Amberlynn Reid - 600 pound pathological liar and U-Haul lesbian moving in with her next live-in maid/nurse/girlfriend.

[formerfatcow]

I'm assuming she put down the deposit, or gave Becky cash towards it.

I'm not in the US so this is a generalisation, but even with ID and a bank account (far as we know, she has neither) AL has no creditworthiness - no fixed, secure income, no employer, no job history worth speaking of, no assets, no collateral and multiple living situations. Nobody cares where the initial cold, hard cash comes from and the rest could be a loan to Becks from the dealer/a lender, with an informal arrangement between them that AL will contribute towards payments. But with no assets nor secure income, Becks is likely paying a higher interest rate for an unsecured loan and may have had to put down a higher deposit. The specifics for each country differ, but that's yer basics. Higher risk = worse deal. They probably will pay thru the nose for that car.

Tl;dr. It's Becky's car which Amber has appropriated and considers "hers" because she contributed. In normal-land, it's not hers or even theirs.

That makes a lot more sense. It's Becky's car entirely then. AL made it sound like she co-signed for the car or something.

 

[Tiny Clanger]

@formerfatcow I take any mention of "ours" with about as much salt as she rams in her revolting cooking. Frankly it's incredible she doesn't refer to Becky's car as "mine." She appropriates everything else...

With that, it's quite incredible how she brushes off ownership of all that she IS responsible for. The car, house, pets, friends, goodies etc are AL's; the worry, stress, bills and "weight loss journey" are all Becky's responsibility. Sharing makes you feel good

 

[autistic boogaloo]

wow what an absolute dumpster fire

 

[Dovahshit]

@formerfatcow I take any mention of "ours" with about as much salt as she rams in her revolting cooking. Frankly it's incredible she doesn't refer to Becky's car as "mine." She appropriates everything else...

With that, it's quite incredible how she brushes off ownership of all that she IS responsible for. The car, house, pets, friends, goodies etc are AL's; the worry, stress, bills and "weight loss journey" are all Becky's responsibility. Sharing makes you feel good

things are only hers when she doesnt have to do anything for it

 

[sweaty chafing thighs]

I'm assuming she put down the deposit, or gave Becky cash towards it.

I'm not in the US so this is a generalisation, but even with ID and a bank account (far as we know, she has neither) AL has no creditworthiness - no fixed, secure income, no employer, no job history worth speaking of, no assets, no collateral and multiple living situations. Nobody cares where the initial cold, hard cash comes from and the rest could be a loan to Becks from the dealer/a lender, with an informal arrangement between them that AL will contribute towards payments. But with no assets nor secure income, Becks is likely paying a higher interest rate for an unsecured loan and may have had to put down a higher deposit. The specifics for each country differ, but that's yer basics. Higher risk = worse deal. They probably will pay thru the nose for that car.

Tl;dr. It's Becky's car which Amber has appropriated and considers "hers" because she contributed. In normal-land, it's not hers or even theirs.

Considering they got a Hyundai Accent (which a simple search shows a used 2016 Hyundai Accent SE with 16,352 miles for $8,900 or a 2008 with 82,132 miles for $4,500) which is pretty much the most bargain of bargain cars to begin with, I 100% believe the dealership only showed them 2-3 cars that would fit their loan budget due to their credit worthyness (probably a loan of $10k since that's usually the most lenders are willing to fork out for shitty credit and also the bare minimum you can really get, from what I've been told). The car was probably in the neighborhood of $10,500-11,000 and then with tax, tag, and title out the door cost them closer to $13k (there goes that money down!). With a shitty credit score which I have no problem believing they have they'll pay far more than the car is worth. Lol. Sucks to have fucked up credit.

ETA: From what I remember lenders require a car that has less than 100k miles and is made within the last 10 years. I thought I saw a glimpse of the mileage on the car in one of her vlogs shortly after they bought it and the mileage was already pretty high. If I'm remembering correctly, that leads me to believe they either got an older car or they got a car that has been driven like crazy.

 

[Several guys]

What a piece of sh*t person Amberlynn is! She said that she and Becky had plans to spend Valentine's Day together but then Destiny wanted the 4 of them to go on a double date.

I feel so bad for Becky. She deserves better than the crap she's putting up with. I know she's a grown ass woman but I think she puts up with it because she feels she has no other choice. She's gone down hill so bad since hooking up with Amberlynn . Now she doesn't even have a damn job!

