Are people less polite since Covid?

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This is something I've noticed since we came out of the lock downs.

I live in a medium sized city that always had pretty good manners. People would stop and let other cars in. They would line up without issue. People would say 'excuse me' if they needed to pass someone, etc.

Now that lock downs are over, I'm seeing a lot of people be much more self centered. I saw a 20yo man today flick someone in his way and tell them to move in a grocery store. If I go to a crosswalk a lot more cars will not stop. I rarely see anyone interacting with strangers, particularly if they're young. I don't hear many 'please and thank you's either when I overhear interactions between customers and employees.

Has anyone else noticed this or is my city just shit now?
 
People might be burnt out on empty pleasantries.
Speculation, but maybe people are tired from the preceding years of constant emotional blackmail from every direction to the point that they refuse to pretend to be "nice" purely for other people's benefit anymore, when there are so many entities willing to take advantage of it.

I don't know, to me it's almost felt better because it feels like people are more honest, the content of conversations and interactions involve far less pretense. Everyone seems kind of over it at this point.

Then again that could just be my area. I'm sure in straight up "all liberals and minorities" type cities it's probably all fucking awful.
 
I'm only that way towards mask-wearers. I go out of my way to be as rude to them as possible to make them feel hated and unwelcome wherever and whenever possible. I know what their irrational, superstitious fear wanted to do to me. Note that this doesn't at all apply to the handful of places where people are still forced to wear them.

Other than that, if you're not wearing a mask it'll be no different from 2019 dealing with me.
 
Then again that could just be my area. I'm sure in straight up "all liberals and minorities" type cities it's probably all fucking awful.

I wouldn't want to imagine how people feel in Australia, New Zealand, China, Chinada, and Irelanada feel, given that the first four had even more draconian lockdowns. (I don't know how Ireland handled their lockdowns) But then again, given how long the CCP has lasted, I'd suspect Chinese have gone fully numb and apathetic about those.
 
People might be burnt out on empty pleasantries.
Speculation, but maybe people are tired from the preceding years of constant emotional blackmail from every direction to the point that they refuse to pretend to be "nice" purely for other people's benefit anymore, when there are so many entities willing to take advantage of it.

I don't know, to me it's almost felt better because it feels like people are more honest, the content of conversations and interactions involve far less pretense. Everyone seems kind of over it at this point.

Then again that could just be my area. I'm sure in straight up "all liberals and minorities" type cities it's probably all fucking awful.
Same to be honest. I am someone who hates empty pleasantries because I find politeness to be fucking exhausting and a huge waste of time. Its nice dealing with more people just getting down to the brass tax of a conversation or not bothering to start meaningless ones with me if I am clearly not interested (which I never am).

I do wish the drivers were not so fucking incompetent though and all our wallets didn't get raped by the .0001%.
 
brass tax
Brass tacks. It's a turn of phrase originating from the skill of upholstery.



Anyway, it really comes down to people being done with other people. The past four years exhausted the world's patience more than anything in possibly all of world history. No, Covid was not the worst thing to ever happen to humanity, but it is possibly the most socially stressful thing to happen to humanity. We're all plugged into the internet and can't run away from the news. It got people so upset with everyone not on their side of things, or even people on their side, that a worldwide collective "fuck it" was declared. Society is lower trust than it has been in our lives, and it will continue to be that way until something bad enough happens that we're forced to unite.

I have noticed this, as well, but one side-effect of it probably comes down to the death of the service industry. Have you been in a Best Buy recently? You may see no more than 3 employees out and about. I tried calling the local store to arrange for a return, and it threw me in a call center. Virtually everything is like this, now. I don't think half of the fast food restaurants have even opened their dining rooms. They could, there haven't been any restrictions in 3 years, but they won't do it, because they don't want to hire anybody. All of these people are running businesses with a skeleton crew, and are also having to temper the expectations for an increasingly less patient customer base. That has to create a feedback loop of hatred.
 
