Amberlynn Reid - 600 pound pathological liar and U-Haul lesbian moving in with her next live-in maid/nurse/girlfriend.

[Can I get an Amen?]

If Destiny and Dana actually do start a channel, we MUST make a thread for them. It's the least we can do!! Amberlynn would be so pissed if those start getting higher viewing numbers.

 

[Mrs.MichaelRooker]

They'd have to face the wrath of the delusional "Ambabies"!

 

[IDEK]

So I was looking in her ask.fm history and here are a few gems:

Pretty much admitting she's a bad person every time she bragged about the good things she did for others.

Below is her double talk about her parents.

Plus she had time to write a letter to her aunt and talks about "forgiveness" but doesn't see that she doesn't take her own advice.

"Family is important to me". Bullshit. It's important to her to exploit and trash.

 

[FeedMeLobsterNow]

I don't want to PL too hard here, and I know most people want to think AL just sucks and needs to get her shit together but I agree, she exhibits multiple tell-tale signs of BPD. I'm going to spoiler tag this for PL and for anyone who isn't interested in reading it. I know we're here to laugh at her, and I understand if this is too real, gorl.

Spoiler

All of these are symptoms of BPD: Delusion, shifting personality (adopting the personality of other people), blaming others/circumstances for all her shortcomings while avoiding taking blame, compulsive lying, addictive behaviors (poor impulse control both with food and shopping), idealizing and devaluing people (ex: when AL was with destiny she was the best, now that it is over she was controlling) lack of empathy, history of childhood neglect and abuse, projection (accusing someone else of doing something that she is actually doing), accusing ex gfs of being abusive after the relationship ends, past stay in a mental hospital, over-dramatizing things, going to the ER for minor issues, and above all - the fact that she doesn't think there is anything wrong with her behavior.

Statistically, children who come from an abusive home have a higher risk of developing NPD, BPD, C-PTSD, ASPD - all of which can present similarly.

That being said, if she has BPD or not, it's still her responsibility as an adult to get therapy and get her shit together. Most people with BPD will never recover because it means doing a lot of hard work and changing the way they approach almost everything in their life at a core, instinctual level. I understand if people don't agree with my sentiments, but I have a long personal history with various PD people and they behave eerily similarly, down to certain phrasing that they use.

Basically. AL is covering a lot of bases of a cluster b personality disorder. They overlap so much. The thing that keeps me from thinking she is pure BPD is I don't think she would self-harm. Borderline is the most studied of these disorders, so it's easy to place her there.
Studies show cluster b disorders (esp narcs) fuck with therapists that are not equipped to deal with such disorders. Possibly why it never helped AL. If you read her old FB entries (when she was first talking to Krystle) she was an absolute shit. Nevertheless, wherever AL falls on the spectrum, she is severely disordered to the point she probably won't ever "get better".

 

[ricecake]

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Destiny is on Relationship No. 3 in less three years. Did she live with her ex-fiance, too?

Sometime I forget how short a time AL and Destiny were actually together because Destiny is obviously a serial monogamist and AL quickly (pathologically) enmeshes herself in her girlfriends' lives.

 

[FeedMeLobsterNow]

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The first picture is of Becky when she and Amber were about to go on their first date. Second picture is current. It has only taken 5 months of being around Amber to have gained what looks like at least 50 pounds.

To be fair, that picture is a bit older than their first date. It was possibly chosen because she was slimmer here than on the first date?

 

[Clown Baby]

Basically. AL is covering a lot of bases of a cluster b personality disorder. They overlap so much. The thing that keeps me from thinking she is pure BPD is I don't think she would self-harm. Borderline is the most studied of these disorders, so it's easy to place her there.
Studies show cluster b disorders (esp narcs) fuck with therapists that are not equipped to deal with such disorders. Possibly why it never helped AL. If you read her old FB entries (when she was first talking to Krystle) she was an absolute shit. Nevertheless, wherever AL falls on the spectrum, she is severely disordered to the point she probably won't ever "get better".

Spoiler

In order to receive a diagnosis of bpd an individual has to meet 5 out of the 9 diagnostic criteria. Self harm is one of the 9, but not necessarily required. Although suicidal ideation (recurring thoughts that are just imagining killing themself with no intent to act on it) is usually enough to meet the "self harm" criteria.

Edit to add: I just watched her video "My Mental Hospital Experience" Where she talks about how she sent a suicidal text to a friend in high school and then got committed because of it. That right there checks the "self harm" box. I agree with you though, she could have NPD, cormorbid or independent of BPD or something else.

She's fucked basically, it's either a lifetime of doing the same shit over and over or a lifetime of behavioral therapy. She's obviously picked doing the same shit. That's why I don't feel bad laughing at her at all.

