Age of Consent and Age Gaps - someone had to do it

[Beautiful Border]

but i feel your post kind of misses the point, because 98% of the "he's a pedo!!" situations that spark these age of consent arguments are not about marriage, but about casual sex or informal dating. these informal and non-commital arrangements enable a lot of exploitative and manipulative behaviors, and those are what makes the whole thing so bad.
basically what i'm saying is that a 16 year old getting married to a 20 year old would be a lot less problematic than a 16 year old getting pumped and dumped by a 20 year old. the problem isn't the age gap itself, but the type of relationship that is taking place.

We created a culture where having sex before marriage is encouraged and not doing so is seen as weird or prudish, and then we're baffled by the negative emotional fallout all these casual flings and one night stands cause. Chesterton's Fence at work.

 

[Jeff Q. Anime]

Nobody should be allowed to have sex before the age of 35.

 

[Vindeo]

after 18+ its no one elses business.

 

[God of Nothing]

since legal adults are now being accused of being pedophiles for having sex with other legal adults, it's clear the age of consent was a mistake
people should return to being the property of the family patriarch and any sex committed to them or by them seen as illegitimate without express permission and approval, i.e marriage
Unironically, this is the end result of that brain-dead retard ass thinking.

 

[Sexy Senior Citizen]

If you have to ask, she's too young for you.

 

[#FF0000]

The age of consent should be 1000 years old except for me and anyone I have sex with

 

[We Are The Witches]

I dare anyone to suggest a better determiner then this, it's literally flawless

17 gives 15.5 and 21 gives 17.5.

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The point of this (law) is to protect vulnerable people, so to me, besides a hard cap on age, the mental maturity of the person would also be important, but because it's wildly subjective, it would be difficult to be covered by the law.

It is possible that an 18 year old for example is just not mature enough and could be taken advantage of by someone much older than them (don't care if they're male or female).

Much worse where the age of consent is 16, which is wild to me for negative reasons. Don't know about you, but when I was 16 I was practically a kid, that's how I consider myself as back then.

 

[AMHOLIO]

but i feel your post kind of misses the point, because 98% of the "he's a pedo!!" situations that spark these age of consent arguments are not about marriage, but about casual sex or informal dating.

Absolutely. I started with marriage since that was the last debate I read, but an older person taking advantage of a younger one with less independence, power, experience, and chance of recourse is the main deal. Especially if the older person leaves the younger one with some fucked up fetishes or a child.

The reason older people shouldn't fuck younger people is that the younger person isn't at the same life stage and can't always access help and act independent. A good portion of the older crowd going after young people are the ones who need someone young to control or not recognize their many red flags, thus taking advantage of them and or going through younger people like tissues. We have several cows who date like that.

The good news is that there are age gap relationships that work out because the two both have enough independence and emotional maturity that they can date or even meet n' fuck without problems, but there's too many that aren't or go for creepy under age range.

Go kys for making this thread

Honestly you're not wrong. It's the right thing to say.

did you tho? did you really?

This way the mods can dump terrible conversations into one thread if they don't feel like deleting them or that a new debate thread is worth it.

Nobody should be allowed to have sex before the age of 35.

My boy Jeff trying to breed a new race of autistic ubermech.

 

[Brenda Holiday]

For the age of consent, when people bring up why is 18 the magic number (I know it varies), I didn't have a good answer but thought about it and came up with that 16 years old is basically living adult in tutorial mode. At 16 you're getting your first job, you're driving for the first time, you're experiencing life with less parental supervision, but you still need the safety net of being a minor. So it being illegal for a grown adult to have sex with you while you're in adult tutorial mode is just another safety net. I also find that the people that bitch about 18 being dumb and nonsensical as the age of consent would always bitch until it's lowered to their specific pedophile age of choice.
If it were 16, they'd want 14
If it were 14, they'd want 12 and so on
The legal age is 18 and you have to draw that line hard. That's why yes, it does matter if they were 17 years, 11 months, 364 days 59 minutes and 59 seconds old. Anyone that cries about it is a pedophile.
I will also absolutely judge you if you are 40+ and exclusively date below 25s. I've seen people defending Anthony Kiedis, a literal pedophile who has dated 15 year olds.

 

[AMHOLIO]

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It is, I hope it can help br a containment thread for off topic sperging and a wall of shame for the crazy fucks who sperg about it in cow threads. It's not like people aren't retarded enough to fall for it.

