his problems. He really is a total bitch.
But let's roll with his excuse that he depersonalizes. Would it not be unreasonable to suggest that he "depersonalized" when arguing with Lucy Foxx which caused him to abuse her verbally? Is he trying to tell us that in 7 years with his ex-wife that this never happened once? He said that he was afraid of depersonalizing when confronted by some lady he'd just met.
In the same h3 Podcast appearance, Boogie also mentioned that his wife was "walking on eggshells" around him towards the end of the marriage:
Further to this, when Boogie had been unleashed in the wild without his tard wrangling wife, he's caused situations like this:
Kat Blaque incident:
Mumkey Jones incident:
Idubbbz incident + Keemstar:
Remember: Boogie isn't capable of doing these horrible things though! Such a shame that there's countless content creators who can say otherwise. Losing Dez really was the worst thing that happened to you.
This also doesn't include the time where Boogie completely melted down over an edgy prank YouTuber (Frank Hassle) saying that he was going to come to Boogie's house.
"B-but he said he was going to rape me!" - Boogie, you say that you have an edgy sense of humor. You also say that you deal with your trauma by joking about these things AND you've made jokes in the past about raping babies.
Do you see how easy it is to poke holes in Boogie's stories? When you settle on not giving him the benefit of doubt and taking all of his claims as lies, then everything makes far more logical sense.
I also find it interesting how Boogie preaches kindness to others, listening to other people's stories, "being better", equality etc:
So it's okay for you to tell other people to keep a skeptical mind about something until evidence is provided, yet you never provide any evidence to suggest that Lucy Foxx lied and we should believe you?
Can you explain how it's "clear/obvious" that she's lying if you have no evidence?
By the same token you could argue that we have no evidence from Lucy Foxx to suggest she should be listened to. However, isn't Boogie's past and current behavior very indicative of an abuser? The fact that he lies about EVERYTHING suggests that he shouldn't be trusted and he especially shouldn't be given the benefit of doubt when he gets super defensive over something.
Friendly reminder (in case you forgot) that Boogie is apparently a survivor of abuse:
And Boogie has also come out and claimed that he lied to protect his abusers:
Yet when he's the one being accused of such things, it's a case of "WHY WOULD THEY LIE TO PROTECT ME!?!":
Why would visit your mom is she was abusive to you?
Why would you visit your mom's crypt if she was abusive to you?
Why would you wish your "rapist" father a happy father's day?
As a victim of abuse, Boogie doesn't seem to show a lot of understanding or sympathy towards other alleged victims.
(Boogie knows how impactful accusing someone of rape can be. He made a career from it)
BLACK EX-GIRLFRIEND
Boogie's "black ex-girlfriend", Danielle. Also known as the Boogie version of "I have black friends":
Yeah, whenever Boogie is accused of being racist or says that he's pro Black Lives Matter, he will mention that he dated/was friends with Danielle. He also does this with his trans and gay "friends" (none of who we've ever met).
Boogie thinks that it's impossible for him to be racist because he dated a black girl. This is despite him saying that his mother is a racist, yet he also claimed she fucked a black man:
(Implies that his mother was racist)
(Claims that she had a black lover)
Whether Boogie even dated Danielle is up for debate (This is pure speculation on my behalf). Not one to shy away from seeking pity (even it's through someone else's pain), Boogie made a video about Danielle having breast cancer:
He doesn't once mention her as his ex-girlfriend here.
Later that month he makes another video about her:
And many years later during his insufferable "nice guy" facade, Boogie made sure to use her death to partake in some virtue signaling:
It sounds like these two were really close friends. Well, let's see what the uncensored, unfiltered, unedited Boogie has to say about her:
If you've read my post about accountability, then it will come as no surprise that instead of owning his shitty words, Boogie decided to create a fake backstory to get himself out of trouble:
("I was probably joking" -He doesn't even remember what he said)
Yeah it was an inside joke between the two of them which Boogie provided no context for during the livestream. In other words, it's a very regrettable thing which Boogie said which he's trying to avoid backlash for.
You really have to question whether these two even remained friends after their break up. If they dated as teenagers and broke up after 5 or so years, then I find it hard to believe that a man child like Boogie was able to maintain a good relationship with his ex-girlfriend until the day she died.
Also consider that Boogie is a misogynist and never seems to show any respect for the women he encounters in life, I find this very hard to believe. Hell, I watched 2 hours of one of his h3 Podcast appearances and he rarely lets Ethan's wife get a word in. He constantly talks over the top of her or ignores her presence.
I would also like to point out some conflicting information that Boogie has provided about Dani.
In Boogie's sob story "Draw my Life" video, he claims to have met Dani in upward bound and they dated through to college until they broke up:
This can be confirmed through a Reddit post that he made:
What doesn't make sense is that these two were likely the same age (seeing as they went straight from upward bound to college together) and that Boogie claims they were best friends for OVER 30 years:
If she died at the age of 39, how is possible that he met her in his late teens and were best friends for OVER 30 years? That doesn't add up. She would have be a minimum of 9 years old for this to have happened. Another Boogie exaggeration...unless of course he's admitting to fucking a 9 year old when he was 16:
When I was gathering and compiling all of this information about Dani, I had some other screenshots from his old blogs (blogs were active 2001-2008 ) which I had assumed were about her. With these timelines in mind (them breaking up when he was 22 years old), that can't be true.
