Amber the Hedgehog
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- Joined
- Aug 23, 2018
Parental love is never unconditional. The first condition is already in the name, you need to be their child to apply. I know that most people mean love after that fact but it's still just not human nature not have any standards. Everyone has a breaking point and realizing that that includes your parents tends happen fairly young. It's universal to wonder if your parents really love you and how you should be that they do.
It's also good to remember that love is not always enough. You can love someone and not be cool with how they are. No one likes everything about anyone no matter how much they love them and everyone is always looking if your good points and worth of your bad points. What those good and bad points are is in the eye of beholder. For example someone might find you exhaustingly pushy and argumentative, and another likes that they can putt heads with you openly and get arguments over with. Sometimes people do come to conclusions that bad points are too much and do something that those bad points won't continue hurt. This can feel absolutely unfair if you two don't see the world or values the same way. This can happen over LGBTQ+ but nothing about this LGBTQ+ experience exclusive.