Lolcow Andrew Peter Carlson / Anaiah Carlson / Tamarlover / Xtamarlover - Jewish/Christian Wannabe Cult Leader, Stalker, Ugly af, dogfucker, mayor of spitsville

[Anaiah Carlson]

If you make the person fear for their safety and keep on going when they tell you to stop, it's abuse. I guess it would be possible to stalk someone without scaring them or putting them in harm's way (like if you gathered information on someone without telling them about it or doing anything with it) but let's face it, that almost never happens and you've definitely made Tamar feel unsafe. Stalking is not a good thing.

You'd be surprised at how lousy some licensed mental health professionals are at their jobs. Therapists often listen to whatever the patient has to say instead of focusing on the problem.

No, you're causing yourself psychological harm by feeding your obsession. Tamar isn't responsible for your feelings.

She's responsible because she wrongly ended friendship. She will never be justified for doing that ever. She claims i have made her fear for her safety, yet she is trying to sue me. Evidently she's not truly afraid for her safety or else she wouldn't be suing me like this.

 

[AnOminous]

Also medication doesn't solve all problems. Like is there some magical drug that makes you not stalk someone?

 

[repentance]

You'd be surprised at how lousy some licensed mental health professionals are at their jobs. Therapists often listen to whatever the patient has to say instead of focusing on the problem.

tbf it's also not clear whether this is a therapist he's going to be seeing on a long-term basis because he wants to deal with his issues or a "cash for opinion" person he's seeing in attempt to mitigate legal consequences.

She's responsible because she wrongly ended friendship. She will never be justified for doing that ever. She claims i have made her fear for her safety, yet she is trying to sue me. Evidently she's not truly afraid for her safety or else she wouldn't be suing me like this.

She does not need a reason to end a friendship, much less a reason which is acceptable to you. Your belief that people don't have the right to end relationships for any reason or no reason at all is something you should discuss with your therapist.

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

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Remember the other day you said you wouldn't have said what you said if you knew I was going to threaten murder-suicide. Obviously you are a liar.

 

[Jaded Optimist]

@tamarlover thanks for answering my questions

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And it's organic!

 

[💗Freddie Freaker💗]

She's responsible because she wrongly ended friendship. She will never be justified for doing that ever. She claims i have made her fear for her safety, yet she is trying to sue me. Evidently she's not truly afraid for her safety or else she wouldn't be suing me like this.

There are no laws about friendship. People have the right to terminate them whenever they want to. If she wasn't afraid of you, she wouldn't have made her address private.

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

There are no laws about friendship. People have the right to terminate them whenever they want to. If she wasn't afraid of you, she wouldn't have made her address private.

There are moral laws. And if she claims to live by the Bible I will hold her to the standard of the Bible. she is obligated to be my friend or else she is in sin according to the bible.


Why is she still making her address private even though I know where she lives? Because she doesn't want people like kiwi creeps and others to harass her.

 

[💗Freddie Freaker💗]

There are moral laws. And if she claims to live by the Bible I will hold her to the standard of the Bible. she is obligated to be my friend or else she is in sin according to the bible.

Where does the bible say anything about that stuff?

 

[repentance]

Where does the bible say anything about that stuff?

The same place where it says that coveting and stalking another's wife is just fine, I'd guess (or in one of the supersekrit books of the Bible he's going to re-write).

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

Matthew 5 "43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, 45 that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. 46 For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? 47 And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others? Do not even the tax collectors do so? 48 Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect."

Luke 17 "3 Take heed to yourselves. If your brother sins against you, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him. 4 And if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times in a day returns to you, saying, ‘I repent,’ you shall forgive him.”"

Matthew 6 "14 “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."

Matthew 5 "23 Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24 leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift. 25 Agree with your adversary quickly, while you are on the way with him, lest your adversary deliver you to the judge, the judge hand you over to the officer, and you be thrown into prison. 26 Assuredly, I say to you, you will by no means get out of there till you have paid the last penny."

Tamar is obligated to love me as a friend, to do good to me, to pray for me, or else she directly defies the teachings of jesus. Furthermore, if I sin against Tamar, every time i sincerely and truly ask for forgiveness she is commanded to forgive me and if she doesn't forgive me, her sins won't be forgiven.

If I have something against her, she needs to first be reconciled with me, otherwise she has no business trying to try to make gifts for God.

 

[gummy]

Tamar is obligated to love me as a friend, to do good to me, to pray for me, or else she directly defies the teachings of jesus.

