Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

This was the photo in question (from an Instagram grid post):

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My main takeaway from it, at the time it was posted, was that Ari looks miserable and ready for a nap (not a photo op). And my favorite thing about the video about the cops coming is that she never says that she was wearing pants, so I guess we can all assume that she really was nekkid from the waist down.

Current comments on the crying vid post:

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The Redditors have been yelling about her "indecent exposure" for a long time now, so I'm not surprised that one of them finally decided to dive headfirst into the poo and make a phone call.
 
The worst part about this is that the Redditards aren't really wrong.
If she was cognitively impaired, her caregivers would be ragged and maybe arrested for taking her out into the street naked from the waist down whether you can see snatch or not. The fact that she isn't cognitively impaired at all means SHE is responsible for her indecent exposure and it's gross as well as dangerous. If someone decided to rape her, she couldn't possibly stop them and maybe even couldn't yell loud enough to get help.
 
The worst part about this is that the Redditards aren't really wrong.
If she was cognitively impaired, her caregivers would be ragged and maybe arrested for taking her out into the street naked from the waist down whether you can see snatch or not. The fact that she isn't cognitively impaired at all means SHE is responsible for her indecent exposure and it's gross as well as dangerous. If someone decided to rape her, she couldn't possibly stop them and maybe even couldn't yell loud enough to get help.
I don't know why you brought rape into this. Indecent exposure is about the public not having to deal with naked people, not to protect women from being raped because they are naked.
 
She's also a budding drunk.
I'm putting my chips on this as her cause of death; not alcoholism, but drinking too much, passing out upright in her chair, head back, drowning in her own spit/vomit. Theoretically she always has someone (Noah) there to help her not die from alcohol's muscle relaxing effects on her already extremely limp body, but what if he passes out too? Or steps out to take a call from one of his hos?

I keep thinking of him turning on the Live when Alex was screeching at his mom, cry for help much?
I know it's completely his own fault for impregnating Alex but it's a hellish fate to have sealed.
It's also so passive-aggressive it turns my stomach. He is clearly sick of their bickering, but instead of growing a pair to put in those grey shorts and saying "Hey, this isn't productive and it's stressing me out. Is it possible to table this for a while?" He turns on TikTok and looks dejected.

Or she could put some fucking clothes on, even.

Or a goddamn blanket on her lap! I can imagine maybe underwear are a nightmare to get on and off of her, but a towel on the top too would cover a lot of sins. Or put her in a maxi dress. Idk, but yeah she seriously is getting uppity because she's not special enough to roll around Pooh-bear style. I thought disabled types didn't want special treatment?
 
Alex uses her disability as an excuse to do whatever she wants, whenever and however she wants to do it, full stop. If someone tries to tell her NO, god forbid, she screeches ableism. She doesn't have to be an advocate if she doesn't want to be, but she's a terrible pseudo-advocate.

I don't doubt that getting pants on and off is difficult, but a real carer would be able to help, and she mostly like being pantsless because it brings her yet more attention. She dressed normally in the early days of her account; the no-pants thing only emerged when she decided that she was going to be a professional hoochie mama.

In the meantime, people should stop hate crime-ing her:

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And she can wear knee high socks, but not pants:

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Other random stuff I have saved up is under spoiler. All from stories.

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She supplied a link to the godawful outfit:

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She said the Carter's outfit was from Grandma Smith:

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This account is a homeschooling mom of 2 who presents a polished and perfect image:

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I don't know why you brought rape into this. Indecent exposure is about the public not having to deal with naked people, not to protect women from being raped because they are naked.
I was kinda trying to think of a way that it would affect her and not just other people. She obviously doesn't care about other people but surely she would care about putting herself into dangerous situations because of her habits.
I should have used the word assault instead of rape though. I was thinking of the times she would be out on the town at night, drunk, in Florida, and wearing a little sundress with probably no underwear.
If she flashed a drunken weirdo a few times, and then had a spat with Noah and wheeled off in a huff for a few minutes...
I guess I would be a lot more paranoid about safety if I was that vulnerable.
 
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I don't get how it's ableist to point out that mental illness and physical disability/chronic illness is a risk factor for child abuse. No one said "all disabled people abuse their children" - just that a parent being limited in those ways makes it harder to care for a child.

I really hate this current thing of when people speak to actual hard facts it makes them phobic or ist or whatever. A risk factor is exactly that. And I'm guessing that this training or whatever is being cited probably noted this in the context of those parents needing more support - which is also true. Is it ableist to say addict parents have a higher risk factor for child abuse since addiction is a DISEASE (sarcasm)?

Such a weird tightrope walk. It's ableist to ask her to put on pants because she's disabled and it's hard, ok, but it's also ableist to note that disabled parents might have trouble with doing things for their kid. Like. How are both of those things true?
 

