JULAY
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Exactly that.
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Exactly that.
I am sure that feminine souls don't go around collecting boy-toys, drinking their own semen and then throwing it in the freezer.
I'd like that to happen.I don't think the problem is that Chris needs a job, we all know no one would EVER employ him for ANYTHING for so many reasons. He gets more than enough money in his tugboat, he just blows it all away on toys. It's money management he needs
He has some IRL friends. He goes to a card shop to play Pokemon once a week with a group there, and he has some people from there on his FB friend list.
One of them posted on his FB page recently and offered to help him find a job. I wonder if his post today is related to that.
I'm not sure, but during the Jackie saga, Chris started mentioning Rocky was looking into job placement options for him.Maybe Marvin can recall the details better than me, but there was a point a few years ago where Rocky actually lined up a real job for Chris. Glass sorting or something of the like, but it was a paycheck that would've gotten Chris out of the house and brought him a good deal of extra money. Not an interview - Rocky talked to someone who had a job to give, and that person said "sure Rocky, the job is his. Just send him in." He had the job.
Chris went out of his way to not follow up with Rocky. He fell conveniently silent when the friends who knew about it asked why he wouldn't go for it despite constantly bitching about having money hardships.
As for my parents, well, I can give you the rundown. My father's from Philadelphia, born and raised, on the playground is where he spent most of his days. Then one day he decided he wanted to be an engineer, so he found some good schools and started applying around here. He got accepted to Virginia Tech and his mom got stoked, she said "you're packing your bags and moving to Roanoke". And that's how he came to be in Virginia.
My mother's story is a bit different from my father's, and a bit more interesting. She comes from Los Angeles originally, way out in California. She never went to college after high school initially, she spent her early 20's as a waitress in a little diner. Actually, a really freaky thing happened to her when she was young: There was this crazy guy who came along and tried to murder her after she got off work one night. The guy almost succeeded too, except that a good samaritan saved her life and got her away from the attacker. The guy pursued both of them for days, I think he actually shot up a bunch of cops while doing so, killing a few of them. Eventually the murderer killed my mother's protector, but she managed to kill him in self-defense by trapping him in some big crushing press (they were in a factory at the time, I think the murderer worked there or something, I don't know how they all wound up there). But before her protector died, the two of them shared a night of intimacy, during which my half-brother was conceived.
A few years after that, my father and some of his college friends went to L.A. on spring break, and they were doing body shots in the club where my mother happened to have taken a job. My father slipped that lime into my mother's mouth and their eyes met, and both knew it was meant to be. Soon after my father graduated and my mother moved out to Virginia to be with him, and they got married. I was born a few years later. I'm still to this day not allowed to ask my mother directly about what happened with the murderer all those years ago (It's a very traumatic subject for her), but my father has told me some things that she told him: Apparently, the guy was absolutely crazy, when he came at her he was ranting about her needing to die or else his race was going to die in the apocalypse in the future, I guess he thought she was like the anti-christ or something. I don't know what race he was talking about, my dad said he looked like some eastern european.
Anyway, as for my half-brother: He was like 8 years older than me and we never had a very strong relationship. He was kind of a bad seed, always getting into trouble when he was a teenager, he smoked all the time, stole money, did vandalism, other petty crimes. He actually caused a lot of fights for our family. A little before he turned 18, he ran away and said he didn't want to come back, and he refuses to talk to any of us now. Last I heard he moved back to Los Angeles, but I think he's just kind of living off the grid, semi-homeless. I don't know if he has a job or not. It's really sad because I think he had some mental illness or instability, he always got so angry and impulsive and was really paranoid about stuff. Sometimes I think about him and hope he's doing okay but he's really not a part of any of our lives anymore.
considering spending history, his overvaluing and undervaluing things, and general ineptness, i would guess he has difficulty grasping abstract concepts like math and money and value, as well as planning for the future rather than living in the present. he walked away (apparently) from a job sorting glass and refuses to acknowledge it as a viable means of earning a living likely because he doesn't want to be called out on being a lay-about as well as refusing to take any responsibility for his own actions - if it's out of sight it's out of mind, and the less responsibility he has over his circumstances the less he must face his own horrific failure to thrive as an adult.Fears getting his SSDI taken away/can't even fathom the idea of a job paying him more than he gets monthly
It's sad. He somehow managed to graduate community college, yet won't even try to get a basic job stocking shelves.If he had been given the right lifeskills growing up he might be employable now, but no he is never going to get a job. He is downright unemployable. I agree with him on that. He COULD change, but that would take him loosing his home, his mother, and being in a group home or something.
Took him long enough.I think Chris deleted the comments from Kim Wilson.
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Both were removed just after he responded to her comment on the other post. She must have really struck a nerve that time.