Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[CaseyTatumm]

I saw on Reddit that Alex was apparently hinting around to lactating on OF, anyone suspect she’s probably trying to encourage lactation? Watch this stupid bitch go into early labor milking herself bc it can cause contractions and jumpstart labor,

 

[Jane Eyre]

Alex is celebrating that she's 30 weeks pregnant and she mentions again that a film team reached out to her and that they want to film her delivery and afterwards post it possibly to a very large platform.

Spoiler: IG post text

Today is a big one, we are 30 weeks pregnant I had no idea the road ahead of me when I decided to embark on this pregnancy that I knew was going to be extremely tough on my body. I had no idea how long I was going to be able to carry her or what medical complications were in my future. Today I am 30 weeks pregnant and I am defying a lot of what doctors have told me in the beginning of this pregnancy.

it’s a miracle that I have made it this far without seemingly any serious complications and for that I am beyond grateful I am even more humbled that I am able to share this journey with you and for everyone that has been incredibly supportive since day one! My little girl is going to be here in a few short weeks and motherhood is definitely one of the biggest adventures I am going to experience in my life and I wouldn’t want to have it any other way.

There is a huge lack of literature on pregnancy and patients with SMA type two and I am very excited to have been asked by multiple teams to add my case in medical journals that are going to make medical history and educate future doctors and medical staff as well as patients.

Life certainly seems to have a plan for us and I am so grateful that my journey and pregnancy is going to help other people

i’m not sure how much I could say just yet but I was reached out to by a film team and they are going to be following my delivery and it is potentially going to be on a very large platform, which is nerve-racking and exciting all at the same time!

five more weeks, and my baby girl will be in my arms

They put together a dresser for the baby's clothes.

On Tiktok she posted a video showing a lot of pics of herself as a baby and child.

 

[GainsGoblin]

Alex is celebrating that she's 30 weeks pregnant and she mentions again that a film team reached out to her and that they want to film her delivery and afterwards post it possibly to a very large platform.
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Spoiler: IG post text

Today is a big one, we are 30 weeks pregnant I had no idea the road ahead of me when I decided to embark on this pregnancy that I knew was going to be extremely tough on my body. I had no idea how long I was going to be able to carry her or what medical complications were in my future. Today I am 30 weeks pregnant and I am defying a lot of what doctors have told me in the beginning of this pregnancy.

it’s a miracle that I have made it this far without seemingly any serious complications and for that I am beyond grateful I am even more humbled that I am able to share this journey with you and for everyone that has been incredibly supportive since day one! My little girl is going to be here in a few short weeks and motherhood is definitely one of the biggest adventures I am going to experience in my life and I wouldn’t want to have it any other way.

There is a huge lack of literature on pregnancy and patients with SMA type two and I am very excited to have been asked by multiple teams to add my case in medical journals that are going to make medical history and educate future doctors and medical staff as well as patients.

Life certainly seems to have a plan for us and I am so grateful that my journey and pregnancy is going to help other people

i’m not sure how much I could say just yet but I was reached out to by a film team and they are going to be following my delivery and it is potentially going to be on a very large platform, which is nerve-racking and exciting all at the same time!

five more weeks, and my baby girl will be in my arms

They put together a dresser for the baby's clothes.
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On Tiktok she posted a video showing a lot of pics of herself as a baby and child.
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She was a cute kid

 

[LonesomeDud]

She was a cute kid

I find her to be pretty consistently ugly, but maybe it's just her obvious glee at pulling a child out of the womb at 35 weeks. Maybe it's just her bonedeep selfishness I find hideous.

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

Alex has given a couple of updates to her Instagram stories.
Firstly, telling us that she has to urinate constantly. She also stated she is tired, fatigued and uncomfortable.

Alex also shared that it's difficult for her to eat a big portion of food as the baby is pressing on her stomach.
Yet an hour later, she posted another story about how she had been stuffing herself the night before, unable to stop as it was so delicious, resulting in her feeling sick for hours.

We also learn from these stories that Alex's mother has been cooking for her:
"my mom has been making me all this delicious food".
Note the self centric language here - me not us.
Is Noah fending for himself while Alex is having healthy meals cooked daily by her mother?

There were also a couple of videos of octopus (octopii?) swimming, which was nice and restful, but had no reason or text, and a preview of a Taylor Swift themed bar/restaurant/whatever I'm too old to care. It's all heartbreak themed.
FORESHADOWING?

EDIT: WHO THE HECK DISPLAYS THIS BOOK IN THEIR BABY'S NURSERY??
Since it's on a shelf, clearly BPD man himself. Jumping Jeezus this is even more horrifying than I feared.