Here's Boogie talking about how a "nervous breakdown" caused "his girlfriend" to move out:
(Date unknown, will update if someone knows. Likely mid-00's)
Isn't that fascinating? Boogie's "mental health" caused a relationship to end.
Here's yet another blog from the late 00's where Boogie's actions again led to a break up:
(Sounds like another caretaker relationship)
If you haven't noticed already, the common theme with Boogie's break ups appear to be his "mental health". The one time we've heard from any of these women is when Lucy Foxx described Boogie as being an emotional abuser.
But hey, there is just no possible way that Boogie could've been abusive to Lucy Foxx. No siree, especially when he dated her RIGHT AFTER being divorced from his wife. Because an overly-emotional bitch like Boogie would've been in such a good head space during this time, right?
I really, really like this Twitter thread from Boogie here. He is projecting so hard here:
EDIT: After posting this entry, @imjesssaiyan added a bit more context to the likely timeline of Boogie's divorce which will relate to the above screenshot:
@imjesssaiyan
Thanks for another fantastic write up
I wanted to add to your speculation that Dez had been trying to leave Boogie for a while. Because home sales and divorces are public records, I was able to sleuth a few months back and find that Dez signed the deed over to Boogie beginning of October 2017. It was like the 4th or 5th. I could probably go back through the records again, but basically no one is doing this first thing or on a whim. They had to have already been going through the mediation process
I know divorce laws vary state by state, but mediations still require a court hearing. Dez waived her right to actually appearing in court. So December was the court finalized date, but all the other stuff was happening for months prior. Definitely heavy implications that things were already bad heading into 2017
Take note of the dates of Boogie's tweets above and the month which Dez probably filed for divorce. Basically while Boogie is preaching kindness towards women on Twitter, he's secretly being divorced for the exact same thing that he's criticizing. The levels of his hypocrisy will never not amaze me.
To recap:
Dani (1989-1996): - Cause of break up: "Fighting all the time" Unnamed woman (Early 00's?) - Cause of break up: "Nervous breakdown" Unnamed woman (Late 00's) - Cause of break up: Boogie's "actions and choices" Dez (2010-2017) - Cause of break up: Boogie's "mental health" Lucy Foxx (2018 ) - Cause of break up: Emotional abuse
Seems to be a common theme here...
Despite being a total liar in every aspect of his life, sometimes Boogie WILL drop a nugget of truth:
GRAVE GHOUL
This is a saga that I'm not as well versed on. I feel like it's not very important but is still worth addressing as it seems to follow a similar trajectory to Boogie's most recent "relationship".
In this video, Boogie describes how they met and what happened between the two of them (remember, it's Boogie's version of things so take it with a grain of salt):
On Reddit however, Boogie claims to have met GG via "traditional means":
(Soooo is Bumble "traditional means"?)
Again, I'm not well versed on this saga, but I've seen it rumored that these two met on Seeking Arrangements and that she had a profile (Requesting source for Grave Ghoul's Seeking profile and/or confirmation if she even had one)
After they stopped hanging out, Boogie has said several times that he only used her to "stir up drama":
Boogie has claimed that trolls scared her off the internet (which there is no proof of) and that he has been put off the idea of dating in future:
EDIT: After uploading this entry, user @DontEatThat made a great post which better explained the Grave Ghoul situation:
@DontEatThat
Youre doing the lords work @YaBoi.
I can drop some info about Grave Ghoul. This picture here sums it all up pretty much in any stream he did with her. I will comeback with a highlight from this stream in a bit.
I cant find any source but from what I could remember they did meet online and as usual Boogie flex hard with Ghoul in everything to own the haters. However he also wanted to seem like a good guy as well so he would often backpedal and say shes just a friend and he was helping her gain clout.
So its generally assumed he found her on seeking and tried to disguise it as him helping her on social media platforms. It wasnt too far after the shit with Lucy and things kind of blew over but it was clear he was not liking the negative attention from being on seeking. He claims its Bumble. I think he was getting a massive kick of showing her off and telling her shes just a friend cause she sure as fuck never looked comfortable around him. He like the reaction he was getting. Basically she was expensive arm candy that (in his mind) owned Sam and Tolki.
I guess the next biggest even from them before it all went down was a trip they made to Colorado. At first he made it seem like they were going on a trip together. However we find out it was a Storyfire gathering and shit with Jesse and co. What has exactly happened isnt too exact but it has been said that Ghoul was a little more outgoing with the other members of the group and tended to keep Boogie at an arms length. Looks like she is having a wonderful time.Boogie talks about their relationship and saying how she was not attractive to him despite his advances. After that this short lived "relationship only lasted a few months and Boogie kind of kept quiet about it and would just refer to her twitter or give her name in passing every once in awhile. Eventually he would blame stalkers for chasing her away and making her delete everything, but from what has been seen were pretty clear she just fucking repulsed her.
Back to the above stream mentioned previously. Its Boogie making a movie and touching Ghouls leg, and she tells him off. Its super fucking creepy and it tells you all you need to know about his interactions with women in general. Its probably the biggest highlight in this little saga in Boogies pathetic life.
