Lolcow Melinda Leigh Scott & Marshall Castersen - Sue-happy couple. Flat earth conspiracists. Pretending to be Jewish. Believe Kiwi Farms is protected by the Masonic Order. 0-6 on lawsuits. Marshall is dead.

[Anonymus Fluhre]

Is being loved by others a human need or a human *want*?

For someone who claims to know psychology doesn't know Maslow's hierarchy of needs.

 

[Illuminati Order Official]

You're part of a cult who feeds off of each other's narcissism.

I'm still waiting for your reasoning behind calling this place a cult.

narcissistic preoccupation with competition

The more you describe narcissistic goyim the less it looks like me. I don't want power over other people, I don't want fame and I dislike competitive activities.

Does the KiwiFarms.net cult pay you to Cyberstalk me online OR this an unpaid volunteer position?

Where would the money come from?

Is being loved by others a human need or a human *want*?

Let's look at Maslow's Pyramid of Needs:

The way it works is: you need to satisfy lower levels to attempt satisfying higher levels: you need to eat and drink first. When you have it, you look for a shelter. When physiological needs are satisfied and you have a safe place you go for interpersonal relations. If a need of the lower level is not satisfied it will impede satisfying needs of higher levels.
Of course it's not perfect description that applies to every person (see: starving artist for people skipping the lowest level and focusing on the highest level) but it's generally accepted as healthy hierarchy of needs.
So, the answer would be: a need and a want for most people.

 

[White Baby]

Does the KiwiFarms.net cult pay you to Cyberstalk me online OR this an unpaid volunteer position?

Each of us is paid in one bag of candy, which we trade for what we actually want in a private chat. There are no health benefits. You can imagine how my teeth look.

Wrong again, as usual, because as s highly narcissistic individual, you are exactly like Anonymous Cyberstalker over there and Burmese Rice guy tand lack self awareness

You have got to lay off on the meth or you're never going to write any more books.

Also, it's too bad we're the red headed stepchild thread of the Lolcow board, I wish there was a word filter for narcissism. Maybe to Jewish. That would be funny.

 

[Toasty]

I think it's similar to Russell Greer's thing where every thing he doesn't like is blamed on bias and disability discrimination. Judge rules against him in court? Bias judge! (sic) woman tells him no for any reason? Disability discrimination!
So we get Melinda. Judge rules against her in court Bias! Melinda is faced with any thing that challenges her worldview or she doesn't like? Narcissist! Goyim!
These trainwrecks aren't intelligent enough to know that they have locked themselves into such tiny little boxes. When one claps their hands over their ears and screams that they know everything, they become incapable of ever learning or growing. It would be sad if they both weren't repellent fucking toads.

 

[Scarlett Johansson]

@TamarYaelBatYah Do you suffer from Irritable Bowel Syndrome? I think I do. At first I thought maybe it was Benzo Belly from taking Lorazepam, then Valium for upwards of a decade, but Ive been off it for 3 months now and still have intermittent constipation and diarrhea.

Any suggestions to NOT wake up and feel like your tum is going to explode?
Another question I have: Would it turn you on if someone put you on all fours and latched onto your butthole and suction cupped their lips to it while simultaneously fucking your shitter with their tongueholio?

Bruh what the fuck are you doing?

 

[TamarYaelBatYah]

I think it's similar to Russell Greer's thing where every thing he doesn't like is blamed on bias and disability discrimination. Judge rules against him in court? Bias judge! (sic) woman tells him no for any reason? Disability discrimination!
So we get Melinda. Judge rules against her in court Bias! Melinda is faced with any thing that challenges her worldview or she doesn't like? Narcissist! Goyim!
These trainwrecks aren't intelligent enough to know that they have locked themselves into such tiny little boxes. When one claps their hands over their ears and screams that they know everything, they become incapable of ever learning or growing. It would be sad if they both weren't repellent fucking toads.

narcissistic projection and narcissistic gaslighting

I’m not putting words in your mouth by the way

narcissistic gaslighting

Now you’re moving goalposts.