 

[TheCakeIsALie]

No duh pregnancy is uncomfortable.

Do you think she’s secretly pissed her baby won’t be born with SMA because that won’t give her enough attention?

 

[LonesomeDud]

No duh pregnancy is uncomfortable.

Do you think she’s secretly pissed her baby won’t be born with SMA because that won’t give her enough attention?

Either that, or she realizes her daughter will be disinterested in her the moment she can crawl and won't look her way again until she has the maturity to be ashamed of her selfishness. That's a lot for a little girl to shoulder. It would be hard to know you put all of that on a little girl, thinking she's a bad daughter for not loving a mother who can't even mother her.

However, I'm a glass half full guy. Being the child of a drug abusing BPD idiot is common enough. I suspect there are a couple of good Kiwis with parents equally rotten as or worse than Alex. It isn't this kid's destiny to grow up into a piece of trash, and every day she's in there is another day she gets to grow and be an optimal version of herself. She could grow up and be inspired by her own birth story she could invent equipment that makes it easier to intubate people. ( ) It's not likely, but we wouldn't have thought it was necessarily possible for Alex to carry a baby this long without major complications.

Is Alex going to be narc'ing it up in sixteen years in her daughter's prom picture with her date awkwardly holding a giant novelty margarita glass while Alex drinks from it with a crazy straw looking like a gremlin dressed like a girl from a rap video? God willing, fellow Kiwis.

We've made it this far. I don't think anyone should get attached to Noah and doubt we'll all even remember his name next year, and once Alex discovers the baby doesn't care about her Faberge egg of a "disabled influencer's" ego, she'll lose interest in the baby. You know what a pain in the neck a toddler would be if you didn't have hands or arms to stop them? I would love to join a Patreon just to see what happens when Alex's caregiver goes to the bathroom and Alex tells her feisty two year old, "Don't you dare dump me out of this wheelchair."

 

[Oracular Slug]

octopus (octopii?)

Off topic but “octopuses” is the proper plural. Or “octopodes” if you’re feeling fancy (the s sounds like a z). “Octopi” assumes the -us is latin and thus pluralized to -ī, but it’s not so it isn’t.

Or avoid all that and reframe the sentence so the singular “octopus” works grammatically.

 

[Jane Eyre]

Alex had again a Q&A on Insta stories. I'm bringing the majority of the questions.

She starts off by talking about her new routine of taking a nap from 4 to 7 PM and that on Tuesday she has an appointment with her OB that will be filmed for an exciting project.


Alex will share the baby's name once she's awake after the delivery and the girl's name is not Aurora like someone on reddit thought it was.


There were some medically related questions - how is Alex managing to get through the blood thinning shots? Why is her potassium low? How does she like Levothoroxine for her hypothyroidism? How is she keeping safe from covid? Why can't she she just have an epidural for the delivery and can she swallow pills?


I really doubt Alex will be able to hold the baby but I guess time will tell.


Alex repeats that she doesn't want to be pregnant again and during the c-section they'll put in an IUD.


Alex is nervous to go through the delivery, but she's also looking forward to getting her strength back and starting the twerk juice again. She also talks about how she and Noah will divide the work load once the baby is worn.


Lastly Alex shares what traits she hopes the baby will get from her and Noah, how everything is uncomfortable now, what her dream job would be and how Noah is doing.

 

[LonesomeDud]

"During the day, I will direct my caretaker to care for the baby and home, and then once she leaves, Noah will take care of the baby and me!"

Can't see a single problem in sight. You've known this guy almost 9 months and the caretaker around 5.

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

Who is she trying to convince here that she will be cleaning, cooking and taking care of the baby's morning routine?
Say it Alex, it will be the CARETAKER, not you.

 

[CaseyTatumm]

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Who is she trying to convince here that she will be cleaning, cooking and taking care of the baby's morning routine?
Say it Alex, it will be the CARETAKER, not you.

It’s cute she is pretending that she cooks and cleans, she can’t even use her hands. The fuck.

I wonder if she’s had any afterthought about what the recovery for her C-section will be like? It can be rough for even an able bodied woman.

 

[glass_houses]

It’s cute she is pretending that she cooks and cleans, she can’t even use her hands. The fuck.

I wonder if she’s had any afterthought about what the recovery for her C-section will be like? It can be rough for even an able bodied woman.

Why should she care? It's not like she's going to have to actually work whilst her wound is healing like most mothers. At most she's going to try to squeeze out a few millilitres of breast milk. She's going to spend the entire healing process on her arse, watching other people put in the hard yakka with the bub and trying to earn a living at the same time.