After Grave Ghoul, Boogie appeared to take a nearly 2 year sabbatical from dating. That's probably a good thing when you consider the events that happened between Jan 2019 - Sep 2020 in the Boogieverse (Spoiler: Meltdowns galore).
Boogie had gone on the record a few times saying that he would no longer be talking about his romance life in public:
He also claimed in mid 2020 that he was not physically or mentally ready to date again:
(Boogie will never be physically and mentally ready)
We of course know how valuable Boogie's word is.
Enter - Cass:
Around August last year, Boogie started making many vague mentions of "someone he was seeing":
As you can see, in typical Boogie fashion, he can't keep a consistent narrative. "She's a friend", "she's a girl that I'm dating". Which one is it Boogie? She is either one or the other.
For the duration of a month or two, Boogie kept tweeting about this girl. This is the best of both worlds for Boogie. On one hand, he gets ass pats from his fans for dating. On the other hand, he gets to have a locker room flex on the haters. Boogie's seeing a girl, are you incels jealous yet?
Gradually, Boogie started becoming more and more bold with his vague tweeting and uploaded a picture of her. Gotta prove that she's real to own the haters, right?
He then retardly decides to make these tweets a few days later:
Where do you start with these tweets?
"I should probably keep this off social" - Yes Boogie, you should. This is no one's business. You have previously addressed your wife and Grave Ghoul supposedly being harrassed.
"I guess we are a thing now" - How can you fence sit a relationship. Are you or aren't you a thing? Unless of course she hasn't consented to a relationship and you're talking out of your ass.
"I don't want to stir up shit" - But isn't stirring shit apparently the whole reason why you had the Grave Ghoul in your videos?
"Thoughts?" - You're 46 years old. Why are you asking your fans how to live your life?
"Grave Ghoul was bullied off the internet" - Where's your proof of this? Also, that's on you if it really did happen.
"The subreddit is gone" - Yes Boogie, because when subreddits disappear, individuals disappear too. Fucking moron.
I have mentioned this in a previous post, but some chick in the Sam & Tolki Discord was DMing Boogie last year. Here's one of the screenshots she provided:
What's worth noting about this interaction is that I have the date for this screenshot is 9/28/2020. This means that over a fortnight after announcing that "they are a thing", Boogie is still referring to Cass as his friend.
Speaking of the Sam & Tolki Discord, someone on there thankfully put in the work to uncover what many of us all suspected: Boogie found Cass on Seeking Arrangement.
Boogie in 2018:
Gee, what a shocker. Boogie of course made this very easy to find due to the number of creepshots he took of Cass. Gotta flex your "new woman" I suppose:
(It's not like tattoos are easily identifiable or anything...)
If these weren't a giveaway, then Boogie saying Cass' son's name (which is tattooed on her collarbone) was:
Boogie also had her participating on his Discord which is where I believe they played Among Us:
It's worth noting that Cass says here that she doesn't exist online. No one on the Sam & Tolki Discord could find anything on her.
Not much else was said about Cass after September. Don't forget that Frank Hassle paid Boogie a visit at the end of September.
Here's Boogie saying that Cass may help with his Francis videos:
Eventually, much like Boogie's weight loss updates, mentions of Cass came to a complete stop and we never heard about her until months later.
When asked several months later, In typical DSP Boogie fashion, he refused to take the blame for his friendship relationship not working out:
(Boogie gets extra hyperbolic by claiming that critics threatened her son)
It's not Boogie's fault. Even if he's not full of shit here (as I said, no one found her social media and it'd make no sense to threaten her), the blame should fall on his shoulders for talking about her and taking photos of her which could've been identifiable.
Boogie then threw a pity party to sucker his fans in:
He has also had a few conversations in private to critics about Cass:
(Once again, Boogie was busted for dating a girl from Seeking Arrangement and is too embarrassed to admit it)
Conversation #2:
He says that he has receipts of her being threatened but then refuses to share them because...reasons.
Haha, it's such a classic Boogie move to say that he has receipts and then never show them. It's clear as day that their sugar daddy arrangement didn't work out. Boogie being one to overshare every detail of his life had to tie the loose end to this timeline somehow and what better way than to throw his critics under the bus.
CONCLUSION
I am pushing the character limit for his entry, so I'll cut it short here. I have a second part coming which will cover Boogie's other relationships (friends and family), his claims of having a dating/sex life and also how much of a beta male he is.
Is this your longest post here yet? Cause it's really funny that boogie's such a mess with relationships that it requires THIS much explanation with plentiful evidence
Is this your longest post here yet? Cause it's really funny that boogie's such a mess with relationships that it requires THIS much explanation with plentiful evidence
Surprisingly no. When I went to share the accountability post a few weeks ago, I had to go back and edit out an entire thread because it was too long. Though technically this would've been the longest one if I hadn't pre-planned splitting it up.
It's funny because of how avoidable these discussions are. All he had to do was shut up or keep track of his lies. Better yet, tell the truth and grow as a person. This is all the stuff I could find as well. God knows what I've missed.
Lucy Foxx really was his big mistake. Here is this teenager that he starts being a sugardaddy for while more than twice her age.
