Anyone here who became more homophobic and transphobic over the years (eg: changing your opinion on gay marriage and stuff?)

[God's drunkest driver]

As a child I was raised to be tolerant and empathetic, I had a gay aunt. Through about my third year of college I was apathetic towards but understanding of homosexuals. I had a fairly close lesbian friend in high school who I hung out with, she made me realize that lesbians are quite abusive to each other, and after repeatedly being cheated on by her girlfriend we became friends with benefits for a while until a new girl came into her life. She was a good friend. Things started to change in the 201Xs when it started to become clear that equality and marriage wasn't enough. I always disliked the existence of pride parades and when I started to hear about the degeneracy going on there and the bug chasers I started to become revolted at them, the "bake the cake, bigot" saga cemented my primal disgust for gays. My revulsion only grew with time. Troons were always something I was disgusted by and ridiculed, when they started rising to prominence I began to actively despise the LGBT "community". The final nail in the coffin was when my younger sister, one of my only surviving family members, came out as trans. She was always histrionic and maybe unstable, and she was no doubt groomed in middle and high school, but I was in college and only knew she was getting involved with the LGBT rights club, nothing more. She's trooned out now, a fat test injecting aiden and it hurts me immensely to know I will lose her. I hate what they did to her and do not willingly tolerate or interact with gays or transgenders anymore, I don't do business with them, I don't hire them, I don't consume their content or patronize their businesses.

The Christian way to go about it is to still love your neighbor no matter what and still offer your hand if they're in need. This was something I had to learn, and I totally believe every decent human being deserves to live the life they strive for as long as it doesn't affect other people's way of living.

But evil needs to be called out for what it is. This push to legalize child abuse is fucking unacceptable and everyone in support of it deserves the bullet. Even those who don't agree with it but are just sitting back and not doing a damn thing to stop their fellow peers out of fear of becoming pariahs are part of the problem and need an ass-kicking or to also be removed from society. Those being silenced on the regular need to keep at it and push back harder lest they get lumped into the gulags as well.

I know some decent, albeit lost (in life), gay individuals, and I hope they'll get to live long, peaceful lives. If it ever comes out they were harming children or don't think the propaganda exists, however, I'm not going to miss their company.

Do I want them all to be rounded up and gassed? I don't wish for it, but when keeping in mind the last few years of unabashed debauchery and government complacency, and the bizarre yet insane call to end heterosexuality and my complete erasure as a woman, I'd completely understand why it would have to come to this.

This is my biggest struggle, I hate what they're doing to our country, our children, but as a Christian I struggle with the sin of wrath here.

 

[Kermit Jizz]

the "normal" gays and troons don't do anything to distance themselves from these people

This above all else is what made walk back any support I had for fags. The extreme degenerates have always been a minority, they were just pushed by the msm. But the fact remains that the vast overwhelming majority of gays will defend the extreme parts of their community. It would be bad enough to say nothing, but I've known enough "regular" gays that freak the fuck out if you simply acknowledge the fact that half of pedos are gay.

They would rather shield the literal child rapists in their community than risk any negative attention coming to their community. They're more concerned with preserving their right to openly fuck each other's assholes than preventing children from getting raped. That's enough for me to hate them.

 

[Chao Garden]

I have always been violently homophobic, I actually had a mild sjw phase in 2014-2015, but even back then I just could not bring myself to be okay with the gay. fuck dem gays
also always hated troons but at one point I used to think "weeeell maybe the troons who put in more effort aren't too bad, some troons are actually pretty based, I'll humor their pronouns" but now I must misgender and deadname every tranny. even the "le heckin' based truscum" trannie's. No matter how much surgery and hormones they get they will never be real women/men

 

[ZsaZsaBinks]

I don’t agree with gay marriage anymore. I feel like wanting gay marriage to be legalized was only for equality, because gay males in particular have multiple sexual partners. I also don’t like seeing gays acting like freaks in public or at pride.

 

[SSj_Ness (Yiffed)]

By time I joined KF I had long hated faggots and trannies, but now I hate them more seeing news articles and such which don't get much attention elsewhere.

At no point did I ever like fags and trannies, at best I was willing to begrudgingly tolerate them if they just stayed out of media and away from kids, but that's the two things they did most was invade media and groom children, so that olive branch was burned.

