No dude I have tons of friends and I do t talk about porn with all of them.
Do any of your friends have anything else going for them?
Just sometimes about girls and previous dating partners. That’s why guys do we discuss sex it’s a very masculine centred and normal thing to do? Did you seriously never have a sexual thought or discussion before you turned 18?
You're mixing apples and oranges, and nothing you've described in this comment is what you've been suggesting for your desired KF discussion (which, again, I believe you are free to start). Here are the various things mentioned or suggested in your comments:
- Talk about porn
- Talk about what turns you on
- Talk about your relationships (including sexual relationships)
- Talk about sex in general (thoughts, questions, compared experiences, etc.)
Those are all very different conversations, and even though they can overlap at times, they are distinct. Which one (or more) is what you are wanting here?
Lol there were people who got laid at that age and there were other students in my class making fun of them for not losing their virginities at 16/17 sometimes even a year earlier.
Are you still 16/17? I know you're not, so are you trying to play catchup or something? What's the relevance of teenage first experiences?
You’re aversion to discussing this makes me think your all probably virgins anyway and don’t like discussing sec because you’ve never had it. lol virgins.
This is a very juvenile response to the pushback you've gotten. It's true that KF has its share of very conventional, some even prudish, commenters. That's fine, and it's their business. But it's certainly not universal, nor relevant - because even libertines (and they are here, too) aren't picking up what you're putting down. Everyone here is not a virgin, lol.
Which also brings to mind - you said:
That’s why guys do we discuss sex it’s a very masculine centred and normal thing to do
Why are you sexist? Do you think women don't like or enjoy sex? What kind of experiences have you had that make you think women aren't sexual (unless they're in porn?)? Do you think maybe that /those were...situation-specific issues? If you've had experience and found women unsexual or reticent to engage, perhaps they just weren't that turned on by what was happening or the overall dynamic. Just spitballing here, but though there are different social overlays for men vs women, and of course wide variation in innate sexuality, it's certainly not uncommon for a woman to be highly sexual, particularly with someone who turns her on, either inherently or deliberately.
Up your game, Felix.
(Porn and online sex stuff won't help that.)
Been dead for years and descending into liberal purity spirals.
Just another victim of the 2016 Election.
Haven't checked in regularly in ages, because the plot seemed lost, dumb trolling [plus in general I
hate less like forums without usernames] and just lack of traffic and
energy. But back in the day, I loved it and was also always amused (in a good way, mainly just because it subverted "typical" societal assumptions, whether I agreed or not) how conservative in certain ways many commenters were there. Oldfags, I guess. Went back a year or two ago and didn't recognize the place.
Doesn’t have to be sexual just all the women or men we find hot, no porn involved just appreciation for the beauty of the human for.
Charlie Hunnam and Mads Mikkelsen are hot af. There. Good?
Now: how have we all benefited from this comment? Spoiler: we haven't. No one cares who random KF commenter Dorothy thinks is sexy. I'm probably going to get those damned tmi stickers now -
thanks, Felix.
How?? I’ve been standing my ground here at least don’t you think? Better to confront people head on than ran away like a coward right?
This is back to my first comment: I was rooting for you when you parried a bit (I guess I'm a sentimental fan of a phoenix arc), but you just do not know when to stop.
Well if I’ve been doxxed it doesn’t matter, my life is already over so there’s no point in trying to pretend I’m not a freak, who am I kidding really.
I think you're at most half-serious here, but just in case: no. Your life is not over, because KF is not your life. Nor is the internet in general. And that applies to you and every single other person on the planet. And even if you think so, being given shit when you obstinately refuse to chill out is hardly "life-ending," even if you do live your life online (I hope you don't). If you think this is even a tiny percent true, then the best thing you can do is to get some help de-addicting yourself. You have resources; use them.