When his abusive and deviant behaviour isn't worth the money for her, she reveals it all. There is no NDA or other motivation for her to keep quiet. So he and other creeps such as IMC has a go at her until she flees the internet.
Notice how every other young girl he has paid to date him since, has been harassed off the internet before they can talk about their experiences? If we go a little schizo here, I can't help but wonder if a lot of those anonymous threats are from convinient sock accounts.
46 year old, fat, divorced manchild. This is the reality of Boogie's life. Not a life that many would envy. Money can buy a lot of things, but meaningful relationships aren't one of them.
In this post, we'll be taking a closer look at Boogie's relationships with his exes and how Boogie actually got cucked by his ex-wife!
DEZ
If we're talking about Boogie's relationships, Dez has to be mentioned first. Boogie first met Dez through Myspace when she reached out to him after watching a video about his mother's passing:
I also found several examples of Boogie tweeting on Dez's Twitter account. While these tweets are all in good fun, the last place you want an insecure lover to be is logged into your social media:
View attachment 2146720 (Could you imagine Boogie checking her DMs and seeing that a male had messaged her? He'd 100% lose his shit)
Eventually the behind-the-scenes issues with Dez and Boogie started becoming so bad that it spilled into Boogie's streams. The nice guy mask started to slip:
And then eventually Dez told Boogie that she was going to leave him:
Both livestreams are absolutely humiliating for Boogie, or at least they should be. Boogie constantly acts like an overly emotional 14 year old girl, so this is normal for him. This is not normal behavior for a man in his mid 40's however. Suddenly it becomes very evident as to why Dez would want to divorce Boogie.
I'll touch base more on how much of beta bitch Boogie is the next post.
So either Dez has left Boogie here or she is planning on it. Either way, Boogie doesn't make his official divorce announcement until Dec 20, 2017:
To get a better idea, I've combed through Boogie and Dez's mentions of eachother in the lead in to the divorce (trust me when I say that following this part is worth it):
Okay so you may be wondering how she cheated on Boogie or had this guy on the side. Well I did some deeper digging and found this profile picture of hers from JAN 1, 2018:
This is less than 2 WEEKS after Boogie went official with the divorce and 20 days after Boogie claimed that they were "trying to make things work"
When you stop and think about dating and milestones, this is really bad for Boogie.
For a personal reference point: I have been dating a girl since April 1. We've been on about 6 dates and I'm yet to meet any of her friends outside of one who was with her the night I got her Snapchat. She has only met my sibling because they live with me.
Now, would I upload a couply selfie of her and I to my social media after 20 days? No. Because by the 20 day mark we've been on 3 or 4 dates. Granted everyone goes at a different pace, but to go from a 7 year relationship and a 4 year marriage to a new guy...and to change your profile picture to a pic of you two? Hmm...
I think a lot of us can look back at women we've dated or been in relationship and then wondered how they managed to get another guy so quickly after a breakup.
The reality is: If a woman isn't happy in her relationship and she's looking to leave, sometimes she may get another guy before breaking up with you. When she is certain that things are going to work with this other guy, she breaks up with her current partner.
This makes total sense when you look at Dez's situation. She moved away from her family and friends to live with Boogie and his roommate. She had to build a new life with Boogie which would've been difficult when she had to quit her job and look after him fulltime. Outside of Boogie, she doesn't have much in Arkansas.
Dez was dating this man on the side (I believe they live in Michigan now?) and slowly building a new life with him before the both of them decided to take the next step. This is when she dropped the hammer on Boogie and asked for a divorce.
Dez's new man was a nice short drive from Fayetteville
This is why Boogie gets so triggered when you say that he got cucked/cheated on. It wasn't a big black bull giving her the fucking she deserved, it was a skinny white man. Who would ever want to admit to this anyway? Of course Boogie will deny that it happened, so all you can do is look at the evidence before you and put 2 and 2 together.
Straight after the divorce and likely seething that Dez left him for another man, Boogie made several lame attempts to make her jealous. In fact he wasted no time doing this. Here's him on Dec 17 (5 days after say he's "trying to make things work"):
This post is really pathetic. "Bunch of people got mad at me for this pic lol. I wanted to see how badly this would trigger everyone." - What? Who are you trying to trigger? The haters? Is that what's at the forefront of your mind just after getting divorced? (Rhetorical question. Of course it is!).
Yeah, instead of taking time away from the internet to unpack what I can only imagine to be an extremely difficult situation, Boogie's on social media flexing on the haters. However, he's not only trying to flex on the haters, he's obviously trying to make Dez jealous here as well.
DEZ'S GAG ORDER
One of the biggest talking points about Boogie's divorce is the non-disparage clause which Dez signed (will refer to this as "NDC" going forward). This is another one of those regrettable livestream Freudian slips from him:
View attachment 2146765 ("Which I asked for, she didn't ask for it." Emphasis on Boogie saying that HE asked for it)
For those of you who are unsure, here is the meaning of an NDC:
As you can see this is just another story that Boogie can't keep straight to save his life. For the record, Boogie started melting down over this because of the Sam & Tolki subreddit. He was using a strawman argument that the subreddit was accusing him of beating his wife and so he got Dez to make a statement:
Now while Dez did come out and say that she never signed an NDA, that's NOT what Boogie said during his livestream slip up. He said that there's an NDC in the mediation agreement. So yes, Dez didn't sign an NDA, but she did sign an NDC.