 

[XYZpdq Jr.]

I've known enough boring gays to know there's a bit of the "silent majority" type thing where they got marriage and then fucked off and went home to be boring married people, which has a lot to do with how Pride went from really gay to HOLY FUCKING SHIT TURBO HYPER GAY.

I still feel the country should have fuckall to do with marriage. There's bullshit like income tax and medical insurance tied to it, for that make it a civil union for everybody and then your "marriage" is over at your church or whatever.

As for trans for me it was more I knew one or two old school transgenders who just wanted to live passing and be left the fuck alone on the daily but would let their hair down at Rocky Horror, so I'm aware of the difference of the modern attention whore perv crowd.

I'd say it's more that they became more phobable?

 

[Billy_Sama!]

I think any group that downplays the actions of bad members will always give me a negative opinion.

 

[Overly Serious]

I don’t agree with gay marriage anymore. I feel like wanting gay marriage to be legalized was only for equality, because gay males in particular have multiple sexual partners. I also don’t like seeing gays acting like freaks in public or at pride.

I don't approve of gay marriage Marriage is defined as a relationship between two people who are monogamous.

(I don't care about lesbian marriage. We really need to consolidate gay and lesbian as being different things because it makes it too difficult to talk about gay issues when gay men and lesbian women have such different behaviour patterns and, likely, causes).

 

[There Is Light At The End]

Yes. I have passed "live and let live" point few years ago, when fags, troons and dykes openly surfaced in everything. Internet, videogames, movies.

 

[Seafarer]

I’m like many others in this thread in that I was raised to be very tolerant towards homosexuals, and told that they were no different than heterosexuals except they happened to love people of the same gender. Over the years though, I have begun to see how degenerate the gay community is and have reevaluated much of my beliefs. I think the first thing I saw that made me realize the degeneracy problem was the Mr Metokur video of bugchasers, that shit is fucking gross and I wasn’t even aware of the extent of the role gays played in the AIDS epidemic as I’m sure older Kiwis were aware of.

I’m still somewhat sympathetic to lesbians and gays (especially the former) and vastly prefer them to trannies, but at the end of the day I think all these groups are symptomatic of a deeper cultural problem.

 

[ForkyMeetsPorky]

After Glenn Greenwald video I came to the conclusion that even the most conservative gays get up to disturbing shit. I shudder to think what Douglas Murray does.

 

[Retarded Weeb]

I used to lean towards the belief that gays are born that way intrinsically, cause I mean hormones and brain abnormalities can do weird shit and it makes as much sense as anything. But after all the things I've seen in coomer communities with how fluid people's sexuality can be with gaining new fetishes up to and including turning bisexual in at least certain circumstances, I've come to the conclusion that homosexuality is mostly a sexual perversion and not something equivalent in kind to heterosexual attraction. Bisexuals are just horny fuckers who don't care and they mostly want heterosexual relationships even if they're also turned on by the same sex, and many pure homosexuals seem to that way due to sexual trauma in the past making them adverse to the opposite sex, given how many of them will tell you they were abused by a man when they were young.

Even saying that, I wouldn't say I care that much about gays one way or the other. If you want to get fucked in the ass privately then I'm no more interested and stopping you or punishing you for it than I am if you wanted to for example eat shit in your private time because you're a scat fetishist. It's gross but nothing inherently morally wrong. But if you went around advertising your scat fetish in public and trying to teach kids about it or get people to praise you for it, then people would have quite a problem with you even if you're straight, and I would say doing that for your homosexual proclivities is much the same. With this all in mind, I'll say I don't care if you want have gay sex so long as you understand that

A. You don't get to act like a massive faggot in public. People aren't tolerant of straights having sex or flaunting their fetishes in public, even say furries get side-eyed even when they're not doing anything overtly sexual, there's no reason for homos to be except from this.
B. I know you guys have way too many pedos among you and way too many of you became gay due to the trauma of getting molested by a kid, so I'm going to be weary to outright disapproving of you wanting to do anything that specifically involves kids.

