Ralph isn't gonna be there for Xander's birth. How does he feel about that? I'm guessing he didn't bother to try to work something out where he could be there, under the assumption that the Iron Guntain Vicious Vickers has erected between him and Faith won't be lifted any time soon. But if Vickers were to take pity on Ralph and lift the Iron Guntain, now would be the time - and how would Ralph know, if he didn't try?
He'll probably regret not being there, and if he was invited, he'd go. But it would be for selfish reasons - he wants another achievement to puff up his ego, do the trad larp, and lord over aylawgs and paypigs alike (who are largely childless). If it was up to Ralph, he'd steal Dad Valor by showing up for the "moments" of fatherhood in order to claim what fatherhood means socially...but not to be a father.
Ralph is a fucking white nigger and Xander isn't gonna know him until one or both of them show up in court, in true nigger fashion.