Manosphere Mystery Man - SlutHate dumbass who couldn't leave well enough alone

[JU 199]

Only looks improvement and casual sex.

you mean botox and your right hand?

 

[MysteryMan]

What drugs enhance shitposting proficiency? Asking for a friend.

Winstrol, but shh keep it on the down low.

 

[Rin]

What drugs enhance shitposting proficiency? Asking for a friend.

Going off the example of Marjan Šiklić, I'd have to choose meth.

 

[MysteryMan]

So I saw this one girl again tonight, it didn't go very well... It's the third time I've seen her. I don't know why, but it was just a weird vibe and she kept asking "what I'm expecting from her" (like relationship-wise). I felt as though the sexual chemistry was not there like the other two times, I kissed her but it didn't feel as passionate as before. I don't know if I've seen a girl more than twice before (I think one girl I saw three times but she never asked this stuff) so this was a new thing for me. Slightly negative mood now.

 

[Dr. Boe Jangles Esq.]

So I saw this one girl again tonight, it didn't go very well... It's the third time I've seen her. I don't know why, but it was just a weird vibe and she kept asking "what I'm expecting from her" (like relationship-wise). I felt as though the sexual chemistry was not there like the other two times, I kissed her but it didn't feel as passionate as before. I don't know if I've seen a girl more than twice before (I think one girl I saw three times but she never asked this stuff) so this was a new thing for me. Slightly negative mood now.

You had a girl react less than ideally to you? Shocking!

 

[MysteryMan]

You had a girl react less than ideally to you? Shocking!

Yeah... I sat with her for a while and I was making out with her, but I didn't feel it was as passionate as before. Then she was just staring off and I asked her what she's thinking and she starts bringing up "the talk". I don't mean asking if we are a couple, but she wanted to know if I was looking for a long term thing. I found this really awkward to answer, so I was saying that I don't plan these things and just let the chips fall where they may, but she kept on it saying that I "must have some idea" and asking me what I think of her.

I feel a bit sad because I do like her company and I enjoy having her around, but I know that because of me this could never work, and I know I'm unlikely to see her again.

 

[Dr. Boe Jangles Esq.]

Yeah... I sat with her for a while and I was making out with her, but I didn't feel it was as passionate as before. Then she was just staring off and I asked her what she's thinking and she starts bringing up "the talk". I don't mean asking if we are a couple, but she wanted to know if I was looking for a long term thing. I found this really awkward to answer, so I was saying that I don't plan these things and just let the chips fall where they may, but she kept on it saying that I "must have some idea" and asking me what I think of her.

I feel a bit sad because I do like her company and I enjoy having her around, but I know that because of me this could never work, and I know I'm unlikely to see her again.

I'm sure it's nothing to do with you.

 

[HickoryDickory]

Yeah... I sat with her for a while and I was making out with her, but I didn't feel it was as passionate as before. Then she was just staring off and I asked her what she's thinking and she starts bringing up "the talk". I don't mean asking if we are a couple, but she wanted to know if I was looking for a long term thing. I found this really awkward to answer, so I was saying that I don't plan these things and just let the chips fall where they may, but she kept on it saying that I "must have some idea" and asking me what I think of her.

I feel a bit sad because I do like her company and I enjoy having her around, but I know that because of me this could never work, and I know I'm unlikely to see her again.

Just be aware that if a girl asks "What are you thinking about?", that's when they get ya.

 

[MysteryMan]

Just be aware that if a girl asks "What are you thinking about?", that's when they get ya.

What does that mean? She was like, staring in one direction without speaking for a while and I could tell she wanted to say something, so I asked her what it was... I feel like seeing a girl more than once isn't a good routine for me. It was favorable in this situation because she lives within walking distance, so I gave it a go, but I saw her multiple times and I knew this would come up eventually.

 

[ChuckSlaughter]

What does that mean? She was like, staring in one direction without speaking for a while and I could tell she wanted to say something, so I asked her what it was... I feel like seeing a girl more than once isn't a good routine for me. It was favorable in this situation because she lives within walking distance, so I gave it a go, but I saw her multiple times and I knew this would come up eventually.

That sounds like a wonderful time.