Considering that Boogie took the entire Sam & Tolki subreddit and criticism videos of him as slander and hate, then I don't think his ex-wife would be allowed to say much:
Further to this (and far more damning) is the fact he is a serial manipulator, particularly behind the scenes. Here's some examples of content creators being emotionally manipulated by Boogie in their DMs:
Boogie is always trying to control the narrative and always trying to silence criticism through any means necessary (btw, there's more examples later in the "Boogie is an Abuser" section).
I find it impossible to believe that Boogie isn't texting/calling/DMing his ex-wife and manipulating her before she makes these tweets defending him. Of course he's contacting her and throwing a bitch fit to get this addressed ASAP.
Just look at the screenshots in this section. Non-stop bitching about trolls, haters and Reddit. Imagine putting up with that for 7 years. You would certainly want to be done with your teenage daughter's ex-husband's drama at this point.
Now that we've untangled this web of lies, let's move on.
WHY DID DEZ SIGN AN NDC?
If you're making someone sign an NDC, then there's clearly something that the other party wants to hide.
In the previous section, I highlighted Boogie's interactions with other content creators. If this is how Boogie talks to strangers on the internet, then how do you think he treats his wife when he's having a bad day? Yeah, probably not with love and affection. Boogie's online behavior suggests that he's nasty, toxic little man when the camera is off.
If you suggest that Boogie was abusive to his ex-wife, then he will exaggerate and twist it into you accusing him of beating his ex-wife:
He blamed the Sam & Tolki subreddit for this but if you go to the Sam & Tolki archive and use the "search" function on your phone or PC, I encourage you to keysearch the word "beat".
One of Boogie's main complaints against the subreddit was that they accused him of beating his wife, yet when you search for threads about Boogie beating Dez, you find 0 threads. This archive includes threads which were REMOVED. Not even the most rabid of Boogie haters was accusing him of beating Dez.
As an apparent victim of abuse, I've always found it interesting how he constantly twists the verbal abuse accusations made against him into physical assault accusations. Not a very understanding victim, is he?
If you point out that he's strawmanning, you will get spoken to like a piece of shit or blocked:
"Did I ever stand and scream in her face telling her that I wish she were fuckin' dead-y'know, I dunno I dunno." - Straight from the horse's mouth.
What a loving way to talk to your wife. It's little wonder that the man with the "Mr.Rogers of the Internet" title wouldn't want any incidents like this slipping out, hence the reason Dez signed the NDC.
I wonder who else has been handed gag orders from Boogie? Isn't it strange how Haberdashera has gone AWOL...
WE'RE STILL FRIENDS!
Boogie really wants you to believe that nothing he and his ex-wife are good friends. He bangs on and on about how he was never abusive and how they're still friends. Here's Dez quote-tweeting one of Boogie's hundreds of tweets defending himself:
Yeah, Boogie really wants to make sure that everyone knows that they're on good terms. It's not relevant to his followers or content, but Boogie feels the need to share this.
Boogie was too pre-occupied to send a text in 2020:
I was hoping for this post to cover all of Boogie's relationships, but as I progress through the Dez folder alone, I realize that this may have to be a two-parter.
The reason I bring up the other relationships in Boogie's life (past and present) is because well...he shit talks everyone and anyone. I'll be providing examples of him shit talking all of his immediate family, ex girlfriends and friends/acquaintances.
Someone who shit talks everybody in their life is typically a bit of a toxic cunt and almost always the problem in the relationship.
Surprisingly, Dez appears to be one of the few people to have dodged jibes from Boogie. Perhaps there's a fear there that if he puts a foot wrong, then Dez may expose him. Perhaps he DID sign an NDC and isn't allowed to shit talk her.
It's Boogie though and even he can't help but take pot shots at his ex-caretaker (because he's such a nice guy!):
It's not Boogie's fault though, his therapist said that's what the man should be doing in a relationship.
The clip of him quickly correcting himself after saying that he regrets marrying his wife is a very odd one. How quickly he goes to correct himself suggests that he perhaps can't say too much about her.
The only time Boogie seems to talk about her is to debunk trolls or to claim how they're still good friends.
With what we know about Boogie, do you think for a moment that this guy is pleasant to and on good terms with Dez? Especially knowing that she likely cucked him? I doubt that.
The good news is that Dez is free from his clutches, but I'm sure there isn't a day that goes by where she's not embarrassed to have married such a man child.
LUCY FOXX
Lucy Foxx is a girl Boogie met on Seeking Arrangements, a website for sugar babies to meet sugar daddies. Lucy was 19-20 years of age when she dated 43-44 year old Boogie.
Things didn't work out between the two and then about 6 months later, Lucy dropped a video exposing Boogie (which if you haven't watched, I highly suggest you do):
Lucy detailed being emotionally and verbally abused, something which the Sam & Tolki community had already speculated about Boogie due to past livestream meltdowns.
