Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[often puzzled]

New Instagram story:

 

[Goatchoker]

Ari is so damn cute.
Part of me feels for Alex not being able to mom normally but i don’t think she’d mom even if she wasn’t in le gross chair.
I’m happy Ari is at the smiths. She’ll be okay I hope.

ETA: her feet are fucked also.

 

[LonesomeDud]

Ari is a really good girl.

You put the average toddler on that footplate and they will stand up and go wherever they want.

I don't know if this makes sense, but now that I'm older, I like the privacy of nuclear family. That your playtime with your family isn't a cereal commercial or a social media post. It's just for you and your people. It feels bad watching it to me, like peeping in someone's bathroom window who purposely opened it for me to be a voyeur.

 

[Octopi]

I don't know if this makes sense, but now that I'm older, I like the privacy of nuclear family. That your playtime with your family isn't a cereal commercial or a social media post. It's just for you and your people. It feels bad watching it to me, like peeping in someone's bathroom window who purposely opened it for me to be a voyeur.

Totally agree. Ari is a little angel, but I wish we didn't know that. I wish nobody outside of her actual family and friends even knew she existed.

 

[TismFarmer]

New Instagram story:

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Look at how normal Ari is compared to Lizard Woman's poor Atlas...

 

[often puzzled]

Twerk juice unboxing video (Instagram grid post):

 

[often puzzled]

Another one of Alex's caretakers is doing a Reddit AMA and is making claims involving improper actions (on Alex's part) with a young teenage boy in her apartment complex. If true, this is beyond disgusting, but be aware that this person has posted in Alex's snark subs-- if infrequently-- before going back ~1 year.

Reddit AMA thread
Reddit AMA thread archive

Main stuff:







Other screenshots under spoiler.

Spoiler: the rest

Main points:

• This is the new caretaker we've seen in some recent content-- the one with the tattooed arms. Her name is Jamie.
• She's no longer working for Alex but did know who she was prior to taking the job.
• She claims that Alex met a 13 year old boy in her apartment complex and asked him to bathe her and put her to bed. He did, his mom found out, and his mom called the police. She also claims that Alex tried to get this kid to buy beer for her by sending him to the store with her ID.
• She says Salina is in a green card marriage and that Alex owes her about $2,500.
• She refused to film OF content but, if I understand her correctly, she says that Alex is posting older stuff right now (but what she said about that isn't entirely clear to me).
• Alex still sends Noah money sometimes, and he's relapsed several times.
• Her "sobriety" only lasted about a week (I believe that, because this claim matches up with Alex's posts about her newfound sobriety-- and Alex is obviously an alcoholic).
• She brought Ari back to Florida when the DCFS case was closed (I had suspected as much, especially since she quit sharing photos of Ari while she was still in Illinois).
• She pressed Alex to get insurance (Florida Medicaid) for Ari and to get food stamps. Alex had planned to pay cash when she took Ari in "once a year" for a checkup and shots-- and I can absolutely see Alex thinking that a kid only requires the same yearly visits as a dog does. The pediatrician is basically like the vet, right?

I don't know about any of this, gorls. You be the judge.

edit: archive of Jamie's comment history. She's really downplaying her role in the snark sub. She clearly knew who and what Alex is. For what it's worth, even Redditors are asking why she took the job and if she did it just to get involved with the drama.

edit again: screenshots of Jamie's non-deleted comments in the snark sub.

Spoiler: prior comments

One other thing I thought of: the skanky OF guy independently mentioned that Alex had had inappropriate contact with a minor, back when she was trying to collab with him. That would be before Jamie was ever in the picture.

 

[Breadbear]

Ehh, proof or gtfo. I'm not saying I find it unbelievable, but Reddit's def gonna Reddit.

 

[BunchofMunch]

Twerk juice unboxing video (Instagram grid post):

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A toddler playing pretend, eating and drinking, next to a shelf of assorted chemicals in her eye-level. Lovely, great parenting.

 

[often puzzled]

Update on the Jamie thing: the Reddit mods removed the AMA but stand by the veracity of the information. They cite other screenshots that we never saw. The thread is archived in my previous post, and I think I got screenshots of everything she said.

Mod statement:



Edit to say: I'm about 50/50 on believing it. The sobriety stuff tracks with her public posting. Her story about the lease ending never made a ton of sense, but I assumed that there was something financial or a noise complaint behind that. The skanky OF guy (and maybe also Noah?) did mention something about minors, which I outright dismissed at the time (because of the source). I can certainly believe she thought that toddlers only need a yearly checkup, and I'm glad that the Smiths will know better. Noah hasn't posted to Instagram lately, so I was wondering if he'd relapsed again. Ultimately, though, all of this is conjecture.

Another update: Alex addresses the situation on an Instagram story.



She didn't actually deny the incident, I notice. I'd actually love to see the document Alex is calling an NDA, particularly if she created it herself.

I went over to Reddit to see if there were any new screenshots from Jamie (no) but did find a few comments from her in the latest Reddit post. They're under the spoiler.

Spoiler: more from Jamie

Nothing from Noah. Salina isn't posting anything related to Alex, and I'm thinking she's out of the picture.

 

[often puzzled]

Noah seems to be feuding with his new (ex?) girlfriend. This is from a few days ago:



I gather that she was doing some sort of tell-all on her Instagram, but she's still got that set to private. And Noah is a big fan of that word himself, so I'm not sure what the own is here.

