I think that's the point. She said in the member-only chat live that she 'knows' he's not seeing anyone else because she sees him nearly every night, and one of her motivations. She gets jealous easily and in her tinder said she wanted something casual and oh no, it's not casual. She's had to backtrack her words a few times of "boyfriend" to "Friend". She's being cautious about what she says because all of a sudden she cares about how the internet pounces on everyone and everything she shares online. She mentioned, yes how it's so hard in relationships to get to know each other and that she may have done goofed with this guy, and the look on her face after the call, was gold, pure gold, Jerry!
What I think is going on is he's got some idea that he's been exposed too much by her and he's not comfortable with it. The guy is into casual sex, drugs, and seems to have many fetishes. I also have the feeling he's making it clear she only sees him when he wants to, and that she may not be the only one. Whatever it is, she'll let it out within the next week. She always does.
At this point any boo-hoo butt hurt shit feelings she gets, I'm going to just savor it. She was warned after the first night to avoid this guy. She didn't see him for nearly a week citing "he's bad for me" and then ran back for more. Fuck her and her shitty relationship and coping skills. When literally thousands of people say "this guy is a baddie" and you say "fuck that, I do what I want", and approaching middle age? okay. You do you and work on your coping skills, honey.
While at it, she needs to learn how to use her fucking smart phones. Her mention of making a daily schedule and calendar to share 'copies' of like paper, shows she's not learned how to utilize any apps and current technology. There's fucking so many apps for that.
ETA this pic of her face after the call.
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ETA Part Deux: I believe this call was when he told her he didn't want to hang out tonight and was going to hang with his friends. I would pick this as the moment when Bat shit crazy was triggered.