Fat Acceptance Movement / Fat Girlcows

I fail to understand how April can look at her husband’s workouts, and then feel confident about her half assed lunges and slight bending of the knees - sorry, I mean her squats.

Surely, she has to know that she’s doing hot garbage. And no amount of money spent on mirrors in their home gym is going to fix that.
Imagine having a home gym, a membership to planet fitness, and still doing exercises with such poor form one year and 3 months into your weight loss journey ?

Also, why would anyone wax their arm hair ? Wtf. I’ve never seen any woman do that.
 
You're right though, I think a lot of this is just the media fucking with young women's heads. That's nothing new, back in the 90's there was a direct correlation between models getting skinnier and skinnier and eating disorders in young women.
It's not new that media usually portrays people who undergo airbrushing, ridiculous photoshopping, and a shocking amount of cosmetic surgery/other procedures/all the drugs in conjunction with extremely unhealthy or obsessive ways of keeping weight in check while completely lying about it - this is probably why people too young to know any better get so down on themselves, if they take these people at face value that they manage to look the way they do just by "drinking a lot of water and running around with the kids" or some such bullshit to seem relatable and play it off like they don't dedicate time and money that most people can't fathom into maintaining their appearance.

What is new, though, is that so many people are only seeing others much of the time as well as themselves through a funhouse mirror level of selfie filters after infinite attempts at contorting oneself into a flattering angle to the point where shit is just cartoonish. Staring at anything for a long enough time makes it start to look funny and very hard to perceive accurately, as any artist knows very well, so spending insane amounts of time staring at yourself through filters and lens distortion can't be good for people. So many women who are very fat and suffering all the associated gross body horror being able to portray themselves as glamor models through a curated performance on social media is probably a good part of why the fat acceptance thing has proliferated to the point of utter absurdity in the last few years.

Shaving is not required for hygiene or health. Some women hate it and if you don't enjoy it it is not positive self-care at all but a chore that takes up time that could be better spend and the only people who really care are other women and assholes who watch too much porn or hentai.
I get your point, but it's a bit eyeroll worthy to hear women rage and storm about refusing to do it like shaving your legs and pits is some arduous task instead of something you can do with a $2 disposable razor in less then 3 minutes.
 
It's not new that media usually portrays people who undergo airbrushing, ridiculous photoshopping, and a shocking amount of cosmetic surgery/other procedures/all the drugs in conjunction with extremely unhealthy or obsessive ways of keeping weight in check while completely lying about it - this is probably why people too young to know any better get so down on themselves, if they take these people at face value that they manage to look the way they do just by "drinking a lot of water and running around with the kids" or some such bullshit to seem relatable and play it off like they don't dedicate time and money that most people can't fathom into maintaining their appearance.

What is new, though, is that so many people are only seeing others much of the time as well as themselves through a funhouse mirror level of selfie filters after infinite attempts at contorting oneself into a flattering angle to the point where shit is just cartoonish. Staring at anything for a long enough time makes it start to look funny and very hard to perceive accurately, as any artist knows very well, so spending insane amounts of time staring at yourself through filters and lens distortion can't be good for people. So many women who are very fat and suffering all the associated gross body horror being able to portray themselves as glamor models through a curated performance on social media is probably a good part of why the fat acceptance thing has proliferated to the point of utter absurdity in the last few years.


I get your point, but it's a bit eyeroll worthy to hear women rage and storm about refusing to do it like shaving your legs and pits is some arduous task instead of something you can do with a $2 disposable razor in less then 3 minutes.
I think it’s less the arduous task itself and more about the fact that one gender is allowed to grow full carpets on their legs and rugs under their arms, and the other gets told to stop whining and just go shave already, it ain’t harrrrrd.
 




 
Also, I think why a lot of these feminist women are ugly, hairy, and unwashed, is that they are trying to keep men away from them....But what they don't know, is that, there are men (and some LGBT women) who get off to filth and foul odors. So, they will attract men either way, just the fetish creeps who see these female filth potatoes as a dick stiffener, and nothing else.

If it exists, there is a kink/fetish for it. NO EXCEPTIONS!