To defend himself, Boogie jumped on the totally unbiased Drama Alert and had his good buddy Keemstar throw softballs at him during the interview:
Boogie, who still had many fooled with his "nice guy" facade at the time managed to get away with this one. Many of his fans attacked and harrassed Lucy Foxx to the point that she deleted her video and abandoned other social media handles.
Despite wishing her well in that video, this didn't stop Boogie passive-aggressively liking negative tweets aimed at Lucy:
Many of Boogie's fans claimed that Lucy Foxx did this for attention while Boogie continues (to this day) telling everyone that she was lying. He of course provides NO EVIDENCE that she's lying:
Boogie actually sounds completely psychotic in that 2nd clip. It becomes very hard to believe his claims that he's not capable of being emotionally abusive when he's clearly seething like that.
In summary, Boogie denies being verbally abusive to Lucy Foxx:
Now, with the previous two women in mind and the speculation that Boogie is abusive, I invite you to watch this clip of Boogie from the h3h3 Podcast. In this clip, Boogie discusses Anita Sarkisean and his PTSD:
The depersonalizing excuse is of course just that: An excuse. I've discussed Boogie's lack of accountability in the past. He's more than happy to blame his friends, family, partners, mental health etc on his problems. He really is a total bitch.
But let's roll with his excuse that he depersonalizes. Would it not be unreasonable to suggest that he "depersonalized" when arguing with Lucy Foxx which caused him to abuse her verbally? Is he trying to tell us that in 7 years with his ex-wife that this never happened once? He said that he was afraid of depersonalizing when confronted by some lady he'd just met.
In the same h3 Podcast appearance, Boogie also mentioned that his wife was "walking on eggshells" around him towards the end of the marriage:
Remember: Boogie isn't capable of doing these horrible things though! Such a shame that there's countless content creators who can say otherwise. Losing Dez really was the worst thing that happened to you.
This also doesn't include the time where Boogie completely melted down over an edgy prank YouTuber (Frank Hassle) saying that he was going to come to Boogie's house.
"B-but he said he was going to rape me!" - Boogie, you say that you have an edgy sense of humor. You also say that you deal with your trauma by joking about these things AND you've made jokes in the past about raping babies.
Do you see how easy it is to poke holes in Boogie's stories? When you settle on not giving him the benefit of doubt and taking all of his claims as lies, then everything makes far more logical sense.
I also find it interesting how Boogie preaches kindness to others, listening to other people's stories, "being better", equality etc:
So it's okay for you to tell other people to keep a skeptical mind about something until evidence is provided, yet you never provide any evidence to suggest that Lucy Foxx lied and we should believe you?
Can you explain how it's "clear/obvious" that she's lying if you have no evidence?
By the same token you could argue that we have no evidence from Lucy Foxx to suggest she should be listened to. However, isn't Boogie's past and current behavior very indicative of an abuser? The fact that he lies about EVERYTHING suggests that he shouldn't be trusted and he especially shouldn't be given the benefit of doubt when he gets super defensive over something.
Friendly reminder (in case you forgot) that Boogie is apparently a survivor of abuse:
Yeah, whenever Boogie is accused of being racist or says that he's pro Black Lives Matter, he will mention that he dated/was friends with Danielle. He also does this with his trans and gay "friends" (none of who we've ever met).
Boogie thinks that it's impossible for him to be racist because he dated a black girl, despite saying that his mother is a racist who he walked in on fucking a black man:
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Whether Boogie even dated Danielle is up for debate (This is pure speculation on my behalf). Not one to shy away from seeking pity (even it's through someone else's pain), Boogie made a video about Danielle having breast cancer:
He doesn't once mention her as his ex-girlfriend here.
Later that month he makes another video about her:
And many years later during his insufferable "nice guy" facade, Boogie made sure to use her death to partake in some virtual signalling:
If you've read my post about accountability, then it will come as no surprise that instead of owning his shitty words, Boogie decided to create a fake backstory to get himself out of trouble:
Yeah it was an inside joke between the two of them which Boogie provided no context for during the livestream. In other words, it's a very regrettable thing which Boogie said which he's trying to avoid backlash for.
You really have to question whether these two even remained friends after their break up. If they dated as teenagers and broke up after 5 or so years, then I find it hard to believe that a man child like Boogie was able to maintain a good relationship with his ex-girlfriend until the day she died.
Also consider that Boogie is a misogynist and never seems to show any respect for the women he encounters in life, I find this very hard to believe. Hell, I watched 2 hours of one of this h3 Podcast appearance and rarely lets Ethan's wife get a word in. He constantly talks over the top of her and ignores her presence.
I would also like to point out some conflicting information that Boogie has provided about Dani.
In Boogie's sob story "Draw my Life" video, he claims to have met Dani in upward bound and they dated through to college until they broke up:
What doesn't make sense is that these two were likely the same age (seeing as they went straight from upward bound to college together) and that Boogie claims they were best friends for OVER 30 years:
If she died at the age of 39, how is possible that he met her in his late teens and were best friends for OVER 30 years? That doesn't add up. She would've had to have been a minimum of 9 years old for this to have happened. Another Boogie exaggeration...unless of course he's admitting to fucking a 9 year old when he was 16:
When I was gathering and compiling all of this information about Dani, I had some other screenshots from his old blogs (blogs were active 2001-2008 ) which I had assumed were about her. With these timelines in mind (them breaking up when he was 22 years old), that can't be true.
