Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[Chizubaga]

People ALWAYS say that their loved ones are on "vacation" when they're in rehab/jail. It's basically a euphemism. And of course if Noah is in an institution(jail, psyche, rehab) Alex will take him back. She's kinda depending on him. To take care of her, the baby, even just around the house. It's honestly too much to expect from a lover to be a full time care taker. It will kill the romance. Taking care of the baby

There's nothing that could have prevented me from being at my daughter's birth or around her mother in the last few weeks. Rehab could have waited until he knows she and the child survived. But it's obvious that he couldn't care less and isn't coming back. Especially with pussy ass addictions to shit like Adderall and freaking kratom. Nobody would've cared if he used for an additional two weeks before rehab so he could support the mother of his child. This absence is unforgivable. It's the kind of thing a mother and child could rightfully resent FOREVER. It's right up there with with finding out that your father had been pushing hard to abort you. How will he ever convince his child that they are and were wanted when it's so obvious they are not. Fuck you Noah, don't come back bitch.

Absolutely, she's having a child with a man child. It's despicable that he's not present, she's a vulnerable individual that he impregnated and he has the audacity to be absent the last week of her extremely high risk pregnancy and her even higher risk birth.
At this point, you're right, stay gone Noah. This really shows his character.
What father isn't around to hold his baby after they're born, especially when he can absolutely be there. Adderall addiction, wtf is that, how embarrassing.

 

[blue gopher snakes]

The moments immediately after childbirth can be so magical and emotional for the new parents. Those of us with baby kiwis understand so I won’t PL all over this thread. I will only say that Alex chose to get knocked up by a pill-addicted borderliner, so even if her delivery is uneventful (ha) and unremarkable (double ha) she would still be missing out on that special bonding time with him and their baby together.

Nobody will gaze at her in adoration and admiration and tell her she’s done well. Nobody will say, “Ok Dad, time to cut the cord!” No sleepy delivery room photos with a rumpled and immensely proud new father presenting his swaddled bundle of joy to the camera.

There is so much she is going to miss out on that has very little to do with her disability and everything to do with what makes her thread-worthy.

 

[LonesomeDud]

Lord, give me the confidence of the fool who thinks a single 22 in the hand is adequate IV access for Alex.

I've seen so many PICCs in the munchie thread I'm almost blind to them, and Alex the pregnant SMA queen gets one line in her hand. Stupid.

 

[Abby Normal]

I guess high risk obstetrics has changed since I was peripherally aware of it, but I would think once the specter of preeclampsia or respiratory failure has been raised, you’d keep that person inpatient where they (and the fetus) can be intensively monitored.

 

[A tree]

Lord, give me the confidence of the fool who thinks a single 22 in the hand is adequate IV access for Alex.

I've seen so many PICCs in the munchie thread I'm almost blind to them, and Alex the pregnant SMA queen gets one line in her hand. Stupid.

I wonder if its a challenge getting central lines in because of her anatomy too.

 

[LonesomeDud]

I wonder if its a challenge getting central lines in because of her anatomy too.

In America, every doctor has to fellate a bunch of other doctors every time he wants to put in a central line because it's an infection risk.

But EVERY MUNCHIE HAS ONE.

 

[TheCakeIsALie]

In America, every doctor has to fellate a bunch of other doctors every time he wants to put in a central line because it's an infection risk.

But EVERY MUNCHIE HAS ONE.

They don’t just have piccs, but purposely try to get their line infected.

At this point, I don’t feel bad for Alex. The only one I feel empathy for is the little bb.

 

[A tree]

In America, every doctor has to fellate a bunch of other doctors every time he wants to put in a central line because it's an infection risk.

But EVERY MUNCHIE HAS ONE.

The Munchies don't even like their piccs the picc is a booby prize for some reason the triple lumen hickman is the one they all want.

 

[LonesomeDud]

@Tree Do you know why they're after TLCs? One to infect, one for fluids, one for Dilaudid? Or am I missing?

 

[Jane Eyre]

The doctors let Alex go home to rest for the C-section that will probably happen within the next week. And she asked the high-risk OB/GYN about the safety of the canopy in the nursery and the doc has put her medical seal of approval on the canopy so take that ya haters!

Spoiler: IG post text

“I can’t I’m busy growing a human” MOOD UNTIL DELIVERY I get to go home today! Still having some minor medical things that I can deal with from home, I got the go ahead from my team to rest stop at home and still get blood work done at my OB appointment on Tuesday to make sure that I am staying stable before my C-section which we are trying to plan very strategically but we are thinking it will probably be within the next week! So, I get to rest and prepare from the comfort of my own home which is amazing as long as there are no changes!

The nursing staff, my medical team, and the floor team, and the OB/GYN team, has been absolutely incredible throughout this entire process that in other words could have been so much more stressful if I didn’t have such amazing healthcare professionals working with me!

I am extremely uncomfortable and nourishing my body is getting very difficult, so the plan is to rest, nourish myself, and prepare for the c-section.

if all goes as planned, which we know that can change by the hour, we are hoping to go to 33 weeks!

HOME STRETCH!

not to be that person but I wanted to add that I showed my high-risk OB/GYN the nursery and asked her if the canopy is in any way unsafe… And they all started laughing. And I mentioned airflow and any reasons y’all have been sending me unsolicited DMs about. So, the high-risk OB/GYN has put her medical seal of approval on my canopy, so wheelchair Rapunzel canopygate can be put to rest lol

Baby A’s canopy is whimsical, gorgeous, and peaceful & that’s all that needs said on that

 

[A tree]

@Tree Do you know why they're after TLCs? One to infect, one for fluids, one for Dilaudid? Or am I missing?