Sadly enough.
Feminists in my experience come in two varieties, which is cool chicks with tattoos who listen to doom metal and hate capitalism, and shallow minded weirdos who think Disney movies are their personal battle of Armageddon,

I have nothing against feminism as a concept, in that I like women and want them to be happy and make their own decisions. And this is a great album, c'mon. But liberals, like they do with most subversive concepts, turned it into a narcissistic parody of itself. I was on the subway before and the car was covered with advertisements from Old Navy declaring a "fashion revolution" alongside pictures of plus sized models and bold claims of equality and female empowerment. Note: "plus sized" in this case means not a fucking twig but not really fat either. Of course Old Navy wouldn't put the actually fat in its ads. Anyway, that hit me as just the most amazingly cynical thing ever. It's what you get when a political movement gets totally robbed of anything that makes it significant. If a company like Old Navy that sells clothes made by Bangladeshi women in sweatshops is what counts as "feminist" then feminism not only doesn't matter, maybe it shouldn't.

I don't know, I feel like women deserve better then politicized narcissism. Which is what everything comes down to these days, seemingly.

There really is nothing that makes most people's eyes roll faster than a middle class white woman saying she's oppressed.
 
Feminists in my experience come in two varieties, which is cool chicks with tattoos who listen to doom metal and hate capitalism, and shallow minded weirdos who think Disney movies are their personal battle of Armageddon,

I have nothing against feminism as a concept, in that I like women and want them to be happy and make their own decisions. And this is a great album, c'mon. But liberals, like they do with most subversive concepts, turned it into a narcissistic parody of itself. I was on the subway before and the car was covered with advertisements from Old Navy declaring a "fashion revolution" alongside pictures of plus sized models and bold claims of equality and female empowerment. Note: "plus sized" in this case means not a fucking twig but not really fat either. Of course Old Navy wouldn't put the actually fat in its ads. Anyway, that hit me as just the most amazingly cynical thing ever. It's what you get when a political movement gets totally robbed of anything that makes it significant. If a company like Old Navy that sells clothes made by Bangladeshi women in sweatshops is what counts as "feminist" then feminism not only doesn't matter, maybe it shouldn't.

I don't know, I feel like women deserve better then politicized narcissism. Which is what everything comes down to these days, seemingly.

There really is nothing that makes most people's eyes roll faster than a middle class white woman saying she's oppressed.
Amen to this. This post is well put, and I agree with it.
 
My god 🧟‍♂️😱
Shame is in desperate need of a come back
You silly goose! Don't you know it's #fatgirlsummer? #noshame!!!




 
I get your point, but it's a bit eyeroll worthy to hear women rage and storm about refusing to do it like shaving your legs and pits is some arduous task instead of something you can do with a $2 disposable razor in less then 3 minutes.
Good for you that shaving only takes you less than three minutes but just because it is easy for you doesn't mean it is easy for others. And just because it is easy doesn't mean I have an obligation to do it.

I think it’s less the arduous task itself and more about the fact that one gender is allowed to grow full carpets on their legs and rugs under their arms, and the other gets told to stop whining and just go shave already, it ain’t harrrrrd.
Exactly. Whether a woman shaves or not is her personal decision. Hairless or hairy, both is absolutely fine as long as it makes you feel good about your body.

And unlike obesity, hairy legs or armpits do not give you diabetes or coronary heart disease or put a strain on the medical system.
There really is nothing that makes most people's eyes roll faster than a middle class white woman saying she's oppressed.
It is annoying when feminism gets highjacked for political concepts like FA/HAES and racism or is used by narcissists for their own personal gain. But I also think that oppression is in part subjective. Some feel oppressed, some don't. Everybody is different. However, I don't think that men should be allowed to tell women how oppressed or how not oppressed they should feel because really, how would you know? You are not women and you can't ever be.

You silly goose! Don't you know it's #fatgirlsummer? #noshame!!!
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You know fat women always wave their arms around while dancing cause they are the most mobile part of their body and it gives the illusion of movement.
 
Fucking hell Bekah...

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It is sad. She has a way to rationalize her completely understandable behaviour.

She acted like many rapevictims/victims of abuse do. Eat the emotion away, build a wall of fat, soothe the hurt, make oneself unattractive this way to avoid being seen as sexually desirable. That's so "normal" as a coping mechanism.

Therapy or otherwise learning to understand, finding other ways to defend herself and manage emotions can help her overcome that unhealthy coping mechanism over time. And save her sexuality. As someone who desires and will be desired, whatever body she's in.