 

[Cocco]

I guess this is PL but I was watching a channel and he has talked multiple times about what is happening with youtube on top of trying with other channels to contact them and find a solution. He is leaving because of not being able to pay bills and live of youtube anymore, also doesn't feel right about the donation thing etc. He said he is hardly making 30$ x video lately and he isn't the first one claiming so. So many other bigger channels I was watching almost have stopped uploading because of it, channels with like 500.000 subs and 100.000 -150.000 views x video.

I know that some people already informed us about Kentucky being cheap and we have already talked about this but still... is Kentucky the cheapest place in the world?
If people with that amount of views who upload frequently hardly make 30$ x video, how in the world is she making enough to pay bills, eat out, go in hotels to eat more, buy crap, make gifts and ''pay D 100$'' to watch her cats? Yeah she does younow too but it's not like she's making millions there and lately barely goes online. I'm starting to think she isn't paying rent and other stuff anymore which would explain the things that are in her mind and are making her feel overwhelmed as she said.

 

[dumpster bitch]

In honor of their upcoming YouTube channel, can Destiny & Dana be discussed here or do they need their own thread?

Destiny's ex looks like Dana.

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The song the ex quotes here is the song fatAL always said was her and Destiny's song.

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I vote that they be discussed here. At least until they provide enough material to sustain or earn having their own thread. I'm afraid the new thread would be dead at this point and I don't have anything against D&D. Amber is the lolcow here....

And I agree D's ex looks a lot like Dana.

 

[Octomet]

So were we backpedaling or saving face before the 1000 likes were hit, just in case they weren't?

 

[Calling]

I'm so thirsty for tea god dammit. I really hope they make a channel, AL is insultingly boring on her own.

 

[mowwwy]

- She saw Rafe a week or so ago. Rafe wants things to go back to how they were, AL isn't ready for it. Rafe admitted what she did was wrong.

I think the only reason Rafe apologised is because she doesn't have internet connection so she can't see the amount of support she got. Rafe looks like someone who'd do anything when there's enough applaud behind her, the situation with Eric proves that imo.

 

[dumpster bitch]

They'd have to face the wrath of the delusional "Ambabies"!

I.e., 20 ghost accounts that are actually just Amber "telling off the haters."

 

[thejackal]

The writing she shared about the vampire is laughably bad and would get you laughed out of even a AP English class creative writing circle. I have to give her credit however: based on how she talks on her vlogs her writing is sophisticated.

 

[FeedMeLobsterNow]

Spoiler

In order to receive a diagnosis of bpd an individual has to meet 5 out of the 9 diagnostic criteria. Self harm is one of the 9, but not necessarily required. Although suicidal ideation (recurring thoughts that are just imagining killing themself with no intent to act on it) is usually enough to meet the "self harm" criteria.

Edit to add: I just watched her video "My Mental Hospital Experience" Where she talks about how she sent a suicidal text to a friend in high school and then got committed because of it. That right there checks the "self harm" box. I agree with you though, she could have NPD, cormorbid or independent of BPD or something else.

She's fucked basically, it's either a lifetime of doing the same shit over and over or a lifetime of behavioral therapy. She's obviously picked doing the same shit. That's why I don't feel bad laughing at her at all.

Lol. Never watched her mental health vid. I just can't bring myself to watch everything because I find her unbelievably annoying.
Wherever she is, as you said, she doesn't seem like she can stick with any kind of self improvement plan that requires diligence. She's too busy trying to recruit and keep enablers, eating and shopping to execute a plan that might help her lead a better life.

 

[Voorts]

I'm glad that being herself now that she's escaped from the Density Junta means neglecting her pets, eating shit loads of food and bumping privates with a miserable thumb faced bitch who spins on hotel chairs.

Such an improvement.

 

[LightEmittingDiode]

So I was looking in her ask.fm history and here are a few gems:

Pretty much admitting she's a bad person every time she bragged about the good things she did for others.

Below is her double talk about her parents.

Plus she had time to write a letter to her aunt and talks about "forgiveness" but doesn't see that she doesn't take her own advice.

"Family is important to me". Bullshit. It's important to her to exploit and trash.

"Dicing my fangs"
Holy shit she has no idea what words mean

 

[Clown Baby]

I hate that she uses semantics like this to avoid answering the question and be like "technically I'm not lying." Yes you don't need an ID to fill out paperwork, but they would never let her into the prison without an ID, so announcing that she's taking steps to visit her mom is disingenuous.

But she saw her cousins at the florida state fair, so good for her.

 

[Tiny Clanger]

OMG YOU GUISE! She, like, totes used Becky's toothbrush and, gooorl it was, like, the funniest thing EVURR!!!! That's just so hilarious, my sides liduhrally hurt from laughing so much. Aaayumberlyun, you are just the best uchoober ever. Slay gooorl!


Holy crap, how can anybody put up with that level of squeeeeeeeee over absolutely nothing? No. Its not funny. From a woman nearing thirty, its toe-curlingly embarrassing.

 

[citytrucks]

"My nose flares up with the seductive smell that is penetrating her young body" like whuuuuut?