Just because it's in the Bible doesn't mean she's legally obligated to love you. Why does she have to obey everything in the Bible but it's perfectly ok for you to be so lustful and sinful?

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

The extent of my lust is not acceptable and is wrong of me. But my pursuit of her friendship is not sinful as far as I know.

i realize that just because its in the bible she's not obligated to abide by it, but I happen to agree with what the bible says on my own terms and my own experience i agree that it is immoral what she is doing by refusing friendship. we have no right to reject friendship with someone for no valid reason.

 

[AnOminous]

Remember the other day you said you wouldn't have said what you said if you knew I was going to threaten murder-suicide. Obviously you are a liar.

I wouldn't have. But this time you walked right into it.

 

[repentance]

we have no right to reject friendship with someone for no valid reason.

She *has* a valid reason. You're an obsessive psycho who wants to own and control her. You maliciously try to disrupt her life. That isn't friendship and she has every right to reject it, regardless of your self-serving interpretations of scripture.

And how are the teachings of Christ even relevant if you're Jewish?

Out of all our cows, you remain the one we're most likely to read about in the media.

 

[gummy]

The extent of my lust is not acceptable and is wrong of me. But my pursuit of her friendship is not sinful as far as I know.

i realize that just because its in the bible she's not obligated to abide by it, but I happen to agree with what the bible says on my own terms and my own experience i agree that it is immoral what she is doing by refusing friendship. we have no right to reject friendship with someone for no valid reason.

Yeah but doesn't that interpretation of the Bible mean that a man could just stalk any random woman he sees and she'd go to hell for not immediately giving him a chance at friendship and love? After all, she's obligated to trust him wholeheartedly and have no right to be disinterested in his advances. Or else her sins won't be forgiven and she's going to hell forever!

 

[Rumpled Foreskin]

Just because it's in the Bible doesn't mean she's legally obligated to love you. Why does she have to obey everything in the Bible but it's perfectly ok for you to be so lustful and sinful?

"Rules for thee, but not for me."- Andrew 4:20

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

She *has* a valid reason. You're an obsessive psycho who wants to own and control her. You maliciously try to disrupt her life. That isn't friendship and she has every right to reject it, regardless of your self-serving interpretations of scripture.

And how are the teachings of Christ even relevant if you're Jewish?

Out of all our cows, you remain the one we're most likely to read about in the media.

I didn't act like this until AFTER she ended friendship with me. So the wrong of ending friendship happened BEFORE any questionable stalking took place. So she did the evil against me first. Melinda and Marshall are pseudo-Jews. They believe in Christ but pretend they are jews.

 

[Rumpled Foreskin]

I didn't act like this until AFTER she ended friendship with me. So the wrong of ending friendship happened BEFORE any questionable stalking took place. So she did the evil against me first. Melinda and Marshall are pseudo-Jews. They believe in Christ but pretend they are jews.

Yo, I know your degenerate ass believes in zombie super hero Jesus, but could you just calm down for the rest of us believers? Jesus fucking Christ, mate.

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

Yeah but doesn't that interpretation of the Bible mean that a man could just stalk any random woman he sees and she'd go to hell for not immediately giving him a chance at friendship and love? After all, she's obligated to trust him wholeheartedly and have no right to be disinterested in his advances. Or else her sins won't be forgiven and she's going to hell forever!

Some stalking is acceptable and some is not. A man is never allowed to threaten to physically hurt a woman or to threaten to do sins against a woman. A man can threaten to do morally acceptable things which are undesired by the woman if it is with a morally good end goal and purpose. a man is never allowed to say to a woman he's never been in a relationship with that she must marry him or that she must be with him. she has the right to be with the man she wants to be with provided she has not been married to you before. If she's been married to you before, then depending on the circumstances you have a right to demand her to not marry any other person, but you still cannot threaten to hurt her if she marries someone else even though she has no right to do so.

Out of all our cows, you remain the one we're most likely to read about in the media.

Nobel peace prize

 

[Jaded Optimist]

I didn't act like this until AFTER she ended friendship with me. So the wrong of ending friendship happened BEFORE any questionable stalking took place. So she did the evil against me first. Melinda and Marshall are pseudo-Jews. They believe in Christ but pretend they are jews.

Uhh... while you were friends you still obsessively contacted her love interests and tried to break them up. You also posted online claiming she was a prostitute, and didn't you pretend to be her?

That sounds very much like she gave you several chances and you kept doing "evil" towards her.

I'm confused about your disapproval of her belief on Christ, you have quoted Jesus repeatedly and seem to follow his teachings in the same manner as a christian