Amberlynn Reid - 600 pound pathological liar and U-Haul lesbian moving in with her next live-in maid/nurse/girlfriend.

[uracaksucka]

I honestly feel like she's the kind of person who would go for almost anyone that showed an interest in her. She apparently has a "crush" now but of course she's being coy about it.

 

[PropaGONDA]

I honestly feel like she's the kind of person who would go for almost anyone that showed an interest in her. She apparently has a "crush" now but of course she's being coy about it.

Yep, her real sexual orientation is "caretaker-sexual". Though to even say she has a sexual orientation is a stretch. I doubt she's sexually active in any of her "relationships." She didn't even sleep with Krystle for the duration of their 3+ year relationship. Who knows if she actually slept with Dustin. Like Foreverkailyn, she needs her caretaker to have a car and wallet so she can leech off of them for an indefinite amount of time.

I heard that she was repeating many times on the YouNow stream that she's a lesbian, almost as if she's trying to convince herself and others that she's an honest and true lesbian. I doubt she's actually a lesbian - probably easier for her to manipulate and con women than a man. Though I'm sure if a man showed interest she'd be all over them as long as they're willing to fund her gluttonous hedonistic lifestyle.

On her social media she always proclaims her crushes on male celebrities. I don't recall her ever saying this about female celebs.

 

[KicDaKitty]

Yep, her real sexual orientation is "caretaker-sexual". Though to even say she has a sexual orientation is a stretch. I doubt she's sexually active in any of her "relationships." She didn't even sleep with Krystle for the duration of their 3+ year relationship. Who knows if she actually slept with Dustin. Like Foreverkailyn, she needs her caretaker to have a car and wallet so she can leech off of them for an indefinite amount of time.

I heard that she was repeating many times on the YouNow stream that she's a lesbian, almost as if she's trying to convince herself and others that she's an honest and true lesbian. I doubt she's actually a lesbian - probably easier for her to manipulate and con women than a man. Though I'm sure if a man showed interest she'd be all over them as long as they're willing to fund her gluttonous hedonistic lifestyle.

On her social media she always proclaims her crushes on male celebrities. I don't recall her ever saying this about female celebs.

If you look back at videos from the early days of Amber and Destiny they were pretty vocal about having a very active sex life. I remember one clip that Destiny mentioned how hard she made Amber come.

 

[glass_houses]

She finally broke down and told the "truth" about why they broke up.
She says Destiny was at work and she would always call or text during her breaks well on this day she didn't so Amber texted her asking if everything was okay. Destiny said she didn't text her because she was talking to a supervisor during her dinner break. Amber called bullshit because she worked there and she knows supervisors won't bother you while on break. She texted Sharla asking her how break was and if Destiny was talking to the supervisors, of course she wasn't so Amber flipped out. She called Destiny out asking why she lied to her, that she would never do that to her blah, blah, blah. So after work instead of going home Destiny went to Walmart until 4am. When she finally got home Amber was trying to talk to her about what happen and Destiny was acting very distant. Destiny said something along the lines "if this is how it's going to be we should just break up" Amber asked her if she was serious and Destiny said yes, that she didn't want to be with her anymore.
She did say about a week later they were "together" and before it happened Destiny said something like "if this is going to be too hard for you we don't have to" they did and Amber took that as they would get close again but Destiny continued to distance herself.
She also said she doesn't believe Destiny really loves Dana and that a lot of it is for show.

So AL had to know where Destiny was at all times, exactly who she was talking to and what it was about. AL would even call Destiny's work and demand to know what her roster was. She took THOUSANDS of dollars off of Destiny, and then deluged her with plastic junk.

Is it just me, or is there a disturbing overtone of domestic abuse / violence here?

 

[landwhale]

I believe she was a total bitch to Destiny. I remember that one video called Opening christmas presents with her and I felt bad for Destiny because of how disrespectful Amberlynn was... I too dont believe Amberlynn was in love with her. She only feels bad because she has no one to take care of her now. /Sorry my english is really bad but im learning/

 

[KicDaKitty]

So AL had to know where Destiny was at all times, exactly who she was talking to and what it was about. AL would even call Destiny's work and demand to know what her roster was. She took THOUSANDS of dollars off of Destiny, and then deluged her with plastic junk.

Is it just me, or is there a disturbing overtone of domestic abuse / violence here?