Additionally, I never had a problem with the idea of gay marriage when I was young, but now I think there's good reason to draw a line in the sand over it. I'm sympathetic if you have some edge case scenario like "Oh, I want to visit my gay lover in the hospital but they'll allow in a spouse or blood relative", but we don't need to redefine marriage entirely just to be accommodating to a few niche situations like that. Marriage became a thing in every human culture because men and women have children together and marriage is a formal acknowledgement of the family unit, and a way to strengthen the commitment of said unit because there's much social and emotional damage caused by breaking it (ex. by one partner cheating on the other). Gay relationship can't have kids. You're not a family unit, you're effectively a couple of really close friends who fuck. And given my points up above, I don't think it's wise to trust most of you with adopting kids. There's no reason for society to treat gay relationships as equivalent to straight ones in this regard. And given how homos don't seem to even be very appreciative of gay marriage, what with many gay guys being manwhores who just want to sleep around forever and lesbians always abusing each other and getting divorced, it's clear the whole thing is just a way to get society to symbolically bend the knee to them. So fuck it.

I'm not even going to get into trannies. All I'll say is that I casually believed "inner sex" that mismatches your body might be a thing when I was young, reading Tumblr bullshit in the mid-2010s made me come to the conclusion that the idea of "gender identity" is bullshit and trannies actually just want attention or have some other mental disorder they're covering up, and the more I've seen since then has left me convinced that trannies are possibly the worst people on the planet judged broadly as a group.

 

[Merton J. Dingle]

After Glenn Greenwald video I came to the conclusion that even the most conservative gays get up to disturbing shit. I shudder to think what Douglas Murray does.

In fairness, Glenn Greenwald is a huge grifter that has done many heel turns in his life to chase where the money was in the current state of the culture, so I wouldn't be quick to categorize him as a gay conservative. The fact that he's done exactly what many other online grifters have done was obscured by his maintaining an opposition to Jair Bolsonaro while engaging in alt-lite type grifting. However, that was only because of Bolsonaro's dislike of gay people and his husband belonging to an opposition party. Glenn Greenwald is best understood as the living embodiment of the most stereotypical negative traits of Jews and gays. Just as he follows the pattern of the cartoonish greedy Jew willing to do whatever it takes to make money, one should not be surprised that he does totally laughable, degenerate stuff in his sex life.

 

[Barry Williams]

There's a difference between gay people and faggots. I'm fine with gay people, but I hate faggots. You can be gay and not a faggot, however if you're a tranny then you're always a faggot 100% of the time. I have never, not once, met a trans person who was not just the most disgusting and detestable person ever.

I spent quite a while in a social circle of mixed orientations and interests. I never really had an issue with homosexual people, but even before the "TQ+" menace I always seemed to get a very off putting vibe from transsexuals. That wariness only continued to snowball and ramp up as I was exposed to more and more of their depravity and incessant tone policing / trashing of every hobby under the fucking sun today I unironically support unilateral TTD. (The concept of it, as in stripping them of access to women's spaces, access to healthcare services that I pay for with MY taxes, barring them from teaching or working with children in any capacity, etc. That's what "TTD" means to me, but I also couldn't care less if they were rounded up and sent to Auschwitz II.)

Never did I ever see myself becoming such a hardline conservative over matters such as these. I've always been very supportive of social causes and safety nets for things like welfare -- under the stipulation that the people receiving this assistance actually need it and it is dispersed fairly. Thanks to the Democrat party, that hasn't been the case for a very long time and I will never, ever, vote for a liberal candidate again as long as I live. The tap needs to be shut off, and everyone responsible for trashing these programs needs to be hanged.

 

[Fashionable Vice]

Never cared about it. Why should I?
Then those people force me to care about it and see what kind of shit they are proud of.

 

[No-Eyed Square Guy]

Always been fine with perverts living in their worlds of shit. Don't even mind if those worlds are open to visitors. People are all kinds of fucked up, and gawkers gonna gawk. Whatever.

But any kind of fag who pretends to be normal, sane, or innocent, which they only do to intrude on the lives of those who really are those things, should get rooftopped.

 

[pyrinyx]

My worldview on trannies have soured for a few years now, it is because they've grown rather obnoxious. About as obnoxious as Black Lives Matter. They are the reason I've stopped caring for and associating with the LGBTQ community as a whole because they've tainted it. They've tainted it, taken it over and radicalized it to just be about them. It's not the LGBTQ anymore, it's the Trans Movement.

