I love that it's US who doesn't understand and thus are causing problems, not that Labelle could be wrong or wrote it badly.
This is on us, guys,
obviously.
And it's still not "phobic". No one is saying they wouldn't date a trans person because they don't come in the right shape or size, People are saying they don't want to be suprised by girldick or boyvag.
And getting bottom surgery doesn't fix things. People still don't want to date a trans person after surgery because it's still not a dick; It's a roll of flesh that can never get hard, that grows hair all over it and can't shoot. And it's still not a vag; it's a misshapen, festering wound that hurts when penetrated and is prone to infections, in some cases literally stinking of shit.
And shh shhh shh, I know, I hear you; a cis woman's vag can stink like shit and there are dudes with ED that can't get it up. And you know what? You're right. But if a woman has had a yeast infection that causes foul smells
I wanna know that before we go to bed. It's not discrimination to not stick your dick in an infection. It's just logical self preservation.
And the thing is with infections and ED and all that jazz is they're also fixable with a couple pills and usually very temporary. That sticthed together franken-dong is not going to suddenly function and feel like a real dick over time, and that neo-vag isn't going to suddenly smell like that of a natal woman or suddenly start self lubricating. In fact, the actual honest to god odds are that pieces of them will
rot off rather than ever healing in a way that resembles natal genitalia.
This is not hate, this is not anti-trans propaganda, this is straight up medical facts. And you know what? If your new dick or freshly sliced vag make you happy and look good to you? Excellent! I'm happy for you!
But I'm still not putting my nose or mouth anywhere near them and that's still not discrimination.