Really? The way Amber made is sound is that she was the one with all the money from YouTube. A few days ago she was on younow talking about how she makes more money than Destiny.
I know she used to talk about how amazing her "government job" paid I guess now that she doesn't work there anymore the pay isn't good anymore.

 

[Cockyxx]

Wow. I'm not even a fan of Destiny but AL is so controlling and annoying as a girlfriend, I'm glad her ass was dumped.
I recently watched some older videos and yeah, AL treated Dustin like a little child. I always thought it's because Dustin is..a little special but it looks like AL is just extremely insecure.

 

[Acceptable]

it wont be long until she finds a new victim... i wonder if she will move across the country for them and they will get the same government jobs. how cute...

 

[DongMiguel]

I bet Destiny just tired of constant texting, especially on her break (sometimes, people like to just eat in peace) and made up a small lie so not to hurt Amberlynn (instead of admitting she just didn't feel like texting non-stop during her workday). Then blam, Amberlynn turns it into a much bigger deal than it should've been, Destiny realizes she's an emotional earthquake and not worth the bullshit and finally pulls herself out of the relationship.

Amberlynn is a control freak. I'm sure that took its toll on Destiny.

And while Destiny is no prize herself, no one needs that bullshit.

 

[She Who Dealt It]

While on YouNow last night, AL also said that what she missed most about being with Destiny was "how Destiny loved me". Isn't that a strange thing to say about what you miss most about a past relationship? I think it speaks to her narcissism. She is the most self obsessed woman-child I have ever seen.
Also, there were quite a few people calling her Damon White. She never acknowledged that she knew what they were talking about, but it was pretty obvious she was aware. She sarcastically called herself the "Catfish Queen".

 

[cheat-day-bitches]

While on YouNow last night, AL also said that what she missed most about being with Destiny was "how Destiny loved me". Isn't that a strange thing to say about what you miss most about a past relationship? I think it speaks to her narcissism. She is the most self obsessed woman-child I have ever seen.
Also, there were quite a few people calling her Damon White. She never acknowledged that she knew what they were talking about, but it was pretty obvious she was aware. She sarcastically called herself the "Catfish Queen".

Exactly! I was just about to post this! Someone asked if she was going to change her name to Damon White and she answered a very sarcastic "yup". If it was something she had not heard of before she would get a dumb look on her face and shrug it off. I think she knows people are on to her and I don't think she cares anymore(?). Her arrogance and her being pseudo friends with other youtubers I think is getting to her head. Also add in the fact that another lolcow Trisha Paytas has finally acknowledged her existence. She actually thinks she's YouTube famous. Every younow stream is her blocking people, being rude as fuck to people and just generally being an annoying hag. And she can barely give a shit to make a decent video anymore. Even her loyal fans are getting pissed off. I'm interested to see where this goes.

(Also someone needs to give her a reality check: chokers are not a good look when your shoulders and head have already eaten away at your neck.)

 

[HY 140]

Getting dumped by Dustin. I think I missed the good parts, but she'd been streaming for over 2 hours by the time I saw she was on.

I don;t blame him though, she looks like The Stay Puft Marshmallow man

 

[DonaldChump]

She finally broke down and told the "truth" about why they broke up.
She says Destiny was at work and she would always call or text during her breaks well on this day she didn't so Amber texted her asking if everything was okay. Destiny said she didn't text her because she was talking to a supervisor during her dinner break. Amber called bullshit because she worked there and she knows supervisors won't bother you while on break. She texted Sharla asking her how break was and if Destiny was talking to the supervisors, of course she wasn't so Amber flipped out. She called Destiny out asking why she lied to her, that she would never do that to her blah, blah, blah. So after work instead of going home Destiny went to Walmart until 4am.

Went to WalMart until 4AM? You sure Dana's place isnt called WalMart? Who the fuck can spend more than like an hour in WalMart, even just fucking loitering.

Yep, her real sexual orientation is "caretaker-sexual". Though to even say she has a sexual orientation is a stretch. I doubt she's sexually active in any of her "relationships."

As gross as it is, I do think that she's too fat to be sexually active. Sex is more than just mashing your junk together or rubbing each other's genitals with your hands or face or whatever. Maybe some petting on Destiny or whatever but I would imagine she couldnt actually get very physical simply due to her size. She needs a stick to wash, right?

While on YouNow last night, AL also said that what she missed most about being with Destiny was "how Destiny loved me". Isn't that a strange thing to say about what you miss most about a past relationship? I think it speaks to her narcissism. She is the most self obsessed woman-child I have ever seen.

