How to call a woman fat?

[Psyduck]

Shooting the shit with my brother yesterday, he slipped about having issues with his lady, they're going through therapy and everything

Said that a lot of it would be resolved by her dropping a few (lot) of pounds, but he can't bring himself to tell her

It's been bogging me all night for some reason, how can you not speak up about that? Is there any nice way to say it?

 

[Celebrate Nite]

Is there any nice way to say it?

No. No matter what any guy says about a woman gaining weight, women will ALWAYS take it as an insult that means you don't love them no more, which automatically makes you a dick and an asshole. Even if they agree and if you offer ways to loose weight they will just snap back with lines like "you're not helping" and will politely tell you to fuck off.

 

[get_ur_gamon]

You can never mention a woman's weight directly.

Frame it around getting into healthy habits for a better tommorow, rather than focussing on being unhealthy or ugly today. And frame it as a couples goal rather than something for her to sort out on her own.

If he says he also wants to commit to being healthier she won't feel like she is being targeted.

You can guilt people into losing weight if you set a good standard for yourself, which might make them a bit more self-concious of bad habits. If your brother goes to the gym / jogging, he should casually invite her to go. He can say that he doesn't want to buy as much unhealthy food. Getting into shape is much easier if you are making a pledge with someone else.

 

[fried chicknugs]

if it's food addiction or some shit, then the best way is to let her experience how fat feels like.
she will either change her mind one day when she gets diabetes or some health condition caused by obesity, or forever become a deathfat until the day she dies

 

[User names must be unique]

maybe use the terms fat chicks are comfortable with, could he ask her to be less "bubbly with a good sense of humour"?

 

[Tom Myers]

You can't. The only reason women lose weight in a relationship is because they're gearing up to find the next man.

 

[Ed Special]

Behind her back, if you only have half a tank of gas

 

[Power Ranger Monster]

*punch* "You are fat."

 

[lurk_moar]

Say their BMI is greater than 30.

 

[Poppavalyim Andropoff]

Said that a lot of it would be resolved by her dropping a few (lot) of pounds, but he can't bring himself to tell her

That’s cool your brother is a supermodel ..

 

[Quantum Diabetes]

“Yo gurlll you want some butter for those rolls?”

 

[Fucky Chucky]

You can never mention a woman's weight directly.

Frame it around getting into healthy habits for a better tommorow, rather than focussing on being unhealthy or ugly today. And frame it as a couples goal rather than something for her to sort out on her own.

If he says he also wants to commit to being healthier she won't feel like she is being targeted.

You can guilt people into losing weight if you set a good standard for yourself, which might make them a bit more self-concious of bad habits. If your brother goes to the gym / jogging, he should casually invite her to go. He can say that he doesn't want to buy as much unhealthy food. Getting into shape is much easier if you are making a pledge with someone else.

More or less this.
If you want your partner to get fit, unless you are the great and powerful Khan, you need to make it a joint effort.
This might be difficult but physical activity feels good when you don't do too much of it. Just peg your expectations on something reasonable and work by small increments from there. Odds are if you have an out of shape wife you are not exercising yourself.
You would be amazed at where you could be in a year taking baby steps and she doesn't need to feel like an organ grinder monkey while its going on. If you pull ahead, which you should, she'll see you being strong and she'll want you more. It's a win win if you are consistent and aren't a dick about it.
Get exercised with your lady and go fuck to celebrate.