That's not what "moving goalposts" is. Explaining the difference using facts is distinguising.

I am still not competing with you. Your argument fails inherently because I am not attempting to compete with you.

Your statements have always been framed in a way that demonstrates you see life as a competition of performance between people

And no, welfare is not income, nor is Marshall's money.

According to who?

We talk about sales because y

You talk about my book because you're highly narcissistic people who consistently engage in the following behaviors:

(a) scapegoating
(b) smear campaigns
(c) attempts to sabatoge other's lives and livelihoods
(d) narcissistic preoccupation with fortune, fame and competition
(e) social abuse


All of these highly narcissistic traits that several of you have, feed and bounce off each other in your condition called "collective narcissism", hence why you vomit the ugliness from your soul.

I got you figured out, based on FACTS

More to come in a video about Kiwi Farms!

The way it works is: you need to satisfy lower levels to attempt satisfying higher levels: you need to eat and drink first. When you have it, you look for a shelter. When physiological needs are satisfied and you have a safe place you go for interpersonal relations. If a need of the lower level is not satisfied it will impede satisfying needs of higher levels.
Of course it's not perfect description that applies to every person (see: starving artist for people skipping the lowest level and focusing on the highest level) but it's generally accepted as healthy hierarchy of needs.
So, the answer would be: a need and a want for most people.

I'm going to have to disagree with Maslow, who published that theory in 1943.

Love from others is a want, not a need.

If an adult needs acceptance and love from another in order to thrive and glow, they have a psychological condition called codependency.

 

[Sir Dank-a-Lot]

More to come in a video about Kiwi Farms!

“I can’t wait!”
-No one, ever

 

[Toasty]

“I can’t wait!”
-No one, ever

She's making videos about us, and obsessively visiting our website to engage with us, and somehow we're the ones who are stalking and being sued. There's a word for this logic. Maybe someone else can provide it.

 

[Useful_Mistake]

Maybe someone else can provide it.

Oxymoron?

 

[Toasty]

narcissistic projection and narcissistic gaslighting

Lol look at this slag quoting me and proving my point! She even did her little finger thing. Precious.

 

[LoverofPi]

Lol look at this slag quoting me and proving my point! She even did her little finger thing. Precious.

Mel needing to specify that it is narcissistic gaslighting and narcissistic projection really drives home how much she totally understands the terms she's throwing about and how utterly not bothered she is when people accurately use them to describe her.

Also Mel, can I say, the disagreeing with a psychological model that has held up for just shy of eighty years at this point just to try and score a point, and arguing that the human need for interaction- which you absolutely do still crave based on your daily habit of coming here to argue- as codependency is just a perfect example of how dumb you can be when you try and be smart. Keep this up and you'll win boardwide exemplar of Dunning-Kruger for sure! Maybe mix in some of your misunderstandings of physical science, too. Those are always sure to get a laugh.

 

[Chariot Of Mara]

“I’m going to have to disagree with Maslow. I’ve studied narcissism for 9 years. I’m an expert in ALL aspects of psychology now, yknow. He only published that shit in the 40’s. Theories definitely never hold up that long or change. Look at gravity. What a joke.”

oh she’s so dumb it’s almost cute sometimes.

 

[TamarYaelBatYah]

“I’m going to have to disagree with Maslow. I’ve studied narcissism for 9 years. I’m an expert in ALL aspects of psychology now, yknow. He only published that shit in the 40’s. Theories definitely never hold up that long or change. Look at gravity. What a joke.”

oh she’s so dumb it’s almost cute sometimes.

Once again, saying things I didn't say.

Have you taken any time to look up other people who have challenged Maslow's theory?

Also Mel, can I say, the disagreeing with a psychological model that has held up for just shy of eighty years

Have you taken any time to look up other people who have challenged Maslow's theory?

and arguing that the human need for interaction- which you absolutely do still crave based on your daily habit of coming here to argue- as codependency is just a perfect example of how dumb you can be when you try and be smart.

I didn't say anything about "the human need for interaction".