Is it that weird? Im asking honestly to know if Im a shitty person. I've not had a ton of relationships but if you were to ask me that, I would first wonder how to try to answer it and narrow it down, but I would say yeah, you miss the kind of affection of a relationship. Like when youre just doing random shit together but you look over and look in your girlfriends eyes or whatever and she just smiles at you; just feels good man, it's a nice, heartwarming feeling and you cant help but smile back. You really like seeing your partner happy but you kind of do it because seeing them happy makes you happy. Is that selfish? I guess it's the pitfall of validating yourself on relationships, but I think a lot of people do (if it's not everyone that does) that on some level. I could powerlevel more but I dont wanna get in trouble.

But yeah AL needs to chill out on being clingy and emotionally needy, that shit's unattractive. Seems like AL has all the negative aspects of the needy insecure girlfriend, coupled with all the negative aspects of the needy insecure boyfriend, as well as trying to live the life of someone she's not.

Im actually sympathetic for AL in some ways because watching her melt down over being dumped, it's just depressing; I guess I can kinda relate because I did the same shit when my first girlfriend dumped me in high school.

I have to force myself to remember how fucking catty AL could be to Destiny, like the scale video where she really fucking called Destiny out for gaining 5 lbs. I guess I mostly feel bad for AL because I feel like Destiny was just as catty and seemed just as mean-spirited or kinda selfish; but gets away with it because she's 'tarded. People with disabilities can actually be really fucking mean and shitty! So it's kind of like, you have to pick a bad guy but both of them are bad guys, who's the real victim here?

 

[crematoriumtechnician]

She finally broke down and told the "truth" about why they broke up.
She says Destiny was at work and she would always call or text during her breaks well on this day she didn't so Amber texted her asking if everything was okay. Destiny said she didn't text her because she was talking to a supervisor during her dinner break. Amber called bullshit because she worked there and she knows supervisors won't bother you while on break. She texted Sharla asking her how break was and if Destiny was talking to the supervisors, of course she wasn't so Amber flipped out. She called Destiny out asking why she lied to her, that she would never do that to her blah, blah, blah. So after work instead of going home Destiny went to Walmart until 4am. When she finally got home Amber was trying to talk to her about what happen and Destiny was acting very distant. Destiny said something along the lines "if this is how it's going to be we should just break up" Amber asked her if she was serious and Destiny said yes, that she didn't want to be with her anymore.
She did say about a week later they were "together" and before it happened Destiny said something like "if this is going to be too hard for you we don't have to" they did and Amber took that as they would get close again but Destiny continued to distance herself.
She also said she doesn't believe Destiny really loves Dana and that a lot of it is for show.

Thank you for writing it all down. Not to be nitpicky but I'd like to spergily add some more
As AmberLard was telling the story she kept saying "It was just a small thing (lying about what she did on break) and it blew way out of proportion, I felt bad like it was my fault" so she at least knew she was acting extra

Big AL also said something like "I felt bad about it when she got home, I wanted to talk it out so we wouldn't go to bed mad at each other but Destiny kept repeating "If you don't wanna fix this I'll sleep in the other room." then I spat out "Are you breaking up with me?" and Destiny looked me in the eyes and said "Yes.""

So Destiny did not suggest the break up, AL did. She said that's part of why she was so upset, like if she hadn't mentioned breaking up it wouldn't have happened. Sounds to me like Dustin was tryna start shit to make a quick break and it worked.

Edit: Forgot to add that AL also said that she didn't think they were actually broken up for days afterward, like how couples will fight and say "I'm done we're over!!" and then get right back together. Our queen of denial is always in action

 

[SAILORMARS]

Does anyone have a link to last night's younow broadcast? I missed it.

 

[PropaGONDA]

So Destiny did not suggest the break up, AL did. She said that's part of why she was so upset, like if she hadn't mentioned breaking up it wouldn't have happened. Sounds to me like Dustin was tryna start shit to make a quick break and it worked.

Amberlard seems like the type to dangle a breakup into someone's face to manipulate them into doing what she wants or to get the upper-hand. I mean, we all see that she's a vile, narcissistic, manipulative cunt. Hilarious that this blew up in her face! Now she's without a caretaker, HAHAHA.

