How I met Bella… aannnnnnd her parents.
So, we lived in the same dorm hall. I moved in a week or so prior to Bella moving in. She moved into her dorm mid-August, and it happened to be on her birthday. (No, I don’t remember the exact date.) I’m guessing she went door to door to meet people, and that’s how I met her. Since it was her birthday, her parents had brought donuts and had them in her dorm.
Being that I had nothing else better to do, I walked over to her dorm and enjoyed a donut. At the time, I went by the name Rob (if anything else on KF depicts a dude named Rob, that’s probably me, but confirm with me to me sure! Not sure how many Robs she knows. I changed my name from Rob to Roman, to clear things up. Rob is not my legal name, and was just my first chosen/’trans’ name.) While she knew my name as Rob and still does not know my legal name, she referred to me with she/her pronouns. Which, I didn’t correct her, because it was totally understandable. I didn’t pass as male, and lived on a female floor in the dorms (dorms are separated by sex, one floor will have all male and the next floor will have all female, etc.) I met her parents, and no I don’t remember much about it. I met her roommate as well, which I quite like actually! She’s a’ight, and I wish her well. I really hope the confession Bella made about raping her is just bullshit.
Later on, I let her know that I’m trans and my pronouns were he/him. She immediately claimed she didn’t get it, and proceeded to out to me to quite literally anyone she talked to in the dorms.
Now, I have some messages between us through GroupMe, a texting app (our dorms had us set it up, every freshman has GroupMe essentially.) I took bits and pieces that proves just how insane it is. Bits and pieces because, and I can provide it if y’all want the full thing (just doesn’t seem necessary at the moment), it was mostly me just asking Bella to be quiet at 4am ‘cause I had a class the next day. Or me telling her to stop talking shit about me, ‘cause it was getting annoying lol. What I DID provide was some weird comments from her, the one where she asks if I was okay because I looked mad is just… terrifying. I didn’t see her at all that day, hence the “?”.
Sorry about the shit quality!