That's why yes, it does matter if they were 17 years, 11 months, 364 days 59 minutes and 59 seconds old. Anyone that cries about it is a pedophile.

Good reasoning, well put. There are way too many 18 and older people you can fuck, go find one or face the wall.

I will also absolutely judge you if you are 40+ and exclusively date below 25s.

The cow Poppy Diabolique/TransgirlTheRAPEist in atinkditch is like that, and he's a cluster B nightmare who deserves to be judged. And shamed. And bullied. And throw into a pit as a sacrifice.

 

[kosmikulduzbok]

It is, I hope it can help br a containment thread for off topic sperging and a wall of shame for the crazy fucks who sperg about it in cow threads. It's not like people aren't retarded enough to fall for it.


Good reasoning, well put. There are way too many 18 and older people you can fuck, go find one or face the wall.


The cow Poppy Diabolique/TransgirlTheRAPEist in atinkditch is like that, and he's a cluster B nightmare who deserves to be judged. And shamed. And bullied. And throw into a pit as a sacrifice.

Your intentions noble as they maybe, spurgs gonna spurg.

 

[AMHOLIO]

Your intentions noble as they maybe, spurgs gonna spurg.

When you dive on the grenade, you still get blown up. It was a known risk.

 

[kosmikulduzbok]

When you dive on the grenade, you still get blown up. It was a known risk.

I will leave a grand memorial in your wake.

 

[Agent Abe Caprine]

The age of consent should be 69.

 

[Osama Bin Laden]

i’m glad i can visit mass debates every once and a while and there’s always a thread discussing about age of consent

 

[isalaide]

 

[Chuck McGill]

The issue with changing your criteria for meaningful sexual consent from "are you married?" to "how old are you?" is that creates a unique pocket of circumstances from puberty to the age of 18. You want to fuck more than you ever have, and the only people you can legally fuck are just as clueless and idiotic as you are, and are almost always unable to offer any level of commitment. To make matters worse their boomer parents and their Jewish media are actively discouraging the few that buck the trend and do pair off.

"Don't get tied down, that's for old fuddy duddies! You gotta sow your heckin wild oaterinos! You'll have plenty of time to find the right one later!"

If your first years of sexual maturity occur in this environment of commitment-free and consequense-free sex, it's going to skew your perspective going forward. It's like if we played a game of Monopoly, then midway through I yanked up the board and began setting up Risk in its place.

I don't really have a good answer for this. I think it's strange that we forbid adult-on-underage relations(rightfully), yet we seem to believe underage-on-underage relations are just a natural part of development. The simple fact is for the vast majority of human history, that just wasn't the way it worked in a functional society. You got married before sex, or you faced social ostrasization, simple as that. It didn't matter if you were both 15 and in true wuv, that doesn't make it any better. And you certainly were not placed in a co-ed school giving you plenty of opportunities to fuck up along the way. If you went to school at all, you were gender-segregated.

 

[3X0D14]

I have an actual sewious and complicated answer to this. This is my personal belief (I consider life stages as well)

18 limit is 20
21 limit around 23 - 24
25 limit is 29ish
both 30+ I stop caring

This is based off of personal experiences. This puts into things like life stages including college, frontal lobe development, all that. 18 - 20 you're either still teenagers, or one is freshly exiting teenager era so your maturity levels will be a bit more closer and the gap of completing milestones won't be as severe. Between the ages of 21 and 24 you're both still dealing with college and being a dumb party person figuring things out. You're further into the "adult stages" or should at least be considering adult things/fucking it up. 25 is when your frontal lobe fully develops and you're typically done with college, thinking about more serious things and wanting a bit more security and stability or have those things in mind.
Basically everyone around those grouped ages have more similarities so it won't be too much of a "generation gap" when together. When I was 21, there was a 19 year old classmate who had feelings for me. It was very off-putting and gross. Even with 2 years apart the maturity gaps were too big (even though I was immature in many ways myself). I have also met some seriously retarded 27 year olds, but they were different from <25 year olds.

 

[AgendaPoster]

18 - 20 you're either still teenagers, or one is freshly exiting teenager era so your maturity levels will be a bit more closer and the gap of completing milestones won't be as severe. Between the ages of 21 and 24 you're both still dealing with college and being a dumb party person figuring things out.

Or dying in a war in some shithole and leaving your wife and 2 kids alone.

 

[3X0D14]

Or dying in a war in some shithole and leaving your wife and 2 kids alone.

I've never met someone here who wifed up the mother of his children at those ages lol. Usually they're just baby mommas.