Educated Stupid
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Given that there was no thread about age and maturity in general, I felt it appropriate to make one about it. (The other thread concerning age is only about sexual matters)
The age of eighteen really seems like an arbitrary constant, at least, to me, in defining when a person becomes an adult and is no longer considered a minor. I don't know why eighteen is considered the magical age in which a person is suddenly expected to be fully mature, and why ages below that are considered immature, because maturity is not suddenly gained upon reaching the age of eighteen. Maturity is a process for people, and some people become mature faster, while some take more time to mature. Therefore, it seems silly, to me, to place a number on something which is unique to everybody. Those who mature faster might be left waiting for years to finally be considered mature by most other people, and those who take longer to mature might find themselves just suddenly thrown into forced maturity, when they have not yet attained it and are still in the process of reaching complete maturity.
The age of eighteen also brings more rights and responsibilities to people, but is it really right to set a sort of limit to when people become mature enough to make an informed decision in elections, when they become mature enough to be part of certain groups of people, or when they become mature enough to drink alcohol? Are all those under the age of eighteen so immature that they cannot themselves think critically about the information they see? Granted, I'm not expecting minors to have Solomon-esque levels of wisdom, but at the same time, I don't find it fair how minors are all thought of as one group of people, a group which is incapable of thinking rationally rather than emotionally, and so a group which are excluded from some things.
Now, here are some selected examples of age limits which I find unfair:
The age of eighteen really seems like an arbitrary constant, at least, to me, in defining when a person becomes an adult and is no longer considered a minor. I don't know why eighteen is considered the magical age in which a person is suddenly expected to be fully mature, and why ages below that are considered immature, because maturity is not suddenly gained upon reaching the age of eighteen. Maturity is a process for people, and some people become mature faster, while some take more time to mature. Therefore, it seems silly, to me, to place a number on something which is unique to everybody. Those who mature faster might be left waiting for years to finally be considered mature by most other people, and those who take longer to mature might find themselves just suddenly thrown into forced maturity, when they have not yet attained it and are still in the process of reaching complete maturity.
The age of eighteen also brings more rights and responsibilities to people, but is it really right to set a sort of limit to when people become mature enough to make an informed decision in elections, when they become mature enough to be part of certain groups of people, or when they become mature enough to drink alcohol? Are all those under the age of eighteen so immature that they cannot themselves think critically about the information they see? Granted, I'm not expecting minors to have Solomon-esque levels of wisdom, but at the same time, I don't find it fair how minors are all thought of as one group of people, a group which is incapable of thinking rationally rather than emotionally, and so a group which are excluded from some things.
Now, here are some selected examples of age limits which I find unfair:
- The voting age limit of 18. While most critics of lowering the voting age to 16 argue that it might lead to uninformed decisions, or decisions driven by parents, couldn't that apply to anyone voting? Couldn't anyone voting be uninformed, even if they were above the age of 18? Couldn't people above the age of 18 be influenced by what other people think?
- The drinking age limit of 21. Why, even though people are considered adults at the age of 18, can they not be trusted to be responsible enough to drink alcohol (which, might I add, mostly only affects themselves) until 3 years after they reach the supposed age of maturity?
- Age limits on political candidacy. While I agree that most people who are below the age limit may not necessarily have the experience or maturity required to have a place in a political office, I believe that age and intelligence are mutually exclusive. Therefore, someone who is below the age limit can still have sufficient political knowledge, and vice versa, someone who is above the age limit could be completely ignorant about politics but still be able to run for President.
- Age of criminal responsibility. I find it condescending that a child who did something wrong cannot be held liable for what they did simply because "they're just kids" or because "they're only young, so they shouldn't be punished." If someone's old enough to do a crime, then I say that they're old enough to do the time, though I'm not going to be unreasonable and say that 10-year-olds should be executed if they commit a horrible crime. They might not understand what they did wrong, but they should be shown what they did wrong, so that they could learn from it. They shouldn't be let off simply because they're younger.
- And, finally, the most important of all - age limits on websites. I admit, I've lied about my age before to get on websites which I wanted to get on, and to this day I still don't understand why there are age limits. It's as if a person below the age of 13 cannot even be taught to not give out their personal information on the Internet, or to not know right from wrong. Children are taught in schools about Internet safety from a young age, so it's almost like they're expected to sit and wait until they reach a magical age at which they can suddenly register on almost any website, and only then use the knowledge they've learnt.
- Kick children out of their homes and trust them to be able to fend for themselves. No, but I'm saying that if they can find a way to be financially stable and be independent, then there should be nothing stopping them.
- Abolish all age limits. Even I can't expect an infant to suddenly be able to name the policies of all the different parties and then make an informed decision as to which one is right. And I definitely do not support children drinking or having sex when they're not even old enough to know their alphabet and times tables.
- Bring child labour back. No, I don't support 12 year olds working, either.
- Let minors do whatever the hell they want. No way. Just because I'm saying that they can be mature enough to know the consequences of their actions, that doesn't necessarily mean that all minors will be like that, and that certainly doesn't mean that I think they should just be allowed to do whatever. Everyone should show restraint, even those above the age of majority.
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