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apologies I dont have facebook,
So Kim ( Mama Sarault is the only one of her siblings to have bio children? Aunt has step kids apparently circa 16, so much younger) I never hear Chantal mention cousins so..... did Kim by having Chantal at 16
- scare them all shitless because having a kid that young isnt fun, scare them because what Chantal turned out to be?
- dare i say, felt shame about teenage pregnancy of a pump and dump and foist of to grandma
- they all have fertility problems?
that would mean that Granny Sarault, Chantal was her only grandkid until Nat turned up. Most grand parents I know cant wait and really cherish the idea of grand children, this is like a monkey paw wish with Chantal turning up...
maybe that is why she is so coddled, Grandma thought the could coddle the bad out of her because she was one of their only hopes for grand kids for a long while.... but maybe they should have continued a bit further and killed her with kindness.
I like your theory, but Chantal was the product of a teen pregnancy. Grandma wasn’t done raising Mama, if she ever really did, considering again, the teen pregnancy.
I also don’t think the concept of “killing with kindness” works when raising a child. Chantal is probably the way she is because they ignored her, then only showed her “love” (attention) when she acted out. That’s my 2c armchair