Here's Boogie talking about how a "nervous breakdown" caused "his girlfriend" to move out:
If you haven't noticed already, the common theme with Boogie's break ups appear to be his "mental health". The one time we've heard from any of these women is when Lucy Foxx described Boogie as basically being an emotional abuser.
But hey, there is just no possible way that Boogie could've been abusive to Lucy Foxx. No siree, especially when he dated her RIGHT AFTER being divorced from his wife. Because a overly-emotional bitch like Boogie would've been in such a good head space during this time, right?
I really, really like this Twitter thread from Boogie here. If this isn't a case of him yelling in the mirror, then I don't know what is:
Dani (1989-1996): - Cause of break up: "Fighting all the time" Unnamed woman (Early 00's?) - Cause of break up: "Nervous breakdown" Unnamed woman (Late 00's) - Cause of break up: Boogie's "actions and choices" Dez (2010-2017) - Cause of break up: Boogie's "mental health" Lucy Foxx (2018 ) - Cause of break up: Emotional abuse
Seems to be a common theme here...
Despite being a total liar in every aspect of his life, sometimes Boogie WILL drop a nugget of truth:
This is a saga that I'm not as well versed on. I feel like it's not very important but is still worth addressing as it seems to follow a similar trajectory to Boogie's most recent "relationship".
In this video, Boogie describes how they met and what happened between the two of them (remember, it's Boogie's version of things so take it with a grain of salt):
Again, I'm not well versed on this saga, but I've seen it rumored that these two met on Seeking Arrangements and that she had a profile (Requesting source for Grave Ghoul's Seeking profile and/or confirmation if she even had one)
After they stopped hanging out, Boogie has said several times that he only used her to "stir up drama":
After Grave Ghoul, Boogie appeared to take a nearly 2 year sabbatical from dating. That's probably a good thing when you consider the events that happened between Jan 2019 - Sep 2020 in the Boogieverse (Spoiler: Meltdowns galore).
Boogie had gone on the record a few times saying that he would no longer be talking about his romance life in public:
As you can see, in typical Boogie fashion, he can't keep a consistent narrative. "She's a friend", "she's a girl that I'm dating". Which one is it Boogie? She is either one or the other.
For the duration of a month or two, Boogie kept tweeting about this girl. This is the best of both worlds for Boogie. On one hand, he gets ass pats from his fans for dating. On the other hand, he gets to have a locker room flex on the haters. Boogie's seeing a girl, are you incels jealous yet?
Gradually, Boogie started becoming more and more bold with his vague tweeting and uploaded a picture of her. Gotta prove that she's real to own the haters, right?
"I should probably keep this off social" - Yes Boogie, you should. This is no one's business. You have previously addressed your wife and Grave Ghoul supposedly being harrassed.
"I guess we are a thing now" - How can you fence sit a relationship. Are you or aren't you a thing? Unless of course she hasn't consented to a relationship and you're talking out of your ass.
"I don't want to stir up shit" - But isn't stirring shit apparently the whole reason why you had the Grave Ghoul in your videos?
"Thoughts?" - You're 46 years old. Why are you asking your fans how to live your life?
"Grave Ghoul was bullied off the internet" - Where's your proof of this? Also, that's on you if it really did happen.
"The subreddit is gone" - Yes Boogie, because when subreddits disappear, individuals disappear too. Fucking moron.
I have mentioned this in a previous post, but some chick in the Sam & Tolki Discord was DMing Boogie last year. Here's one of the screenshots she provided:
What's worth noting about this interaction is that I have the date for this screenshot is 9/28/2020. This means that over a fortnight after announcing that "they are a thing", Boogie is still referring to Cass as his friend.
Speaking of the Sam & Tolki Discord, someone on there thankfully put in the work to uncover what many of us all suspected: Boogie found Cass on Seeking Arrangement.
Gee, what a shocker. Boogie of course made this very easy to find due to the number of creepshots he took of Cass. Gotta flex your "new woman" I suppose:
It's not Boogie's fault. Even if he's not full of shit here (as I said, no one found her social media and it'd make no sense to threaten her), the blame should fall on his shoulders for talking about her and taking photos of her which could've been identifiable.
Boogie then threw a pity party to sucker his fans in:
Haha, it's such a classic Boogie move to say that he has receipts and then never show them. It's clear as day that their sugar daddy arrangement didn't work out. Boogie being one to overshare every detail of his life had to tie the loose end to this timeline somehow and what better way than to throw his critics under the bus.
CONCLUSION
I am pushing the character limit for his entry, so I'll cut it short here. I have a second part coming which will cover Boogie's other relationships (friends and family), his claims of having a dating/sex life and also how much of a beta male he is.
Yeah, hate subreddits are awesome, I suggest CinemassacreTruth or StarCitizenRefunds.
Anyway, as long as anyone can obey what few rules there are here. And a good deal of them were similar than on s&t. No GayOps, don't sperg too much, no power leveling and don't just fucking post image reactions and we're gonna be alright.
Bonus: There won't be anyone in whining about too much boogieposts!