Bekah has found a special scapegoat within her own mind: Internalised fatphobia. Something the outside world apparrently provides and exudes so much, it can be internalised and turns against the owner of that conscious mind she reigns over.

It's not she herself who hates her body, her mind is made to hate her by the society she lives in. She tries to distance this working mind of hers from herself. Meanwhile she goes on abusing her body like there's no tomorrow.

It sounds so absurd and constructed, so alien as a concept. Things are much simpler than that.
You don't need to play this degrading game and assault us with a daily dose of disgustingness instead.

eta: She externalizes fatphobia as an act of revenge.
We get to be disgusted by her deformed body to prove her point.
 
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I think it’s less the arduous task itself and more about the fact that one gender is allowed to grow full carpets on their legs and rugs under their arms, and the other gets told to stop whining and just go shave already, it ain’t harrrrrd.

Good for you that shaving only takes you less than three minutes but just because it is easy for you doesn't mean it is easy for others. And just because it is easy doesn't mean I have an obligation to do it.

To be clear I didn't mean body hair removal is an obligation for women for some unknown reason, I apologize if it came off that way, I meant it's so incredibly trivial that odds are people won't notice if you don't and won't care even if they did. I just think it's a really stupid thing to get self righteous about, because if people making the odd asshole comment about it upsets you that much, it's relatively cheap and easy to change if you want compared to getting crap about an aspect of your appearance that you're pretty well stuck with.

Of course Bekah deciding to stop removing body hair just fits the pattern of her being so depressed that she can't be arsed to groom herself or even shower half the time, and is desperately trying to cope by fishing for asspats like it's an accomplishment to be hairy, greasy and fat. Not gonna lie, the "I'm learning to try and be sexually desirable while looking like this" post just made me sad and even more uncomfortable than her posts normally do.
 
She acted like many rapevictims/victims of abuse do. Eat the emotion away, build a wall of fat, soothe the hurt, make oneself unattractive this way to avoid being seen as sexually desirable. That's so "normal" as a coping mechanism.

It's not she herself who hates her body, her mind is made to hate her by the society she lives in. She tries to distance this working mind of hers from herself. Meanwhile she goes on abusing her body like there's no tomorrow.

She externalizes fatphobia as an act of revenge.
We get to be disgusted by her deformed body to prove her point.
And she's not going to stop because thinness equals depression for her, like the place she's now is not it.
She doesn't want to be seen as sexy, not even on these “reclaiming my senshualuty one knee at the time” pics, she has posted lewd photos to desensitise (herself first and foremost to) nakedness, so this slight bend at the back is just as sad as her play pretend at iovercameandhappynowyoucantoofollower.
I'd believe if you tell me she has a separate IG account she uses to follow this one, to read all those crafted words and affirm herself.

Fucking hell Bekah
 
It is sad. She has a way to rationalize her completely understandable behaviour.

She acted like many rapevictims/victims of abuse do. Eat the emotion away, build a wall of fat, soothe the hurt, make oneself unattractive this way to avoid being seen as sexually desirable. That's so "normal" as a coping mechanism.

Therapy or otherwise learning to understand, finding other ways to defend herself and manage emotions can help her overcome that unhealthy coping mechanism over time. And save her sexuality. As someone who desires and will be desired, whatever body she's in.

Bekah has found a special scapegoat within her own mind: Internalised fatphobia. Something the outside world apparrently provides and exudes so much, it can be internalised and turns against the owner of that conscious mind she reigns over.

It's not she herself who hates her body, her mind is made to hate her by the society she lives in. She tries to distance this working mind of hers from herself. Meanwhile she goes on abusing her body like there's no tomorrow.

It sounds so absurd and constructed, so alien as a concept. Things are much simpler than that.
You don't need to play this degrading game and assault us with a daily dose of disgustingness instead.

eta: She externalizes fatphobia as an act of revenge.
We get to be disgusted by her deformed body to prove her point.
Much as I roll my eyes and like to dunk on Bekah for fetishizing obesity and lack of self-care this is fucking tragic and every time I remember she acts this way because she was raped I feel bad for rolling my eyes and dunking on her gross IG posts. Someone else pointed out how closed-in her body language is even when she's trying to act proud of her fat rolls and stretch marks and body hair, and I can see it.

Amberlynn's had a rough life, but she's such a cunt you don't feel bad about hating her. Bekah is just sad.
 
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