Goddamn ableists should have arrested her for public indecency like they would an able-bodied person, Alex is all for equality and justice

In the meantime, people should stop hate crime-ing her:

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and I hope the motherfuckers doing this can be caught

Why do these people always think doing something they don't like is a crime? Alex can flash her stink hole to everyone in town, but reporting the actual crime of doing so should get you locked up. Fucking lunacy.

She said the Carter's outfit was from Grandma Smith:

It looks practical so no surprise there

So... it's ableism to not want to be exposed to this idiot's naked cooch?
Got it.

I am a loud and proud ableist if that's the case
 
While I'm complaining, another thing I hate about Alex's whole schtick is that, when she's screeching ableism, she never considers that anyone following her might also be disabled. She's an idiot with main character syndrome who thinks that her way of seeing things is the only correct way. Plenty of people with disabilities, including those that make it difficult to get dressed, manage just fine without publicly airing out their vaginas on the regular.

She did a long Instagram story, in which she takes no responsibility, says she has no idea how people knew their address (bruh), and says she wants to focus on longer-form cinematic content-- and then follows up her statements about her dreams of being a director by saying her camera doesn't work, should she take it to Best Buy?

World-class acting when she pretends that she thinks a car in the road is stalking her, though.

I'll put all that under a series of spoilers so this post won't be 10 miles long.
















She concludes with a video of Noah feeding her Ritz Crackers and cream cheese and almost chokes. Unfortunately for Ari and the Smiths, she doesn't. Maybe next time.

 
Jesus. She can't even open her mouth to eat the Ritz with cheese- he had to shove it in there like a coin slot. Sorry to go back round to this, but how does she even give bjs if she can't open her mouth more than 1 inch? Although, I guess with Noah that'd prob be wide enough. ha ha small penis jokes are funny

Also LOL at her thinking she invented crackers and soft cheese as a snack.

ETA; @often puzzled do you think she's become more of a hoochie mama authentically or has she just leaned into it as she's become less able bodied? It sure seems like shes less able than when she first rolled into the scene. I didn't follow her, but Instagram has been showing me her content since before she got knocked up and even the way she holds herself is collapsing. Her posture is worse than ever and her spine is so curved. Can she even get underwear up under that protrusion SMA belly? She looks so folded up these days.
 
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I dont think it has made it through her dense head that these are not "false reports" to child services. If anyone is the slightest bit concerned, you can have a report made. It is not illegal to do so. She may not think the reports are worth being made, but there is no law being broken.

That being said, I do wish the poo touchers would stop. While I personaly don't agree with everything going on with Ari, and there have been a few questionable posts involving her, I don't think shes in immediate danger.

She reminds me so much of Patrick Tomlinson. Alex believes all the reports are from one obsessed stalker. Patrick thinks all of his problems come from one individual named Robert Prongay.

Alex and Patrick both can't accept that this is a perfectly normal reaction of normal people on the internet consuming their content. (in Patrick's situation, by "this" I mean people online telling him he's wrong and he should stop engaging, not the swattings). Alex thinks there couldn't possibly be more than one person reporting her, because it's basically a miracle from hell that there was even one person deranged and distorted enough to report her. Having more than one person react negatively toward her would be impossible.

I don't think these are poo touchers, I think they're just normal instagram users and this is extremely unusual.
 
I think it's mostly redditors, they talk about it beforehand in posts and then do it.

I'm inclined to agree. They're always talking about how she should be cited for public indecency, and someone said it specifically in regards to that post-- then, lo and behold, someone actually calls. They also talk constantly about how CPS should be called and how the baby should be removed from the home.

With as poo-touchy as Reddit is, and with how religiously Alex reads there (and responds to it), it's hard to leave Reddit out of Alex's thread. It's an essential part of the whole train wreck scene, at this point. I'm not actually sure Alex even knows she has a thread here; she's never mentioned it. I have a feeling that she doesn't really use the Internet outside of social media apps and the Reddit app.

ETA; @often puzzled do you think she's become more of a hoochie mama authentically or has she just leaned into it as she's become less able bodied? It sure seems like shes less able than when she first rolled into the scene. I didn't follow her, but Instagram has been showing me her content since before she got knocked up and even the way she holds herself is collapsing. Her posture is worse than ever and her spine is so curved. Can she even get underwear up under that protrusion SMA belly? She looks so folded up these days.

She's always been sleazy. On her Instagram, she talks about how she shoplifted as a teenager, basically because she knew no one would stop the disabled girl. By college, she was drinking and had SEX written on a wheelchair foot plate. She clearly likes the party lifestyle and can't understand why being a mother is incompatible with that (and gets mad when people tell her that it is). So I don't think that it's a new aspect of her personality (such as it is).

She used to dress nicely, though, or certainly much better than she does now. I think that a significant part of it is her recent lack of qualified caretakers. Nina came from Craigslist or similar, and Noah is a disaster as a caretaker. Back when Mikey was her caretaker, she looked immaculate and even had good hair.