I was one day listening to Howard Stern clips where he was fighting with callers, and he was arguing with this offended woman caller. This caller was going on about how Howard makes fun of LGBTQ, didn't care for them blah what the fuck ever. And she dropped a line that explains the problem with that community, she went on to say how there aren't "enough Al Sharptons" in the community.

First off, Al Sharpton is a fucking racist nigger. He is an uppity nigger who has spent his time, going around and putting down people who he believes puts down the black man. When it is him going around and stirring the pot to make himself look good and reap the rewards, forcing people to apologize and shit. He is not the guy you look up to for your community, to have progress with. Martin Luther King Jr and Malcolm X he is not.

Al Sharpton didn't care about rights for black people, least at all, anything that is worthwhile. We're talking the kinds of "rights" where "THEY NOT A LOT BLACK PEOPLE ON TV!" or "THERE NOT A LOT OF BLACK PEOPLE DOMINATING EVERY SPORT KNOWN TO MAN!" when there are concrete examples that prove against the contrary.

So when I heard that line from the caller, I realize that's exactly the problem going on with LGBTQ and the Trans Movement. They aren't being championed by people who have a broad and sane mechanism in their brains as to where the community goes and what way can be done to progress itself. They are fronted by Al Sharpton wannabes who are empowered by extremism to shove the idea and belief of Trans and LGBTQ down everyone's throats.

When that kind of method, has been making people like me, grow more intolerant towards them than it is making me accept them. I have been around trans people before, I've dated a couple and you know what? They're more concerned about their prissy little titles than anything else, they don't have themselves figured out because they're too confused on how they actually want to live with how the chemicals in their brain have shifted to where they're behaving abnormally. It's a mental issue, not a cause. They use their Trans status as just a shield that they think will ward off any negatives about their characteristics when they're just shitty people. There are too many of those types around.

So I'm not sorry, I'm not going to parade for Trans anything. Clean your fucking self up or don't and be like the furries who say things but won't do them if it means a benefit to their community.

 

[Book Thief]

On gays, I don't really care what two consenting adults do in the privacy of their own bedroom. That much hasn't really changed. What has is learning that far too many of them live up to stereotypes like being incredibly promiscuous and giving zero fucks about spreading STDs. If your attitude is that anyone asking you if you're "clean" is "harmful" to the gay community, then you deserve a fucking bullet.

On troons, though, Kiwifarms has definitely "peaked" me on the issue. Before I found this site, I was tolerant of the idea and believed that maybe there's merit to the idea that someone could be "born in the wrong body." However, having been exposed to the various horrors of their community, combined with them becoming moderators in practically every online community, forcing everyone to walk on eggshells lest they be excommunicated, as well as becoming political extremists who think anyone who disagrees with them on the notion of "a man in a dress is literally a woman" is a Nazi who deserves to be assaulted, definitely made me feel like the community needs to severely fuck off and die.

 

[fist_of_khonshu]

As a young teenager, I was Transphobic and still am. I always saw it as some form of mental illness or a way to distinguish onesself from the norm in order to seem quirky. Still do. But I went to an alternative school where they encouraged and pushed that sort of thing so I could never express myself on the matter. It was absolutely abysmal.
In terms of homophobia, I have no issues with gays. What I have an issue with is how entitled, smug and superior they act just because they are faggots. It feels like I have to walk on eggshells around people because they feel so entitled that everyone accomodate them. I think Pride Months of any kind are just a cope, and I absolutely hate the special treatment fags get because they are fags.

One example, here in Philadelphia, is the "Gayborhood". It is such a nonsensical thing. And every year these fags trash the city and walk around naked with their junk out in front of children during Pride. And when someone tries to say something about it, they try and normalize it. It's disgusting.

 

[GR8 B8 M8 I R8 8/8]

I feel like I've posted this before but what the heck.
I was raised as a Christian and so I've never been truly "okay" with homosexuality, transgenderism and the like. Thing is though, that I mentally can separate the "sin" from the "sinner". Something the left can't comprehend for some reason because they often make their sexuality or gender their entire personality and identity these days.
There was a time where people understood that, but yeah.

I don't hate the people, I hate the sin. The ideology, the perversion and lifestyle.

But I struggle a lot with anger sometimes. I was way more chill with them until they started taking over the Internet, it became a fad and now it's policing everything and everyone and it's just created an absolute horrific section of people who are angry, violent, perverse, predatory and lost.