Thank you!!
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As predicted, half of these grievances boil down to “people don’t want to match with me uwu”
I can’t decide which is funniest between “having to educate matches” or “blocking me/not responding to the conversation”
even a wordless exit from a conversation upon finding a fundamental incompatibility is transphobic
This survey is hilarious. Let's look at every possible answer choice:
"Not enough gender and sexual identity options to express myself": Lmao as if having more stickers and labels will garner more matches. You're a man, that's
the problem.
"Getting banned but I haven't broken any community guidelines": Yeah right, I'm sure they broke plenty. But if they didn't, then this is likely just a glitch or modding issue. Literally the only choice on here that HER might can fix.
"Liking on people but not getting matches": How the hell is this even an issue? Millions of people go through this every day, regardless of what dating app you use and what you identify as. That being said, of course you'll have less matches as a MAN on a LESBIAN dating app. That's like going to "Christian Singles" and making a profile that lists Satan as your hero, and then being surprised when you don't get any matches.
"Having to educate about being transgender or non-binary": You can't educate lesbians into liking dick. Again, this isn't something HER can actually fix. The problem is all you. If you don't want to 'educate' then stfu.
"Not being safe being publicly out on the app:" I find this laughable since troons are the ones that go out of their way to overshare everything. And then they cry that they feel unsafe? Ignoring the fact that no woman is going to bother troons, how is this problem HER's fault? Stop being an oversharer if you're really that worried.
"Matches not responding to me/un-liking me once they find out I'm trans:"
This one is the best. How
dare women ghost me! They do realize this phenomenon happens to everyone, right? There's no way to fix this. Even if these troons were real and honest women, there's no guarantee they wouldn't get ghosted.
Now that we know what the issues are, how can you fix them?
1. Ban the lesbians that stop talking back to troons? They can't do that, their app will become a ghost town so fast if they piss off half the users.
2. Put users in time out? Same thing as above.
3. Educate users about how girldick is totally the same thing as a vagina? That's likely going to piss off users. They'll either leave or just ignore the "education" and continue ignoring troons as well.
4. Keep re-matching troons with lesbians that don't like them? Again, they'll just ignore these troons and continue looking for actual women.
I honestly don't see the point of this survey unless it's just to make troons feel like HER is doing something. Pretty much the only thing HER can do at this point is make some dumb article about how they support troons and maybe another article about being safe online. I'm sure they'll add more useless identity stickers. Neither of those things are going to increase matches for troons.
At the end of the day, this app is supposed to be for lesbians. Lesbians don't want penis or stink ditches.
