Going by the stats over a year, it's not really that random. Sure, everyone is a few degrees of separation away from an outlier case, that's why anecdotes aren't data on their own. Even if you are boiling them down you would have to correct that a bunch of people you know who mention the one younger person who died aren't all referring back to the same case.
The stats overall for the whole deal shows 80% were very old people, an also that most had preexisting conditions. Yes, being a fatass also can be damning for an assortment of reasons, but even so most fatasses still make it.
The number who have died in the "young healthy, or younger, mostly healthy" group aren't really more alarming than flu. Sometimes you just get a bad hand with diseases. I am curious as to why, too, but hey, I've known people who just had a aneurism with no warning while they were in their forties. Sometimes your number is just up.
Stuff like that one officer who died after bragging about an immune system are still kind of weird, just because of how convenient it is that one of the handful of unlucky people (I think his whole state lost like 20 in his age group over the whole pandemic) was him out of the 40,000 that had it. I also wear I heard the same story and video a month previous about him dying before the news hit. Probably just deja vu and it was a similar story, but you know, weird. Like reality recycles background details.
The overall picture is less grim for even fatties in their forties than the media might make it seem, but they are collecting the 20 cases per each state and amplifying them to drive the panic and anxiety they needed for their news cycle. You still might be one of the unlucky ones, the hand of fate is cold.