 

[Mostly Useless]

Yeah... I sat with her for a while and I was making out with her, but I didn't feel it was as passionate as before. Then she was just staring off and I asked her what she's thinking and she starts bringing up "the talk". I don't mean asking if we are a couple, but she wanted to know if I was looking for a long term thing. I found this really awkward to answer, so I was saying that I don't plan these things and just let the chips fall where they may, but she kept on it saying that I "must have some idea" and asking me what I think of her.

I feel a bit sad because I do like her company and I enjoy having her around, but I know that because of me this could never work, and I know I'm unlikely to see her again.

What does that mean? She was like, staring in one direction without speaking for a while and I could tell she wanted to say something, so I asked her what it was... I feel like seeing a girl more than once isn't a good routine for me. It was favorable in this situation because she lives within walking distance, so I gave it a go, but I saw her multiple times and I knew this would come up eventually.

Are you seriously this obtuse? She clearly doesn't want to be just a notch on your belt and is hinting (not even subtly at this point) that she'd like to have a long-term relationship, but you are so caught up in your egotistical bullshit and obsession with nailing as many chicks as you can (something that won't bring you happiness) that you are potentially killing off what is a chance for you to have a fresh start. You can stop posting on lookism, stop focussing on looksmaxing and all that rubbish. Call me optimistic, but the reason you might be feeling scared is because you are too much of a coward for this.

 

[Frank Rizzo]

I've got to say: I find it quite hilarious that a smug douchebag like MM got rejected by a girl here, especially after all of his passive aggressive "I am so much better at getting women then you guys are" posts.

Also, In B4 MM pretending to be all offended and going "HUR DUR, U ARE BEING SO PETTY AND MEAN!"

 

[MysteryMan]

Are you seriously this obtuse? She clearly doesn't want to be just a notch on your belt and is hinting (not even subtly at this point) that she'd like to have a long-term relationship, but you are so caught up in your egotistical bullshit and obsession with nailing as many chicks as you can (something that won't bring you happiness) that you are potentially killing off what is a chance for you to have a fresh start. You can stop posting on lookism, stop focussing on looksmaxing and all that rubbish. Call me optimistic, but the reason you might be feeling scared is because you are too much of a coward for this.

I understand clearly what she is suggesting. The thing is, she was sexually forward the first couple of times I met up with her... This time she was talking about a relationship. Believe it or not I get great happiness from one night stands BUT furthermore even if I did want a relationship, and you will find this more important, I don't see a good base for a successful relationship here.

I like space and she likes intimacy (I think), I like to have the power and so does she, we differ or potentially clash on many levels. It is sad because she is nice and I can enjoy talking to her... But at the same time sometimes when we talk I feel like I'm talking to someone who is just too different from me. For example, I am very into in fitness it's one of the biggest parts of my life, but I can't really talk about this with her because she has no interest in this topic. Vice versa she talks about things which don't really interest me. For a good relationship I think I would need to find somebody who is very talkative, submissive and does not mind a lot of space and time apart.

 

[Cthulu]

For a good relationship I think I would need to find somebody who is very talkative, submissive and does not mind a lot of space and time apart.

So a flesh light and a chatbot program.

 

[Mostly Useless]

I understand clearly what she is suggesting. The thing is, she was sexually forward the first couple of times I met up with her... This time she was talking about a relationship. Believe it or not I get great happiness from one night stands BUT furthermore even if I did want a relationship, and you will find this more important, I don't see a good base for a successful relationship here.

I like space and she likes intimacy (I think), I like to have the power and so does she, we differ or potentially clash on many levels. It is sad because she is nice and I can enjoy talking to her... But at the same time sometimes when we talk I feel like I'm talking to someone who is just too different from me. For example, I am very into in fitness it's one of the biggest parts of my life, but I can't really talk about this with her because she has no interest in this topic. Vice versa she talks about things which don't really interest me. For a good relationship I think I would need to find somebody who is very talkative, submissive and does not mind a lot of space and time apart.