Then another part of the problem is that she neglects her health, PT, and literally everything she should be doing that might improve her physical being. She's stuck in that teenage phase where ignoring your doctor is the cool thing to do. She won't wear her chest strap (which has been broken for ages), and she won't use her footplates-- that's one reason the foot drop has gotten so bad. All she seems to do is take the twerk juice, when she really needs PT and speech/swallowing therapy, at the very least. And sunscreen. Sunscreen would really help.

As you say, though, it's pretty amazing to see how quickly her condition has deteriorated. It's just . . . everything about her has gotten so much worse, so quickly. SMA belly is worse, she's squashing down more-- and maybe those things wouldn't be as evident if she'd get the wheelchair refitted, which she's needed to do for ages now. I doubt an ill-fitting chair is helping. The foot drop, the receding hairline, the destroyed skin-- it's a lot.

She's been wearing the same tank top (rolled up so that it looks like a crop) for 3-4 days now, and she's probably still sitting on the same tuna towel. This sort of behavior apparently isn't a new thing; she thinks it's hilarious that her college nickname was "Dirty Al," because she was famously so nasty. So, yeah.

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Postscript: One more random thing I keep forgetting to tack on: Noah has two other siblings who still live at home. They're either still in college or have recently graduated; they both have fairly locked-down social media, and I've never tried to dig too deeply into them. Can you imagine? Your older two siblings have finally grown up and flown the nest, and now you have the house and mom and dad to yourselves. Except . . . no, your fuckup brother is moving back home, and he's bringing his nasty baby mama and their daughter with him. Brother is now sleeping on the couch (yes, according to both Alex and Noah, he sleeps on a couch), and baby mama fights with your mama-- when she's not screeching into her phone at all hours of the day and night. And now social services keep coming to the door. And also the cops. Oof.
 
She clearly likes the party lifestyle and can't understand why being a mother is incompatible with that (and gets mad when people tell her that it is).
What does she even do at clubs? I am not even being a dick here - genuinely what does she do? Other people dance and mingle, but I can't imagine it's easy for her to communicate over the loud music and what's dancing for her? Scooting back and forth in her chair while nodding her head a bit? Is it just the booze and the "clubwear"?

Its not that I like clubbing, I don't at all, but I guess I get why some people like it. For her I truly don't.

Unless it's just the booze.

Also @often puzzled I thought Alex acknowledged the Farms a while back? Or am I amalgamating cows now?
 
It's also so passive-aggressive it turns my stomach. He is clearly sick of their bickering, but instead of growing a pair to put in those grey shorts and saying "Hey, this isn't productive and it's stressing me out. Is it possible to table this for a while?" He turns on TikTok and looks dejected.
Welcome to the wonderful world of dealing with narcissists. Narcs don't stop. It makes no difference how commanding you are, or how nice, or respectful, or diffident, if a narc wants to screech, she's going to fucking screech. You can try appealing to reason, or you can threaten to dump their lifeless body in the middle of the fucking Simpson. You can try negotiating, you can try begging. You can even try flattery and handing over whatever it is that they're demanding this time. It will never, ever be enough.

Welcome to narc country.
 
Welcome to the wonderful world of dealing with narcissists. Narcs don't stop. It makes no difference how commanding you are, or how nice, or respectful, or diffident, if a narc wants to screech, she's going to fucking screech. You can try appealing to reason, or you can threaten to dump their lifeless body in the middle of the fucking Simpson. You can try negotiating, you can try begging. You can even try flattery and handing over whatever it is that they're demanding this time. It will never, ever be enough.

Welcome to narc country.

I'm inclined to agree: Noah isn't the only one in this story with a personality disorder. Alex never talks about her mentals unless she's fishing for sympathy, so I don't know what diagnoses she has (if any-- officially, that is).

What does she even do at clubs? I am not even being a dick here - genuinely what does she do? Other people dance and mingle, but I can't imagine it's easy for her to communicate over the loud music and what's dancing for her? Scooting back and forth in her chair while nodding her head a bit? Is it just the booze and the "clubwear"?

Its not that I like clubbing, I don't at all, but I guess I get why some people like it. For her I truly don't.

Unless it's just the booze.

Also @often puzzled I thought Alex acknowledged the Farms a while back? Or am I amalgamating cows now?

It's the booze and feeling like one of the cool kids. She can get lots of attention there-- but it's mostly the booze. Her mom is an alcoholic, and I'm not clear if her dad is too. Regardless, she shows signs of having the same issues.

I don't remember her acknowledging us, but that definitely doesn't mean she didn't-- I very well could have missed it or forgotten. We've been mentioned in passing on Reddit, but the mods are quick to delete references to this site.

All Alex has posted today is a tame (for her) video of her feeding Ari. She's even got something-- maybe a skirt?-- on her lower half. Her body is so painfully contorted, and no one is repositioning her as they should be. That's on her, though: no one can do what they don't know they should be doing, and she doesn't keep up with medical care.

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Go Ari! Just started crawling and has already decided that she needs to try to walk, too.

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Cute little face of a soon-to-be troublemaker.

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