"Weight loss Journey" biggest joke Amberlynn has ever told. She didn't even last a month and she had already started going out to eat again and binged twice....THAT WE KNOW OF. Now she's acting like she's still on point with the whole thing. No honey, the only thing she's on point with is falling off the wagon!

 

[SpokesBottom]

This may be an unpopular opinion, but i don't think she's really an animal hoarder

I can’t think of her as an animal hoarder when there’s an entire community on Youtube full of people who’s main goal seems to be who can own the most pets. There’s all these dumb kids with 10-80 pets each and they love talking about how crazy and weird they are. Far as I’m concerned Amber has slightly above the average amount of animals for one person who is single and doesn’t have a family

 

[cremeeggs]

I don't think this has been written before, I wanted to draw your attention to two of Eric's videos:

In the recent VLOGENTINES DAY! video, at 10:04 you can hear someone shouting/screaming, whom sounds a lot like Amberlynn.

In GRAY MATTERS, at 25:15 you can also hear some kind of shouting, but that could just be her obnoxiously loud laugh.

It could be nothing, but having experienced abuse myself, the shouting gives me goosebumps.

 

[Awkwafina]

I feel so bad for Becky. She deserves better than the crap she's putting up with. I know she's a grown ass woman but I think she puts up with it because she feels she has no other choice. She's gone down hill so bad since hooking up with Amberlynn . Now she doesn't even have a job!

The way some of you treat/talk about Becky is so bizarre to me. Not only is she an adult who whillingly entered into a relationship with Amber but she’s done absolutely nothing to set boundaries and maintain her life after Amber moved in. Not only that - she enables Amber and she herself has a history of using her girlfriends for money. The mentality surrounding her like she has to be protected and like she just accidentally started dating Amber as if she has no agency and no blame in this is so wild. She’s just as much of an lolcow as anyone else on the farms in reality I mean look at who she lives with (Eric and Rickie are weird low key cows too) and what she does. I don’t see her eating separately from Amber, or encouraging Amber to walk and stop vlogging and to see a doctor, etc.

 

[jurassic bark]

I don't think this has been written before, I wanted to draw your attention to two of Eric's videos:

In the recent VLOGENTINES DAY! video, at 10:04 you can hear someone shouting/screaming, whom sounds a lot like Amberlynn.

In GRAY MATTERS, at 25:15 you can also hear some kind of shouting, but that could just be her obnoxiously loud laugh.

It could be nothing, but having experienced abuse myself, the shouting gives me goosebumps.

I don't watch her vids or those of anyone involved bc of the amount of cringe, it's like watching a belligerent drunk throwing a tantrum at White Castle at 2am- actually, it basically is watching exactly that.

 

[SpokesBottom]

Slightly off-topic, but since I mentioned that all AL seems to play are party and racing games like Mario Party 7 and Mario Kart 8, does anyone else think that Al is the most obnoxious person to play video games with? From watching Eric’s first video both of them were screeching and being annoying so I doubt either of them would be tolerable to sit with, but she strikes me as someone who can’t stand to lose

 

[666EVE666]

The way some of you treat/talk about Becky is so bizarre to me. Not only is she an adult who whillingly entered into a relationship with Amber but she’s done absolutely nothing to set boundaries and maintain her life after Amber moved in. Not only that - she enables Amber and she herself has a history of using her girlfriends for money. The mentality surrounding her like she has to be protected and like she just accidentally started dating Amber as if she has no agency and no blame in this is so wild. She’s just as much of an lolcow as anyone else on the farms in reality I mean look at who she lives with (Eric and Rickie are weird low key cows too) and what she does. I don’t see her eating separately from Amber, or encouraging Amber to walk and stop vlogging and to see a doctor, etc.

Not to mention Becky was warned about Amber's shenanigans. Rafe looked up AL once Becky told her about Amber and warned Becky. Becky enables Amber and backs up her lies. I guess she comes off as more likable compared to Amber and was portrayed as being shy/humble when first introduced as a new "character" as Amber likes to call the people in her life.

Becky is a pushover. She may be being abused by Amber, if that's the case then I feel for her as I would for any other person who is a victim of any kind of abuse. I just can't bring myself to feel bad for her or relate to her or whatever the fuck it is that makes people like her because she knew Amber was shitty--her best friend of a decade warned her of this. She enables Amber to be shitty to the people around her and her pets.

As much as people claim that ~omg Becky is so good for AL~, what evidence is there of this? Amber has only ballooned and her character has not improved, her animals situation has not improved. If anything, the positive effect Becky had on Amber was giving her a new place to wallow around in--and even so, like @Awkwafina said, Becky has a history of using girlfriends for money so that can't even be portrayed as being altruistic.