There's that keyword again. Submissive. What you want is a girl who does everything that you want and is your little servant. Heads up, there's not many girls who want to be submissive to an asshole. Maybe you dating someone will help you open your eyes to some greater hobbies. This is why this obsession with searching for your perfect match is so contrived. Say you find someone who is exactly what you're looking for. She's nice, submissive, talkative, and can handle being apart. The whole package you described. She's a bit chubby, maybe a little intimidated. Chances are you're gonna overlook her because you can't fathom anything other than a model being your perfect match.

 

[MysteryMan]

There's that keyword again. Submissive. What you want is a girl who does everything that you want and is your little servant. Heads up, there's not many girls who want to be submissive to an asshole. Maybe you dating someone will help you open your eyes to some greater hobbies. This is why this obsession with searching for your perfect match is so contrived. Say you find someone who is exactly what you're looking for. She's nice, submissive, talkative, and can handle being apart. The whole package you described. She's a bit chubby, maybe a little intimidated. Chances are you're gonna overlook her because you can't fathom anything other than a model being your perfect match.

Well firstly I think @Cthulhu got it right... His post just sums up how unrealistic it is for me to have any sort of lasting relationship with the needs I have. So not only do I like short term relationships, it seems like that's the only thing that even suits me.

Also, remember this girl likes power too, it's not only me. When she was being sexual and having fun with me (instead of this boyfriend/girlfriend thing) she was making moves on me, then withdrawing and making me chase, then when I stopped bothering she would just jump on me and get really into it. I don't think she was doing this to tease me and make me horny, but to try and assert power, like to show that she's the one calling the shots. This is definitely the impression I got. She also bit my lip exceptionally hard one time and it hurt me a lot. She was whispering in my ear "I know you want this" teasing me, kept doing this, and I playfully said shut up while smirking and we both laughed but next time she kissed me she bit down fucking hard then giggled and told me not to tell her to shut up. I know some girls like to bite but I think she went a bit too far and she held the bite too. I didn't want to say anything and sound like a pussy so I pretended like it didn't affect me, but again I think she is doing these things to try and assert dominance over me.

I can only imagine that in a relationship she would be extremely controlling, so she would also need a submissive partner. She's also a psychology major which is a bit worrying, because she's better equipped to play power games.

 

[Frank Rizzo]

I think she is doing these things to try and assert dominance over me.

And you took it like a bitch, if your story is any indication.

 

[Sanae Kochiya]

I understand clearly what she is suggesting. The thing is, she was sexually forward the first couple of times I met up with her... This time she was talking about a relationship. Believe it or not I get great happiness from one night stands BUT furthermore even if I did want a relationship, and you will find this more important, I don't see a good base for a successful relationship here.

Alright, then. So she wanted a relationship and you didn't, so you two broke it off. Why are you complaining? Sounds like every other breakup.

For a good relationship I think I would need to find somebody who is very talkative, submissive and does not mind a lot of space and time apart.

Now I don't want to be judgmental and say that all women aren't like this because I'm sure there are some people who like being submissive or don't mind being controlled by their significant other in a relationship (insert your own BDSM joke here), but because of how our society works here and what we encourage, there's a lot of women that enjoy autonomy and a degree of independence, so finding someone that likes being completely under your thumb seems a bit impractical.

 

[Mostly Useless]

needs I have.

Read: I need to get my dick wet with lots of women because muh validation.

When she was being sexual and having fun with me (instead of this boyfriend/girlfriend thing) she was making moves on me, then withdrawing and making me chase,

Read: I like what I can't have, and when I CAN get it, I lose interest.

but again I think she is doing these things to try and assert dominance over me.

Read: I can't handle my masculinity being threatened by the most minor of grievances.

I can only imagine that in a relationship she would be extremely controlling, so she would also need a submissive partner. She's also a psychology major which is a bit worrying, because she's better equipped to play power games.

Read: If she finds out how much of a shallow pathetic person, I couldn't handle it because then she'd see me for real.

 

[Frank Rizzo]

Read: I need to get my dick wet with lots of women because muh validation.



Read: I like what I can't have, and when I CAN get it, I lose interest.



Read: I can't handle my masculinity being threatened by the most minor of grievances.



Read: If she finds out how much of a shallow pathetic person, I couldn't handle it because then she'd see me for real.

You've pretty much got MM down to a tee.