 

[CaseyTatumm]

Why should she care? It's not like she's going to have to actually work whilst her wound is healing like most mothers. At most she's going to try to squeeze out a few millilitres of breast milk. She's going to spend the entire healing process on her arse, watching other people put in the hard yakka with the bub and trying to earn a living at the same time.

Of course the few mls of milk will be uploaded to her onlyfans

 

[Barbarella]

She is delusional in thinking that there can be any kind of routine with a newborn. It takes months to start establishing a routine. They don’t have a day/night schedule, they get hungry, sometimes every 20 minutes, sometimes every hour all day and you have to be available. Especially if breastfeeding, which she won’t be able to do for long as even if she can hold the baby (X) it won’t be for hours. Diaper changes 10x a day, messy runny shit that has to be wiped. Sometimes they’ll only sleep being held, or they have to be bounced to bed, or driven around. Moms all remember going a day or two with not enough time to even brush teeth or shower.

This is the time when she needs to pony up for a professional nanny. Her caregivers all seem to be some friend or friend-of-friend who don’t really have experience. She is going to be overwhelmed and they will too. Caring for a newborn is a hard job for everybody, and if this child ends up with problems, that’s multiplied.

And I can’t really blame her, none of us really understood exactly how hard it would be first time around but if she has people telling her this and is ignoring them, that’s just stupid. And not good “planning.”

Is her mother an alcoholic? I hope for the baby’s sake she’s not.

 

[Gaia Soraka]

Saw her on TikTok a few weeks after she announced the pregnancy, sent the video to a friend questioning this woman's future parenting skills and they said I'm encouraging eugenics.
The thing is, as many of you have pointed out, it's not eugenics to point out that some people just should not have kids.

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EDIT: WHO THE HECK DISPLAYS THIS BOOK IN THEIR BABY'S NURSERY??
Since it's on a shelf, clearly BPD man himself. Jumping Jeezus this is even more horrifying than I feared.

Alex being a severely disabled alcoholic is one thing, Noah being an addict and borderline is another. They both should not breed, even if their partner was a stable, sane individual. I think Noah being bordeline has been overlooked in favour of the more.... obvious problems with their situation.

Spoiler: Sperg: BPD info

A lot of people call BPD the "crazy bitch disorder", since 75% of people diagnosed with BPD are women and the BPD loved ones subreddit is full of these scenarios. Important to note that men are just as likely to have BPD as women are, it's just less diagnosed in men.

It is, despite the jokes and stigma, a serious and sometimes chronic mental illness. Personality disorders can be helped through therapy, but a lot of the time people with BPD won't do therapy or will change therapists too often due to splitting for it to be effective. Let alone trying to find a therapist that will want to treat you, since the diagnosis alone makes caregivers avoid you like the plague.

Some symptoms and statistics:

• Plunging headfirst into relationships (pregnant after a short time?)
• A pattern of intense and unstable relationships with family, friends, and loved ones. (the assault charge on his own father, his mother calling the cops on her own son indicates she felt sufficiently threatened by this)
• A distorted and unstable self-image or sense of self. (speculation, but a lot of you have suggested he might be a closeted gay because of his OF, it might be his distorted sense of self.)
• Impulsive and often dangerous behaviors, such as spending sprees, unsafe sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, and binge eating.
• Intense and highly variable moods, with episodes lasting from a few hours to a few days.
• Inappropriate, intense anger or problems controlling anger. (again, the assault on his dad. also: shaken baby syndrome is a very sad but very real possibility in someone with anger issues and lack of impulse control )
• Feelings of dissociation, such as feeling cut off from oneself, observing oneself from outside one’s body, or feelings of unreality. (awful if you're the sole caretaker of a newborn child)

Why is this relevant?

Not only would BPD be the underlying cause for Noah being an unfit parent (substance abuse, fits of rage like the assault on his father, general emotional instability), but BPD isn't all just nurture or a trauma response. As mentionned in the OP, if you have a direct family member with BPD, you're up to 5x more likely to develop BPD in the future. Alex's disability might not be inheritable by her child, but chances are high that this kid will inherit BPD from dear old dad.

Very sad that this unborn child was dealt quite possibly one of the worst hands in life, and we're watching it all unfold in real time. It makes me so powerlessly MATI.

 

[CaseyTatumm]

She is delusional in thinking that there can be any kind of routine with a newborn. It takes months to start establishing a routine. They don’t have a day/night schedule, they get hungry, sometimes every 20 minutes, sometimes every hour all day and you have to be available. Especially if breastfeeding, which she won’t be able to do for long as even if she can hold the baby (X) it won’t be for hours. Diaper changes 10x a day, messy runny shit that has to be wiped. Sometimes they’ll only sleep being held, or they have to be bounced to bed, or driven around. Moms all remember going a day or two with not enough time to even brush teeth or shower.