Alex asks whether people use agencies to hire health aides:



She posted only one reply-- conveniently, the one that aligns with her beliefs:



Ari is so frigging cute:

 

[a hapless toad]

Ari is so frigging cute:

How to get your toddler to sit still while someone else does their hair.

 

[Hot bean soup]

Would there be a police report? Or even body cam footage?

 

[often puzzled]

Would there be a police report? Or even body cam footage?

I've checked, and there's no case record available, I assume because no charges were filed. From what Jamie said, the police did interview her twice, so there's a paper trail out there; it may not be available to the public, though. I can't believe that she's not even bothering to deny that all this happened, though. Since she's saying there's "a bit more to the story" rather than denying it, I guess that means this actually happened.

Instagram:



Talking about the responses to the caregiver question she posted:

Two-part video from Facebook that discusses hiring and firing Jamie:

The Facebook video does not discuss the allegations at all. Some comments from Alex:

 

[Chizubaga]

I've checked, and there's no case record available, I assume because no charges were filed. From what Jamie said, the police did interview her twice, so there's a paper trail out there; it may not be available to the public, though. I can't believe that she's not even bothering to deny that all this happened, though. Since she's saying there's "a bit more to the story" rather than denying it, I guess that means this actually happened.

Instagram:

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Talking about the responses to the caregiver question she posted:

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Two-part video from Facebook that discusses hiring and firing Jamie:

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The Facebook video does not discuss the allegations at all. Some comments from Alex:

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I checked the same videos on TikTok and it looks like the caregiver is in her comment section.

 

[Flourishing Pinecone ❧]

They're all as bad as each other.

 

[Terfatron]

How Fucking internet-brained do you have to be to do this kinda messed up shit.
Wasting your own time and space on your resume just to gain some internet points? Either you go full Frank Hassle or you just sit down.

This woman is a cow in her own right. Im not gonna touch on the allegations because nasty af if true but a woman this deranged; I do have a hard time taking her at face value, ex caregiver or not.

Not saying there's absolutely no truth to her allegations, just that people like her are so fucking embrassing.
And do we think she opened up with "yeah, i know who you are and I religiously post on your snark subs" or "yeah, I've seen you on Instagram and youre such a inspiration to me and many others" to land the job?

 

[often puzzled]

Here's more for the trash fire. Someone has leaked text messages between Elise and Tracey. Elise is Noah's new/ex girlfriend, the one he met in rehab. Tracey is Noah's mom. The Reddit mods claim that the messages didn't come from Elise or Jamie but refuse to reveal their source.

link to Reddit thread
archive of Reddit thread







The messages are hard to follow in the Reddit thread itself, so a mod stitched them together in a YouTube video:

I watched the video and screenshotted all the messages. They're under the spoiler.

Elise is in blue, right-hand side of the conversation. Tracey is in black, left-hand side of the conversation.

Spoiler: all the text messages

Elise comes off as extremely manipulative, at least to me. She sounds like she's mad that Alex is getting support when Noah isn't. But that's just my take.

Key points:

• We continue to see confirmation that the incident with the teenage boy actually happend.
• Alex can't go home to Illinois because she has a poor relationship with her mother and because the family home is structurally unsafe.
• The Smiths are taking Ari to well child appointments and getting her regular medical care. Mama Smith says that Ari's speech has improved since she's come to live with them and that she's no longer in front of the TV 24/7, as she was in IL.
• Noah is not sober and keeps bouncing in and out of rehabs. The Smiths are trying to let him sink or swim, but it sounds like they're struggling to cut off all support.
• Alex has been verbally abusive toward Elise and toward Elise's mom (we've heard that before).
• Noah is still not on the birth certificate, and the Smiths sound concerned about how they'd go about getting custody of Ari.
• There's a lot about OF and about how the Smiths don't want Alex making OF content in their home.
• Mama Smith has told Alex that her stupid internet stunts, like putting Ari on the footplates, will only result in calls to DCFS.
• Elise reads Reddit, because of course she does, and tattles everything she reads to Mama Smith.
• Mama Smith says nothing she says would change the minds of the Redditors because they "thrive on drama" (ACCURATE).
• Alex isn't getting any type of support from Noah, and the Smiths feels called to step up.
• Alex's mom got mad about something (?) and cancelled Alex's benefits (?). I don't really understand what's being said there, and I'm not sure it entirely makes sense.
• Alex's mom refused to cosign a new lease for Alex's apartment, and that's why she couldn't stay there.
• Noah's mom says she hopes these texts are confidential. Poor woman.

Ari will be better off when both her trashy parents have drank/drugged themselves to death. That will get all these trashy orbiters-- caregivers, OF manwhores, girlfriends-- out of her life for good, and then she can hopefully grow up peacefully in sunny Florida and be a normal kid.

 

[Trombonista]

Would there be a police report? Or even body cam footage?
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"no chargers have been pressed"

No shit, Alex. You're not in LA.

 

[BunchofMunch]

I think Alex is talking a lot better now, I can actually understand what she's saying for once. She's still dumb as bricks, but hopefully the Smith's can make sure she's mostly sober...because while I agree that Ari will probably be better off without her dumbass parents, having your severely handicapped mother drink herself to death in front of you would probably leave some pretty gruesome mental scarring.