Becky is complicit in all of Amber's bullshit, and if you had any doubt of that it should have been clear when she started shit-talking Kasey on YouNow with Amber. Should have been clear when Becky supported Amber not properly caring for her pets. She will back Amber up on anything.

And if that didn't make you really think about Becky, who the fuck wants to get involved with a 500 lb woman who's only claim to fame is her weight and falsely accusing her ex of rape?

 

[jurassic bark]

Slightly off-topic, but since I mentioned that all AL seems to play are party and racing games like Mario Party 7 and Mario Kart 8, does anyone else think that Al is the most obnoxious person to play video games with? From watching Eric’s first video both of them were screeching and being annoying so I doubt either of them would be tolerable to sit with, but she strikes me as someone who can’t stand to lose

Dude. She was totally the kid who turned off the console when other people started winning.

 

[SweetHoneyIcedTea]

I'm lowkey new to watching her videos and this thread, so maybe this has already been brought up, but omg, she made some references to things we were saying on this thread in her last video.

Makes me wonder if she actually Googles herself, or keeps tabs on everything we discuss.

So, anyways, HI AMBER

 

[Several guys]

Holllllld up!!!!

Im missing something here. Becky has a history of using girlfriends for money??? Somebody fill me in on this please....

Becky SUPPORTED Amberlynn on YouNow with the rape allegations?

Damn, I've apparently missed A LOT!

I've been supportive of Becky mainly because I've felt sorry for her.

 

[Tear People Up]

I'm lowkey new to watching her videos and this thread, so maybe this has already been brought up, but omg, she made some references to things we were saying on this thread in her last video.

Makes me wonder if she actually Googles herself, or keeps tabs on everything we discuss.

So, anyways, HI AMBER

She reads here.

 

[jurassic bark]

Holllllld up!!!!

Im missing something here. Becky has a history of using girlfriends for money??? Somebody fill me in on this please....

Becky SUPPORTED Amberlynn on YouNow with the rape allegations?

Damn, I've apparently missed A LOT!

I've been supportive of Becky mainly because I've felt sorry for her.

Necky did some pruning of her fb account but people have taken screens of she and Eric shit talking ex's, complete with pictures of soiled panties on public posts, and idk about the financial using bc I haven't seen anything myself, but I do recall her admitting that she's afraid of being alone and will fake whatever a partner wants of her to stay in a relationship.

I don't doubt that she uses people for money, just don't wanna vouch for anything I haven't seen screens of.

 

[Shallow_Hal]

I know this is very off topic but I can’t wait for summer! AL has never lived with average sized people , her age, and you know the queens are going to want Becky to come along to the lake and such with them. We know AL hates being in the heat , because her weight (obvi) so Becky is going to have to always choose between AL or her friends/roommates. This is going to cause huge tension and put an even bigger wedge between them. It’s not going to end well and my prediction is either Becky & AL move OR they break up. You can tell just from short snipets of the vlogs that Becky is so fed up and annoyed with AL. I was just thinking about summer and how shitty it must be to be obese in the heat, which led me to think about how miserable AL will be this summer lol :powerlevel::powerlevel: yes , I know , power level, off topic, Maybe we will witness AL attempting to swim at the lake :islamic:

 

[SweetHoneyIcedTea]

Amber forcibly inserting herself into what seemed to be a private conversation between Necky and Eric gave me the ultimate second-hand embarrassment.

 

[Long time lurker]

Not to mention Becky was warned about Amber's shenanigans. Rafe looked up AL once Becky told her about Amber and warned Becky.

I don't trust Rafe. I don't trust Becky or Eric either, but that's beside the point. Unless Rafe showed screen caps of that conversation, I don't think this happened.

That said, we have more than enough evidence that Becky isn't a decent person. She was publicly humiliating an ex-girlfriend on FB. She lied plenty of times to cover up for Amber, and she - at best - checked out about Amber's behaviour, or at worst doesn't give a shit.

If Becky started this relationship hoping to get something out of it she was mistaken. I have no doubt that she's being abused and that she's uncomfortable around Amber*. Although a part of me (small and shrinking by the second) feels sorry for her, Becky's situation is all of her own doing and I can't feel very sorry for her.

* Back in the fall last year, when Eric did his pumpkin patch video, people noticed how Becky's demeanor was different while interacting with the boys. Her excuse back then was that she was more comfortable around them because she had known them for years.
I've tried to watch D&D's video and noticed that Becky is much more relaxed around them than she is on Amber's videos.