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I know I've been bigender since I was 8-10 and I know I've liked women romantically since I was 10-11. I'm nearly 25 now and every once in a while I still get the "it's just a phase" speech from family.

*sigh*

@Null is having an existential breakdown from the word "bigender". Can you tell us what this newfangled terminology means?
 
It just means I identify as male and female and I switch between the two non willingly. It can be a huge pain.

I like saying I'm bigender rather than both because I know it pisses people off haha
Is it like experiencing varying levels of gender dysphoria?
 
It just means I identify as male and female and I switch between the two non willingly. It can be a huge pain.

I like saying I'm bigender rather than both because I know it pisses people off haha
This is involuntary? That must be horribly inconvenient and uncomfortable as fuck. Is it nothing like being genderfluid, casually feeling like identifying as a gender one day, and another the next?
 
Is it like experiencing varying levels of gender dysphoria?

I guess. Sometimes I'm really comfortable with how I look and how people see me (female days) and other days I get really depressed and frustrated that nobody can see me how I want to be seen (male days). I go back and forth a lot so as much as I want to I don't think taking hormones and transitioning would be a good idea.

I don't even know if bigender is the right term. It's just what sounded the most like me.
 
I guess. Sometimes I'm really comfortable with how I look and how people see me (female days) and other days I get really depressed and frustrated that nobody can see me how I want to be seen (male days). I go back and forth a lot so as much as I want to I don't think taking hormones and transitioning would be a good idea.

I don't even know if bigender is the right term. It's just what sounded the most like me.
I understand that feeling (and sometimes experience something similar). I just call it being cis but occasionally (once every few months) wondering whether I would have a better life as the opposite sex. Not real gender dysphoria but just an occasionally less strong cis identity
 
I have gay thoughts,but I'm obsessed by the female form,so I can't stray from the straight path.
Yes,I'm addicted to women,the beautiful curves,their softness and cute voices...
 
I have gay thoughts,but I'm obsessed by the female form,so I can't stray from the straight path.
Yes,I'm addicted to women,the beautiful curves,their softness and cute voices...

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