If you go back and look at the eviction part, I think it was either Christmas(!) or Thanksgiving(?) 2020, something like that, I think you'll see it too. It's the same vibe. Complimentary, almost soothing due to its understatement. Also, it makes a lot of sense to me that someone in pain or distress would want to connect more with other people than shut them out. That's human nature so the personality disorder is suspended temporarily.
By the principles of classic psychoanalysis the stronger negative stimuli is, the stronger ego defense mechanism kicks in. So, a perfectly healthy person would indeed try to look for help and comfort in contact with others in times of distress. Person suffering from a mental disorder would probably get worse and armor themselves even more in whatever they, consciously or unconsciously, believe worked before.
She is nice sometimes and every time I see it I suspect there's hope for her yet. She'd be much happier without her narc armor, she'd lead a much more productive life too.
She'd have to realize there is a problem first. As long as the problem is one of few things holding her together and one of the things she's proud of there is little hope.
She perceives you as male,
I... don't think I like the implications

But seriously, I was never super-nice to her, never posted any deviancy she could like, I openly admitted to be a non-believer and having some basic knowledge of the occult (and if she stalked my profile she would notice I was doing some Tarot readings for folks in another thread).
I can see why she would be nice to
@Baby Yoda because his posts are in her comfort zone in most cases.
By her standards I should be an awful person with no redeeming qualities.
and I'm a woman who has made different choices than she has.
She generally appears to be more hostile towards women but
@super thug 's observation is on point - she appears to be nicer now. Or we read too much into few sentences
Plus " toasty roasty" lol.
I'd say "no pun intended" but why would I lie?