Secondly, I am a Writer. Me coming here has nothing to do with a "need for interaction". In NO way whatsoever, would I look to a narcissistic circle of people for to fulfill any need whatsoever. If I could cut off my family for narcissistic traits, people with who I laughed, played and loved in my childhood, then I have no problem whatsoever cutting you guys off.

I will cut you off when my assignment here is done. The timing is not for me to control.

“I can’t wait!”
-No one, ever

Wow, you actually made a joke without being a sexist or socially abusive. Surprising!

obsessively visiting our website

Obsessively? No. Diligently? Yes!

Diligent. D-i-l-i-g-e-n-t.

Maybe instead of socially abusing people on your website you could have a "word of the day" section. Since you guys think you are so smart and well educated.

I've never seen a group of nerds and geeks socially abusing people. FACT!

 

[Useful_Mistake]

I'm going to have to disagree with Maslow, who published that theory in 1943.

Have you taken any time to look up other people who have challenged Maslow's theory?

In 2011 University of Rhode Island reviewed (doc 1) every major book and study, as well as interviewed experts on love (and in their respective fields), in three fields, biological, philosophical, and psychological. They reviewed, and reaffirmed Maslow as still not only relevant, but correct.


Edit: Maslow's works were reaffirmed as correct as recently as november of 2020 (doc 2)

I've never seen a group of nerds and geeks socially abusing people. FACT!

It's not a fact that they don't, though, because they do.

Secondly, I am a Writer. Me coming here has nothing to do with a "need for interaction". In NO way whatsoever, would I look to a narcissistic circle of people for to fulfill any need whatsoever.

And, yet you come to us, people you accuse of narcissism, to laugh with us, to banter, and even argue. Seems to me you are a liar, Mel

 

[White Baby]

bsessively? No. Diligently? Yes!

Diligent. D-i-l-i-g-e-n-t.

That's what every obsessive thinks.

I've never seen a group of nerds and geeks socially abusing people. FACT!

You don't browse the internet much beyond KF, do you?

 

[Chariot Of Mara]

That's what every obsessive thinks.

You don't browse the internet much beyond KF, do you?

No, how could she? YouTube that she visits to pull 30-40 links to out us in our place is wicked and evil so she can’t spend any more time than finding 15-30 minutes skits to show us. Video games are Marshall’s territory. She claims to limit her computer time- How would she ever know that nerds and geeks are vicious. She doesn’t interact with people.

 

[Burmese Rice Farmer]

Obsessively? No. Diligently? Yes!

Diligent. D-i-l-i-g-e-n-t.

A year and a half Melinda. You've been here, almost exclusively on your thread, for a year and a half.
You can't tell me with a straight face that you're not obsessed.

 

[Anonymus Fluhre]

Once again, saying things I didn't say.

Doesn't matter. It's what you think. You always claim to be a master of something even when proven otherwise. You're just another dumb bitch who needs to feel special.

 

[LoverofPi]

Have you taken any time to look up other people who have challenged Maslow's theory?

Yes. I have. Including Maslow himself who kept studying and refining the theory until his death. That's a good part of why it's held up so long.

I didn't say anything about "the human need for interaction".

No, you specifically called out "acceptance and love" which are just some of the healthy ways the need for interaction can be satiated. There are also other healthy and unhealthy ways for this need to be fulfilled, which is why I used the more generic term.

Secondly, I am a Writer. Me coming here has nothing to do with a "need for interaction". In NO way whatsoever, would I look to a narcissistic circle of people for to fulfill any need whatsoever. If I could cut off my family for narcissistic traits, people with who I laughed, played and loved in my childhood, then I have no problem whatsoever cutting you guys off.

I will cut you off when my assignment here is done. The timing is not for me to control.

Assignment, huh? Pull the other one. It's got bells on.

I've never seen a group of nerds and geeks socially abusing people. FACT!

You've never looked, then. Nerds and geeks can be just as vicious as anyone else. Even the ones who have been abused by others. Probably moreso.

 

[Dizzyuntildeath]

This bitch is vomiting up so much shit she'd back up a sewage treatment plant.