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- Apr 8, 2018
A phrase I use a lot lately is “It’s a reason, not an excuse.”
The reason PK acts like she does is probably due to abuse as a child, however that doesn’t excuse her behaviours at all. As said previously, you identify what your own issues are and work to improve yourself around them. Mental illness can make a lot of people act shitty, whether it’s drpression/anxiety making you a nightmare to be around due to sucking the life out of a room or something more severe, but that doesn’t mean you can just say “well I have X so you have to just deal with it.” I have quite a few friends IRL who are disabled, and I’m so glad that they’re not of this mentality; they want to help and contribute to society even if it’s harder for them. For example- i have a friend who is profoundly deaf and she is finding it incredibly hard to find a job as most employers rule her out after finding that out. But, she can speak very well, has some hearing with a cochlear implant (but not a lot, especially if it’s a loud environment) and can lipread extremely well. If she had the SJW mentality of “the world is against en cause i’m disabled and everything is shit” she would have given up months ago, but 2 years after i met her she’s almost finished a degree, still searching for work and moving out of supported accommodation. It’s called being an adult, people like PK could learn a lot from it.
I feel that is a mentality that a lot of SJWs have/are pushing at the moment- which is ironic as most want everyone else to change to fit their wants and needs, but they won’t change themselves to fit the wants and needs of others. It’s leading to a very spoilt and lazy society imo, which makes it harder for people who genuinely have conditions that mean they may have difficulty socialising/communicating as people won’t give them the time of day. People will tie you in with the rest of the shit and it’s sad.
The reason PK acts like she does is probably due to abuse as a child, however that doesn’t excuse her behaviours at all. As said previously, you identify what your own issues are and work to improve yourself around them. Mental illness can make a lot of people act shitty, whether it’s drpression/anxiety making you a nightmare to be around due to sucking the life out of a room or something more severe, but that doesn’t mean you can just say “well I have X so you have to just deal with it.” I have quite a few friends IRL who are disabled, and I’m so glad that they’re not of this mentality; they want to help and contribute to society even if it’s harder for them. For example- i have a friend who is profoundly deaf and she is finding it incredibly hard to find a job as most employers rule her out after finding that out. But, she can speak very well, has some hearing with a cochlear implant (but not a lot, especially if it’s a loud environment) and can lipread extremely well. If she had the SJW mentality of “the world is against en cause i’m disabled and everything is shit” she would have given up months ago, but 2 years after i met her she’s almost finished a degree, still searching for work and moving out of supported accommodation. It’s called being an adult, people like PK could learn a lot from it.
I feel that is a mentality that a lot of SJWs have/are pushing at the moment- which is ironic as most want everyone else to change to fit their wants and needs, but they won’t change themselves to fit the wants and needs of others. It’s leading to a very spoilt and lazy society imo, which makes it harder for people who genuinely have conditions that mean they may have difficulty socialising/communicating as people won’t give them the time of day. People will tie you in with the rest of the shit and it’s sad.
