Interests 6/22 - Chris at Too Many Games convention - Day 2 - Chris has a meltdown, kicked out of con for boundary issues, kissing attendees

Who's to blame for Chris being kicked out?

  • Christine

  • The Convention itself

  • CJ

  • CLYDE CASH

  • The Captain for sending him there in the first place


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It's hard to tell.

It could legitimately be Chris fucking up. It could be Chris' reputation has precluded him, and the staff were on a hair trigger. It could be minor, unnamed weens provoking him into doing something shitty (and the staff being on a hair trigger). The spergs on twitter make me think that's a possibility too. And then it could be this CJ person.

I hope it's the CJ person. If it's not (and we can't locate another ween at fault), then it's probably best to chalk it up to Chris' behavior. Not that it's proven that it's Chris' behavior, and there's still room for outside influence. But we wouldn't have any hard evidence for that, and it'd probably be best to just assign blame to Chris in that case.

It would do well for Chris to learn that he can't prove to outsiders without evidence, so he needs to be prepared for that.

Oh, yeah, the CJ thing being weird doesn't preclude this being all on Chris. I was thinking more along the attendees line. Staff obviously can't wave things off as "Chris-Chan lol", but if someone reported him to staff, they were either legitimately creeped out or a ween. A lot of people were happy to have Chris there, so if it were weenery, I'd think they would step in and tell staff it was bullshit. It's not like he was quietly detained and taken out the back. Hell, it's possible CJ had a rollin' and trollin' plan in place, and Chris beat him to it.
 
With the "Chris fancies himself a casanova, which means he gropes and kisses random women to be "flirty"" thing, I actually think that's a result of him justifying a reason to give into his urges.
Chris sees an attractive women wanting to take a pic with him. Chris REALLY wants to fuck her, but knows that sexual assault is awful. So, to justify himself kissing/touching her in a sexual way, he takes on the stereotypical casanova persona, so he can touch her and (according to cartoons, TV, and anime) get away with it, while (theoretically) making her fall for him.
This of course never works, but Chris always does it because his urge to touch the girl is greater than the urge to behave and be respected, but not get to touch the girl.
 
Agree, but the context is completely different. Chris has had horrible problems with boundaries in the past, and this went way beyond a typical, "ciao" kiss. Even if Chris was just enacting his sick twisted fantasies of being some French sex star, it still led up to being way too much. Even one of his fans is denouncing his actions. A sexually/socially repressed autistic male forcing kisses on strangers, who are just trying to get a picture with a walking meme, is completely different than celebrities spotting each other in front of the Eifel Tower and giving each other light kisses on the cheek.
Well, I'm talking about fat, older male relative-in-laws insisting on big sloppy old man kisses because they're like Greek or Italian or some shit. It's very off putting to me. But you just endure it because they're in one of the "social slots" where that works, or everyone just ignores it because they're (sometimes literally) grandfathered in.

But yeah, there's a social side to this, given the context, that Chris isn't in one of the social slots where friendly kisses like that (and it's definitely not 100% friendly with Chris, but I'd argue that it's like 95% friendly) are acceptable.

He's white. He's American. He's weird. He's nerdy. On a bad day, he's not well groomed. Even when he is groomed, he doesn't look great.

I'm not a fan of shaming people, but people should still learn how they come off to people. Chris needs to learn that.

Now, I'm curious if someone tattled on Chris specifically because they were weening. Like if this was planned ahead of time. Chris should still learn a lesson from this, because this is bad behavior regardless of the motivations of the people tattling.

But I do question their motivations, especially if this was CJ.
 
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Well, I'm talking about fat, older male relative-in-laws insisting on big sloppy old man kisses because they're like Greek or Italian or some shit. It's very off putting to me. But you just endure it because they're in one of the "social slots" where that works, or everyone just ignores it because they're (sometimes literally) grandfathered in.

But yeah, there's a social side to this, given the context, that Chris isn't in one of the social slots where friendly kisses like that (and it's definitely not 100% friendly with Chris, but I'd argue that it's like 95% friendly) are acceptable.

He's white. He's American. He's weird. He's nerdy. On a bad day, he's not well groomed. Even when he is groomed, he doesn't look great.

I'm not a fan of shaming people, but people should still learn how they come off to people. Chris needs to learn that.

Now, I'm curious if someone tattled on Chris specifically because they were weening. Like if this was planned ahead of time. Chris should still learn a lesson from this, because this is bad behavior regardless of the motivations of the people tattling.

But I do question their motivations, especially if this was CJ.
That person that tweeted Chris about the terrible experience seemed like they were very unhappy and disgusted, maybe they told.

wow
Yeah, this seems like a real dick move, classic Chris.
1 . Get someone to help you out of kindness and charity.
2. Start believing you can abuse your impotent power.
 
Well, I'm talking about fat, older male relative-in-laws insisting on big sloppy old man kisses because they're like Greek or Italian or some shit. It's very off putting to me. But you just endure it because they're in one of the "social slots" where that works, or everyone just ignores it because they're (sometimes literally) grandfathered in.

But yeah, there's a social side to this, given the context, that Chris isn't in one of the social slots where friendly kisses like that (and it's definitely not 100% friendly with Chris, but I'd argue that it's like 95% friendly) are acceptable.

When Null described it, I immediately pictured Chris calling the person "Daaahling" and giving these ridiculously exaggerated, loud kisses on the cheek. So, yeah, I'd say that comparison is apt. Chris undoubtedly thinks it's fun and flirty territory, but most people are going to be freaked out, especially if they only have a passing knowledge of him as being internet famous. It's like his belief that if he could just explain it right, Doopie would be fine with him dropping terms of endearment onto her Twitter.
 
It's my belief that those of you who put Chris's behaviour here (the touching/kissing) down to his libido are wide of the mark. I don't think Chris has much of a libido. His quest for a boyfriend-free girl was surely more about a raging need for company and acceptance than lust. Note that since his two visits to the delectable Mia Hamm he's had no great need for hanky-panky (that we know of) despite him now knowing how to access the china.
 
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