That would be a good one in due time. A lot of people only know casually of the warning shot encounter, which is a shame because stuff like the Killstream encounter and the Keemstar interview give wonderful context to it and are great pieces of entertainment on their own . Even the 24 hours before and after the warning shot would be beautiful to map out, with stuff I commonly forget like him sperging out on some random guy at his door and blaming Frank the night before.
I don't think his history with Frank's ever been compiled in one spot.
I can drop some info about Grave Ghoul. This picture here sums it all up pretty much in any stream he did with her. I will comeback with a highlight from this stream in a bit.
I cant find any source but from what I could remember they did meet online and as usual Boogie flex hard with Ghoul in everything to own the haters. However he also wanted to seem like a good guy as well so he would often backpedal and say shes just a friend and he was helping her gain clout.
So its generally assumed he found her on seeking and tried to disguise it as him helping her on social media platforms. It wasnt too far after the shit with Lucy and things kind of blew over but it was clear he was not liking the negative attention from being on seeking. He claims its Bumble. I think he was getting a massive kick of showing her off and telling her shes just a friend cause she sure as fuck never looked comfortable around him. He like the reaction he was getting. Basically she was expensive arm candy that (in his mind) owned Sam and Tolki.
I guess the next biggest even from them before it all went down was a trip they made to Colorado. At first he made it seem like they were going on a trip together. However we find out it was a Storyfire gathering and shit with Jesse and co. What has exactly happened isnt too exact but it has been said that Ghoul was a little more outgoing with the other members of the group and tended to keep Boogie at an arms length. Looks like she is having a wonderful time.Boogie talks about their relationship and saying how she was not attractive to him despite his advances. After that this short lived "relationship only lasted a few months and Boogie kind of kept quiet about it and would just refer to her twitter or give her name in passing every once in awhile. Eventually he would blame stalkers for chasing her away and making her delete everything, but from what has been seen were pretty clear she just fucking repulsed her.
Back to the above stream mentioned previously. Its Boogie making a movie and touching Ghouls leg, and she tells him off. Its super fucking creepy and it tells you all you need to know about his interactions with women in general. Its probably the biggest highlight in this little saga in Boogies pathetic life.
Just want to say that if this fat fuck went to mediation then the divorce was not happy or pleasant. You go to mediation to resolve it before divorce court. Great post OP. Really shows what a predator boogie is.
I can drop some info about Grave Ghoul. This picture here sums it all up pretty much in any stream he did with her. I will comeback with a highlight from this stream in a bit. View attachment 2147772
Source: https://youtu.be/Mc9cin3CYD0?t=1149
I cant find any source but from what I could remember they did meet online and as usual Boogie flex hard with Ghoul in everything to own the haters. However he also wanted to seem like a good guy as well so he would often backpedal and say shes just a friend and he was helping her gain clout.
So its generally assumed he found her on seeking and tried to disguise it as him helping her on social media platforms. It wasnt too far after the shit with Lucy and things kind of blew over but it was clear he was not liking the negative attention from being on seeking. He claims its Bumble. I think he was getting a massive kick of showing her off and telling her shes just a friend cause she sure as fuck never looked comfortable around him. He like the reaction he was getting. Basically she was expensive arm candy that (in his mind) owned Sam and Tolki.
I guess the next biggest even from them before it all went down was a trip they made to Colorado. At first he made it seem like they were going on a trip together. However we find out it was a Storyfire gathering and shit with Jesse and co. What has exactly happened isnt too exact but it has been said that Ghoul was a little more outgoing with the other members of the group and tended to keep Boogie at an arms length. Looks like she is having a wonderful time.Boogie talks about their relationship and saying how she was not attractive to him despite his advances. After that this short lived "relationship only lasted a few months and Boogie kind of kept quiet about it and would just refer to her twitter or give her name in passing every once in awhile. Eventually he would blame stalkers for chasing her away and making her delete everything, but from what has been seen were pretty clear she just fucking repulsed her.
Back to the above stream mentioned previously. Its Boogie making a movie and touching Ghouls leg, and she tells him off. Its super fucking creepy and it tells you all you need to know about his interactions with women in general. Its probably the biggest highlight in this little saga in Boogies pathetic life.
Wasn’t she also getting g friendly with Jesse’s cameraman during that trip? Imagine buying a sugar baby and having her put distance between them to hanging out with somebody else. He must have been seething hard over that.
Wasn’t she also getting g friendly with Jesse’s cameraman during that trip? Imagine buying a sugar baby and having her put distance between them to hanging out with somebody else. He must have been seething hard over that.
Yeah she was, pretty much anyone who was not Boogie was getting attention. Thats why he just stopped talking and tried to say things didnt work out, I tried to help, scheduling issues, she had a son, ect.
I wanted to add to your speculation that Dez had been trying to leave Boogie for a while. Because home sales and divorces are public records, I was able to sleuth a few months back and find that Dez signed the deed over to Boogie beginning of October 2017. It was like the 4th or 5th. I could probably go back through the records again, but basically no one is doing this first thing or on a whim. They had to have already been going through the mediation process
I know divorce laws vary state by state, but mediations still require a court hearing. Dez waived her right to actually appearing in court. So December was the court finalized date, but all the other stuff was happening for months prior. Definitely heavy implications that things were already bad heading into 2017