Your rant sounds like an entitled virgin who thinks he deserves to get his dick wet.
Wake up. The basic thing that keeps inches separate from the rest of the world is the we (normal people) actually have a life. We have jobs, we have families, we have friends, we have hobbies, we have projects. We have so many things that connect us with our peers, with our tribe, fucking some chick is not our main goal in life. Of course sex is fun, it's even better when it's with someone that cares about us, but it's not all there is in life.
You say you enjoy enjoy philosophy, so I recommend you take a look at Durkheim, he goes deep into the significance of the social group, and Michel Maffesoli develops the idea of tribalism in a more modern context.
Yes, part of being human is the need for a group to identify with, sharing interests and shaping each others behaviours. But I strongly disagree with your claim that the new generation is too selfish and independent. Globalization has lead to more complex identities, people are no longer required to conform to the status quo, but what that means is that it has become much easier for the "others" or "deviants" to find a group to identify with.
Instead of individual selfishness being glamourised, people have a larger choice of groups to identify with, and the speed of technology leads to radicalisation.
What we have is awkward teenagers that instead of maturing into fine adults, they find a group of other awkward teenagers and radicalise each other, strengthening each other's worse ideas about the world. Every teenage boy and girl are literal incels, they are all young and horny and desperate for the right person to appear for them to have sex. The problem is when a group of virgins start to blame external factors on their difficulty in finding a mate, something that is just about always the fault of the person themselves. A part of growing up is learning to accept yourself as you are, love your flaws, and spend more time worrying about paying your bills than the next time you get to have sex.
What you think is a problem with women is all in your virgin women-hating mind. What happened is that women stopped being objects of trade. A few decades ago women were not allowed to work, to earn money for themselves, and the only option was to be a gold digger wife. Women used to be stuck in a place where they tried absolutely everything and society treats them like shit if they act nice or act horrible, (either she's a whore or she's frigid) anything a woman says, it's either because she has too much dick or too little dick. Now, thanks to feminism, women can actually make some money and pay for their own expenses, so naturally, they choose men who respect them.
Incels are really just little boys who don't want to grow up and watch way too much porn. You pay a girl to flirt with you on OnlyFans then you get angry when doesn't care about you. But isn't that what you wanted all along?
Incels are so obsessed with physical appearance, they are incapable of considering other people, or developing a personality that is anything besides their entitlement to sex.