This is the time when she needs to pony up for a professional nanny. Her caregivers all seem to be some friend or friend-of-friend who don’t really have experience. She is going to be overwhelmed and they will too. Caring for a newborn is a hard job for everybody, and if this child ends up with problems, that’s multiplied.

And I can’t really blame her, none of us really understood exactly how hard it would be first time around but if she has people telling her this and is ignoring them, that’s just stupid. And not good “planning.”

Is her mother an alcoholic? I hope for the baby’s sake she’s not.

A pro nanny is really the best option for her. Expecting a caregiver to do all of that is A LOT.

I don’t see breastfeeding going well for Alex and I can see that adding to any postpartum depression she probably will have. It’s not at all easy at first, babies don’t always take to it at first, they’re also picky how they prefer to be held, idk if she thinks she can just lay on her side like a dog and nurse? I mean it works sometimes but it’s hard to do for a newborn. She’s going to need someone to hold the baby to her so she can nurse.

I also thinking expecting Noah to do night shifts is a really bad idea. He’s not a stable individual and a violent drug addict. Nighttime with a newborn is absolutely the worst, what if it’s a colicky baby? How is he going to handle being sleep deprived with a screaming baby?

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

A pro nanny is really the best option for her. Expecting a caregiver to do all of that is A LOT.

I don’t see breastfeeding going well for Alex and I can see that adding to any postpartum depression she probably will have. It’s not at all easy at first, babies don’t always take to it at first, they’re also picky how they prefer to be held, idk if she thinks she can just lay on her side like a dog and nurse? I mean it works sometimes but it’s hard to do for a newborn. She’s going to need someone to hold the baby to her so she can nurse.

I also thinking expecting Noah to do night shifts is a really bad idea. He’s not a stable individual and a violent drug addict. Nighttime with a newborn is absolutely the worst, what if it’s a colicky baby? How is he going to handle being sleep deprived with a screaming baby?

And by the sound of one of those posts, Noah is "struggling," and absorbed in his"mental and physical health.".

AKA, Noah is using or freaking out...or he got scared or scary and is taking a break elsewhere.

This is going to go great.

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

Alex has added another few stories, intended to make us see just how much she loves her man guise!
Look how secure in their relationship they are, only secure people show off their relationships right?

Also, when did she get a dog? That's not going to be an extra burden at all for her caregiver, with a severely disabled adult and a newborn to look after...

Edit: cropped photo

 

[Chizubaga]

Her

Like I said in the OP no way was the timing a coincidence. Alex was broody but I reckon seeing Chelsie Hill getting all that sweet sweet attention as a disabled mom to be pushed her to couple up with the first man who'd take her and rustled up a whoops baby ASAP.
She was trying to speedrun Chelsie's life only Chelsie actually built a business empire on her own merits not just "look at me am disabled aren't I purty".

This Mikey, I presume is the pink-haired camp chap who appears in the lives where Alex defends the rapist.
He fits the profile of a gay hairdresser who was on the scene before Noah appeared and was never seen again.

Edit: yes he is and he's posting on reddit and he's mad and has receipts.
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Mikey we are here if you wanna sp

Either that, or she realizes her daughter will be disinterested in her the moment she can crawl and won't look her way again until she has the maturity to be ashamed of her selfishness. That's a lot for a little girl to shoulder. It would be hard to know you put all of that on a little girl, thinking she's a bad daughter for not loving a mother who can't even mother her.

However, I'm a glass half full guy. Being the child of a drug abusing BPD idiot is common enough. I suspect there are a couple of good Kiwis with parents equally rotten as or worse than Alex. It isn't this kid's destiny to grow



Is Alex going to be narc'ing it up in sixteen years in her daughter's prom picture with her date awkwardly holding a giant novelty margarita glass while Alex drinks from it with a crazy straw looking like a gremlin dressed like a girl from a rap video? God willing, fellow Kiwis.

"During the day, I will direct my caretaker to care for the baby and home, and then once she leaves, Noah will take care of the baby and me!"

Can't see a single problem in sight. You've known this guy almost 9 months and the caretaker around 5.

I don't think she understands how intense having a newborn is, especially as new parents.They wake up to eat every 2-3 hours at night, they're used to being up at night. Noah is going to lose it, I mean I really hope not obviously, but they will not sleep for awhile.

And colic is a reality I don't think they've grasped either.