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We're all plugged into the internet and can't run away from the news. It got people so upset with everyone not on their side of things, or even people on their side, that a worldwide collective "fuck it" was declared. Society is lower trust than it has been in our lives, and it will continue to be that way until something bad enough happens that we're forced to unite.
That brings up an interesting point. People naturally don't want to be around negativity, but when negativity is around you, what is left to do but tolerate it or just shut out of it? You have people trying to make ends meet with a troubling economy while walking on eggshells of the next overreaction.

Really, you have to look out for YOU and your interests at this point. Perhaps it's for the best that you develop apathy just to save yourself from overload.
 
I think covid "mindbroke" many if not the vast majority of people, it lasted too damn long and in retrospective I feel governments did some shit on purpose just to test how much they could push their populations without them rebelling.

At the end many realized they lost a good 2-3 years of their lives forever. Marriages failed during this shit, families got separated, kids and adults killed themselves. They got told to 'trust the science' but the science changed every week.

Many got duped to get 6 doses of an experimental vaccine that at best does not work and at worst...........who knows.

I feel there's a metric fuckton of rage simmering under the surface.
 
Maybe, but they've always been shitty, hard to tell. I do use COVID to mentally justify being less polite myself, like I stopped holding doors open for people because half the time a guy will give me a weird look or a woman will give me a bitchy expression.
 
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Piggy backing off this topic, I've noticed the quality of worker has drastically declined as well. Sure, there were lazy High School students, but it is extending to adults as well now. I don't think I've seen a lazier bunch of workers before or maybe they are burnt out because most of these employees were "essential".
 
The lockdowns destroyed the illusion of the rule of law.

People were told to lockdown for a "deadly" virus, unless of course you were protesting for Black Lives Matter, because "social justice" was more important. Or you're a politician eating at a fancy restaurant or partying it up. Then we had Biden gaslighting us about inflation, and massive censorship regarding vaccine effectiveness and side effects. Then I turn on the TV and it's always niggers and troons.

I just don't give a fuck about society anymore.
 
That brings up an interesting point. People naturally don't want to be around negativity, but when negativity is around you, what is left to do but tolerate it or just shut out of it? You have people trying to make ends meet with a troubling economy while walking on eggshells of the next overreaction.

Really, you have to look out for YOU and your interests at this point. Perhaps it's for the best that you develop apathy just to save yourself from overload.
I think that's what finally broke normal, every-day, social cohesion. A TON of people finally figured out that the world we live in, or society, is not a monolith, and this whole shebang can come crashing down the very instant people lose faith in it.

4 years of hysteria is going to lead to multiple decades of fending for oneself. I'm personally fine with that, but most people are not. There's still going to be some vacancy and longing in the hearts of people who want things to "just go back the the way they were", but the genie isn't going back into the bottle for a while yet.

I think covid "mindbroke" many if not the vast majority of people, it lasted too damn long and in retrospective I feel governments did some shit on purpose just to test how much they could push their populations without them rebelling.

At the end many realized they lost a good 2-3 years of their lives forever. Marriages failed during this shit, families got separated, kids and adults killed themselves. They got told to 'trust the science' but the science changed every week.

Many got duped to get 6 doses of an experimental vaccine that at best does not work and at worst...........who knows.

I feel there's a metric fuckton of rage simmering under the surface.
It's probably the biggest psyop of all time, too bad it was years of amateur hour execution, I think it's the duty of everyone now to direct this rage people have, towards the right vector, which is government, and the types of people who go for the type of power that government provides. Your maskie neighbor is not doublemasking in their car, and triplemasking at the supermarket because they care about their health. They're doing it because they crave these draconian and unnatural ways of living. They are trying to impose their (government-designated) will onto you. The only difference between the beginning of the pandemic and now, is that they can't publicly shame you for taking safety into your own hands. They're not the loudest voice in the room anymore, and they know it, but you know that the second you get too close to them, they're going to lose their fucking minds, just to see if someone will harm you for it.

The Government may have thrown the levers, but the hypochondriac Nazis who wanted you jailed for leaving your home, or not getting the poison jab, are the real enemy. People need to be made aware of that, and be told that it's okay to fuck them up for it. Your most direct and greatest enemy isn't some parasite in an ivory tower, it's the parasite living next-door who is leeching off of the power from the parasite in the ivory tower.
 
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