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- Nov 4, 2017
These days it usually happens when someone with enough autism goes through the trouble of writing a callout document. It seems those are mandatory and without one unless you get some type of media attention your cancelling won't go anywhere.
Dude may have been a sleazeball but the chick who wrote that blog post is mentally ill and will probably be accusing someone else of this kind of thing within two years.
Against my better judgement, I skimmed some of this shit.
Here's what I pieced together:
For the unaware (aka anyone who has had sex), Arcadum is a "pro-DM" who runs several highly-involved games on Twitch via Virtual Table Top (like crit roll, only no one is attractive enough for a face cam) and basically a shadowrun rippoff LARP on VR chat. I have never seen any 'arcadum effect' nerd anger posts so I'll let you decide how successful/influential he is. As mentioned, he looks like you would expect a Male Feminist who is also a DM to look.
Anyway, I guess the guy has a girlfriend, but they either were having troubles (or at least he was pretending as such for pity for the absolute most pathetic female validation, which we'll get into) and would message girls from the twitch D&D community, especially the ones with VR chat. He would then say how he didn't have anyone to talk to, it was so hard to find real friends and confidants as an eceleb, and then would then e-flirt with girls, talk them in to phone sex, or get them to give him lapdances/ERP in VR Chat (yes, this precisely as gay & lame as you imagine it to be) and in every sense use them for an ego massage to get his rocks off. (He'd sob about how unattractive he felt and how much he wanted any female attenton to feel validated, please grind your virtual ass in my VR helm so I can stop crying)
The only case of this exiting online-only simpcel behavior is he apparently went to visit one of them, and rubbed his erection on her leg during a hug while crying and generally trying to in the most cringeworthy way possible to dip his toes and try to see if she felt bad enough to toss him a pity fuck, but backing off when it was more than abundantly clear that wasn't happening. But that was years ago, (also that was her account of things - but given the logs from the other girls, crying to get a pity fuck seems part for the course.)
So what caused this drama to unravel right now?
The leader of this Spartacus E-thot revolt was angry her character was killed and wasn't allowed to be revived.. Just her character. From what I could tell she wasn't off the show, just her preist was permadead and she had to make a new one. But that was only half of it. Arcadum committed another grave sin, which was not giving a melting down attention whore that what she craved (attention) and when she threatened to take her character to a new game was told 'lol, good luck'.
I believe that this e-thot scorned got in contact with his girlfriend, and Arcadum was forced to cut contact with any girl he'd so much as sent a winkie-face, and it wasn't too hard for the rest of them to figure out what was going on.
Coinciding with this, I guess he was also getting his swerve on (i mean you know....fucking lol. Just fucking lol.) with someone on his musical team, and removed her from the team (with serverence) as girlfriend was making him cut contact with his side e-chicks. So I guess she realized that Arcadum was probably doing to her what he was accusing her of doing (and she very likely was doing) whichwas trying to hook up with other guys now that she had a growing career and fans of her own.
Due to all this, All of these girls realized Arcadum was effectively a dry well for them now, it was easy for a group of them them to find each other, and they and decided it was time to burn that bridge for internet publicity to boost their careers since this guy wasn't going to be able to help build their brands.
At least one of them it was personal as she realized she was the extreme side chick, and was none to happy when she realized he was never breaking up with his girlfriend. Her account is pretty wonderful, with "he helped me financially, paid for my VR skin so I could be in the LARP, supported my career personally and professionally, and didn't do any reprisals when I realized that he wasn't going to make me his girlfriend so I cut down the ERP way down.... but seriously fuck him. #METOO and here is a link to my twitter"
All of these girls were legal adults, but one of them (the Momo one) is trying to get "grooming" introduced into the discussion because of how successful that was at deplatforming the other e-celebs who were diddling underaged fans.
(Oh and just because I know you're curious: One of the girls describes herself as 5'3" and 140lbs. That seems to be about par for the course for the rest of them. And that's what he burned down his career for).
There is absolutely no one who looks good. Arcadum is of course a fat creeper who is e-cheating on his girlfriend. The girls posting their screeds are very clearly butthurt to discover they were not the only one he was doing this shit with (being they knew he was living with his girlfriend), that there were other e-girls and that shit cannot stand. They are trying to downplay it, but very clear him asking for ERP was an not out of line thing for someone to ask them - they all try to hurry past it, but at least one was a VRChat stripper (yes, this is a thing) before deciding she was asexual and all of them seem to think his request to ERP with them was not a shocking request or their first time doing it. By their own admissions he was nice, supportive, and helped their careers. His biggest sin seems that he was being a pathetic sex pest who when told firmly 'no incel sex tonight' would checkout of the conversation to them to go find someone who would. He was also weirdly passively-aggressive possessive/stalkery in that turbonerd way. And I guess also possibly rubbing his erection on that one girl that one time.
And that's where we are today.
(Oh and his channel admin, who has a literal Gender Studies advanced degree (and is married to a man and her 'job' is moderating virtual D&D community chat, so have a thunk there) was angry because I guess he had a "...its actually a man!" moment played for laughs, is angry at him for transphobia and mansplaining to her it wasn't a big deal. This woman let this shit run her life, but its all his fault.)
Its just failure all the way down.
tl;dr:
I leave you these wise words:
maybe, I stopped after >vrchat.
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