Is it that weird? Im asking honestly to know if Im a shitty person. I've not had a ton of relationships but if you were to ask me that, I would first wonder how to try to answer it and narrow it down, but I would say yeah, you miss the kind of affection of a relationship. Like when youre just doing random shit together but you look over and look in your girlfriends eyes or whatever and she just smiles at you; just feels good man, it's a nice, heartwarming feeling and you cant help but smile back. You really like seeing your partner happy but you kind of do it because seeing them happy makes you happy. Is that selfish? I guess it's the pitfall of validating yourself on relationships, but I think a lot of people do (if it's not everyone that does) that on some level. I could powerlevel more but I dont wanna get in trouble.

It's shitty because it just centres the conversation on you, instead of your partner. Surely if you love someone, there's a trait of theirs (and theirs alone) that you like, or fell in love with? It's easy for anyone who is in love to say they love their partner's kindness, intelligence, beauty, etc. The fact she chooses to say "I love how Destiny loves me" centres the issue on her and it seems like she LOVES what Destiny can DO for her, rather than just loving Destiny for her own qualities. It speaks volumes as to how self-centred she is.

Again with manipulators like her she views people in terms of their use-value to her. I don't think she's capable of actually genuinely loving someone.

 

[FatFuckingClown]

Yep, her real sexual orientation is "caretaker-sexual". Though to even say she has a sexual orientation is a stretch. I doubt she's sexually active in any of her "relationships." She didn't even sleep with Krystle for the duration of their 3+ year relationship. Who knows if she actually slept with Dustin. Like Foreverkailyn, she needs her caretaker to have a car and wallet so she can leech off of them for an indefinite amount of time.

I heard that she was repeating many times on the YouNow stream that she's a lesbian, almost as if she's trying to convince herself and others that she's an honest and true lesbian. I doubt she's actually a lesbian - probably easier for her to manipulate and con women than a man. Though I'm sure if a man showed interest she'd be all over them as long as they're willing to fund her gluttonous hedonistic lifestyle.

On her social media she always proclaims her crushes on male celebrities. I don't recall her ever saying this about female celebs.

True. In her Smash or Pass video, she passed on nearly everybody, albeit the super, ultra avatars of femininity.
So much for being gay...

 

[uracaksucka]

Yep, her real sexual orientation is "caretaker-sexual". Though to even say she has a sexual orientation is a stretch. I doubt she's sexually active in any of her "relationships." She didn't even sleep with Krystle for the duration of their 3+ year relationship. Who knows if she actually slept with Dustin. Like Foreverkailyn, she needs her caretaker to have a car and wallet so she can leech off of them for an indefinite amount of time.

I heard that she was repeating many times on the YouNow stream that she's a lesbian, almost as if she's trying to convince herself and others that she's an honest and true lesbian. I doubt she's actually a lesbian - probably easier for her to manipulate and con women than a man. Though I'm sure if a man showed interest she'd be all over them as long as they're willing to fund her gluttonous hedonistic lifestyle.

On her social media she always proclaims her crushes on male celebrities. I don't recall her ever saying this about female celebs.

She's gone back and forth between who she had sex with for the first time; one minute it's destiny, then it's Krystle, then it's someone we don't even know, then it was Kacey. She's all over the place, who even knows with her. I'd rather not think about it to be honest.

Big Al isn't a good liar at all; I would be super shocked if she came out as something other than lesbian/bisexual. In the beginning, she and Destiny were all over each other. I don't know if AL could fake being a lesbian that long. Although, I guess if some people are that desperate they will do anything to get by.

She has listed female celeb crushes before. Miley cyrus, Katy Perry, ~Trisha Paytas~ and one other that I just can't seem to recall, but I know it's in a vlog somewhere.

 

[KicDaKitty]

She has listed female celeb crushes before. Miley cyrus, Katy Perry, ~Trisha Paytas~ and one other that I just can't seem to recall, but I know it's in a vlog somewhere.

Blake Lively

 

[wahhhmbulance]

As gross as it is, I do think that she's too fat to be sexually active. Sex is more than just mashing your junk together or rubbing each other's genitals with your hands or face or whatever. Maybe some petting on Destiny or whatever but I would imagine she couldnt actually get very physical simply due to her size. She needs a stick to wash, right?

If I had to put money on it, I'm sure "sex" with Dustin 99% of the time was Dustin eating her out. She's too fat to do anything else and she doesn't seem like the type to reciprocate, especially with how she treated Dustin like a punching bag.