Its about TPN primarily I think. That's the mark of the sickest sick girls and so you need a dedicated line for your TPN and then maximum lumens for your sooper speshul non standard med regime that cant be mixed in one line because of your MCAS. There's a girl who won the munch lottery by getting two triple lumen hickmans at once but stopped posting after that maybe she ded.

Actually im wrong they are mere double lumen power hickmans what a peasant.

 

[booklover]

Regarding her possible pre-eclampsia, she may have HELLP developing:

• Haemolysis (breakdown of red blood cells)
• Elevated Liver enzymes (liver is angry/not working well)
• Low Platelet count (stuff that helps your blood clot)

Last time I studied Obstetrics this was considered part of pre-eclampsia but is apparently a type of pre-eclampsia that is considered more concerning.

edit: Wikipedia link

Any whiff of things going south they will whip this baby out, I dare say since it's the weekend they're aiming to get her through to Monday morning at least when you know you can have a planned procedure with all the staff and services you need (instead of like 11pm on a Sunday).

If she has HELLP, that baby needs to come out now! (It can even happen AFTER delivery, up to a few weeks later, but fortunately that is extremely rare.) I never heard of it until my sister's friend developed it at 24 weeks; that poor baby was subjected to futile torture for more than 3 months before he finally gained his angel wings. His kidneys didn't function without adult-sized doses of diuretics, his GI tract never functioned, neither did his lungs, and he never gained any weight other than edematous fluid, but he was "alive." I've always felt he should have had comfort care only, but I wasn't in charge of making those decisions.

Someone earlier on said she would probably try making herself lactate for OF content without realising it can cause contractions.
I mean it could also be Branxton Hicks, but either way this poor baby is arriving.

If any of you have worked in Obstetrics or Paeds, you'll know the feeling of seeing a newborn and knowing the family background and just thinking "damn, your life is fucked before it's even started, huh".

Yeah.

I have encountered more than one OB nurse who believed that any woman who came in to deliver from certain neighborhoods in big cities, or had certain last names in small towns, should be sterilized prior to discharge, and the baby too; that way you get the boys. That it was done on people for whom it wasn't justified means that it can't be done when it is, at least per some people who know more about those things than I do.

I used to work with a woman whose sister had a child who was conceived when she was 14 and the father was 15, and the parents chose to have and keep the baby. As they were leaving, one of the nurses said, "Half the time, with these young parents, we don't want to send the babies home, but we see your family and we know this child is going to have a good life." At the time I worked with her, her sister was in college and the father was involved, and I later learned that she did graduate and they later married each other and had two more children.

 

[Jane Eyre]

Alex's home! She also says that she's an impossible stick and got several veins blown. But never mind all the medical stuff - Alex got 1 million followers on Tiktok and had planned before getting admitted to the hospital a cake photo shoot to celebrate the occasion. Maybe she can still pull that off?!

Spoiler: IG post text

I’M HOME after being poked probably 5-6 times daily for three days, multiple veins blown bc im an impossible stick, a slew of tests, and no rest — momma is getting some much needed rest in my own bed!

I have been getting flooded with messages and I cannot thank you enough for your support I would reply to each and every one of you if I could.

as soon as I know an official delivery date I will let you know! I am doing every day in my power to give her the best chance and try & go another week. Even tho I’m in a lot of pain and discomfort. We’re trucking along!

Hoping to know more about a delivery date on Tuesday at my follow up

Swipe for a huge milestone! Was planning a lame cake photoshoot to celebrate before I was admitted to the hospital… is it too late? Maybe if im up to it I’ll pull it off?!

 

[Allo Vera]

She's incredibly blasé in a way that's down to immaturity, not disability.

I think they’re linked. She’s immature because she’s too profoundly disabled to have matured mentally. And I don’t mean she has a learning disability. She’s just never had the opportunity to gain the tiniest shred of independence and responsibility, like most of us would during our teens and 20s. I mean she can’t even wipe her own ass. She is as helpless as a baby.

Or she could be just dumb and would have always been this way even if she was able bodied.

 

[OrSoHelpMe]

I think they’re linked. She’s immature because she’s too profoundly disabled to have matured mentally. And I don’t mean she has a learning disability. She’s just never had the opportunity to gain the tiniest shred of independence and responsibility, like most of us would during our teens and 20s. I mean she can’t even wipe her own ass. She is as helpless as a baby.

Or she could be just dumb and would have always been this way even if she was able bodied.

That response about “Noah’s taking care of himself, I’m very pregnant so stop asking” seemed pretty measured to me, compared to a lot of cows in this forum. But I guess it came after a lot of smokescreen. I think she CAN be smart, but immature in the way you describe.

Actually im wrong they are mere double lumen power hickmans what a peasant.

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This gives new meaning to “boob tube.”

 

[everybody in Portugal]

Alex has addressed the elephant in the room. Has to be rehab

Love how she's strong and sassy and gonna be just fuckin fine right up until the point that she wants to avoid answering awkward questions, at which point she's suddenly sooper vulnerable and weak so pls lay off her kthx.

What a clown. Babby is fucked

 

[clockwomble]

This baby is absolutely screwed given who the parents are. It’ll be interesting to see how this goes (and if it’s actually filmed for some documentary like she’s mentioned) but I hate that it’s actually real since a child is involved.

 

[booklover]

No updates. Not sure if that's a good or bad thing.

 

[King George III]

Calling it now, the kid is gonna be raised by gramps & granny.

 

[A tree]

Updates from stories and some of the Q and A she did last night.